Reverend Debra Jarvis uses humor to heal.  She had me laughing out loud, and I'm pretty sure you will, too.  Hopefully, she will have you thinking as well.  Fired from her job, diagnosed with breast cancer, she still knew that she did not want to be introduced to other cancer survivors as just that.  She believes that cancer is something you survive, not become identified with.  When someone suggested they donate money in her name she thought, "How is that helping me?"  She said, "If they really wanted to do something nice for me they would buy me a nice dinner or a great bottle of wine."  This Reverend is a breath of fresh air.  Debra Jarvis will get you thinking.  She is honest, insightful, funny and circumspect.  I think you will love her as much as I did.