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  • Navigating Life's Storms: Author Spotlight w/Cherokee Cabell, Author of "Rain to Reign"

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    Get ready to embark on a thought-provoking journey with our guest, Cherokee Cabell, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker(LCSW) and Author of the compelling book, "Rain to Reign."  Our conversation dives into the heart of her inspiration, how her book has become a powerful tool for healing and personal growth, and why she incorporated blank pages(Lined ones to y'all) at the end of each chapter — a unique feature designed to aid readers in processing their emotions and thoughts.

    Don't miss out on this special author spotlight chat! Grab a copy of "Rain to Reign", and listen in on this kandid conversation that spans topics from personal healing to the significance of representation in literature.
    It's more than a podcast, it's a path to understanding, growth, and breakthroughs.

    Cherokee's Contact Information:
    https://www.lbc-t.com
    https://www.instagram.com/little_bits_counseling
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094063179263&mibextid=LQQJ4d
    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRZ2Y88V/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=672fcc00-82f8-47cc-8ad9-33da092018d6

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    32 min
  • Back To Basics: A Special Artist Spotlight Chat w/ Billboard Toppin' R&B Artist Noel Gourdin

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    Strap in and let's take a soulful journey with Billboard Toppin' R&B artist, Noel Gourdin.
    Noel is best known for his chart-topping 2008 hit, "The River."
    Get a front-row seat to a heartfelt chat exploring the stories behind his biggest hits, his Southern roots, and the musical influences that shaped his career. Noel opens up about his love for old soul music, gifted to him by his father, and how this ignited his passion to make people smile through his songs.

    Music is more than just rhythm and melody for Noel.  In our conversation, you'll learn about his unique approach to songwriting - a process deeply rooted in storytelling and experiences from his Southern upbringing. He shares how the highs and lows of navigating the music business have shaped his songs, and how his music seeks to foster unity, transcending race, gender, and status. Get an insider's perspective on the importance of quality control in music production, and the influence of social media on the industry.

     Noel's attention to detail and musical integrity shines through in his music.  So, come along for this intimate conversation with Noel Gourdin,  where music meets soul, and stories come alive.

    Noel's Contact Info:
    https://www.facebook.com/TheRealNoelGourdin/
    https://www.noelgourdinmusic.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/noelgourdin/
    https://twitter.com/noelgourdin
    https://open.spotify.com/artist/3u7hrkQcZmqCkcDg3WPczt?si=UG9vEaU7TQew5zZNi_TTIA
     https://youtu.be/ggSO45M8PNk

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    32 min
  • Relationships Evolving: A Kandid Chat on Non-Traditional Relationships

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    Have you ever wondered what the world of non-traditional relationships looks like? Join me in a journey through the labyrinth of non-monogamy and ethical non-traditional relationships with my esteemed guests, Gail Lynn and Jess Lynn. These two phenomenal relationship coaches share their personal experiences and insights into this often misunderstood terrain. From polyamory to swinging, we're breaking down preconceived notions and societal expectations, aiming to illuminate the myriad ways love can manifest.
     Join us for an educational and heartfelt exploration of the beautiful diversity of love and relationships.

     Key Takeaways:

    • Non-traditional relationships encompass a wide range of relationship styles, including polyamory, swinging, and open relationships.
    • Non-traditional relationships require open and honest communication, as well as setting boundaries that work for all parties involved.
    • Jealousy is a common emotion in non-traditional relationships, but it can be addressed through effective communication and understanding.
    • Non-traditional relationships can face societal and cultural pressures, but it's important to find supportive communities and spaces.
    • Diversity, intersectionality, and inclusivity are important considerations in non-traditional relationship coaching, and coaches should create a safe and inclusive space for clients.

    Advice for Those Considering Non-Traditional Relationships:

    • Take it slow and approach non-traditional relationships with curiosity.
    • Seek out resources, communities, and coaches who can provide guidance and support.
    • Prioritize open and honest communication with all parties involved.
    • Be prepared to navigate societal and cultural pressures, and find supportive spaces and communities.

    Guest Information:

    Gail Lynn 

    Relationship Coach, specializing in non-traditional partnerships & Founder of Relationships Evolving
    https://relationshipsevolving.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships_evolving/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipsEvolving

    Jess Lynn 

    Non-Monogamy Relationship Coach, Licensed Therapist & Founder of Both And Coaching. Jess is passionate about helping others to create healthy communication patterns with themselves, partners(s), and others so that they can design and embrace their relationship(S) dreams!

    https://www.bothandcoaching.com/

     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nonmonogamous_newbies/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090313045966

     

    Intro:

    “Welcome To The Kandid Shop” by Anthony Nelson aka BUSS

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    Stay tuned for more Kandid conversations in the future!

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    58 min
  • Lynn Forney Speaks: The Power of Creativity in Survival

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    Have you ever wondered about the healing power of dance and creativity? I had an enlightening discussion with Lynn Forney, an accomplished actor, dancer, filmmaker, and author of  "Choosing Survival: How I Endured a Brutal Attack and a Lifetime of Trauma Through the Power of Action, Choice, and Self Expression ."

    Lynn opened up about her harrowing ordeal of surviving a brutal attack, the victim blaming she faced, and how she found solace and strength in her love for modern and contemporary dance.

    Lynn's story takes us through her journey to recovery, where she unveils the power of art and dance as instruments to process trauma. She kandidly discusses her inner battles with emotions and depression, providing a potent reminder of how resilience and determination can navigate us through life's most challenging obstacles. Lynn's successful short film, ‘Hot Sauce,’ exemplifies the power of creativity as a survival tool; a facet she's further exploring in her upcoming projects.

    Wrapping up our conversation with a round of 'Ten Kandy Questions,' we delve into Lynn's philosophy and life experiences. Her powerful message resonates- choosing love over anger, and trusting oneself. Learn how her book is not just her story, but a beacon of hope for others who have been victimized, guiding them towards conscious healing and self-advocacy. This episode is a testament to the human spirit, a story of hope, courage, and inspiration, one that you wouldn't want to miss.
    Lynns Contact Info:
    https://prbythebook.com/experts/lynn-forney/
    https://www.instagram.com/lynnforney/
    https://www.facebook.com/lynn.forney.39/
    https://www.amazon.com/Choosing-Survival-Endured-Lifetime-Expression/dp/B0B2J877SV

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    28 min
  • Embracing Body Positivity, Queerness, and Disability: A Conversation with Author Clarkisha Kent

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    **WARNING: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS STRONG LANGUAGE AND MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR YOUNGER AUDIENCES.  MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY!**
    What happens when a woman fearlessly shares her journey of body positivity, queerness, and disability?

    I had an enlightening and often-times hilarious conversation with Clarkisha Kent, Author of the critically acclaimed memoir "Fat On, Fat Off: A Big Bitch Manifesto. Clarkisha opens up about her experience of leaving her parent's house, her sudden vision deterioration, and the story behind her unique name. She also reveals the vulnerability and transparency of writing a memoir and how her book aims to shift societal narratives.

    As we chat,  Clarkisha and I delve into the pressing issues black women face, particularly queer and fat black women in the healthcare system. We explore how fatphobia and ableism are perpetuated by medical professionals and why it's vital to challenge this treatment proactively. In addition, we examine the complexities of introversion and extroversion and how these traits can evolve depending on our environment. Clarkisha shares personal insights about her personality growth and the challenges she encounters related to representation in the media.

    My captivating conversation with Clarkisha doesn't end there – we also discuss the power of language, curse words, and the implications of faith and religion in our society. Clarkisha shares her thoughts on how churches often fail to provide meaningful support to communities in need and how her work aims to change this. Plus, we talk about the importance of having multiple perspectives in conversations and how you can connect with Carcicia to get her books and learn more about her work. Listen in and get inspired by the kandid and insightful Clarkisha Kent.

    Clarkisha's Contact Info:

    https://clarkishakent.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/clarkishakent
    https://www.twitter.com/IWriteAllDay_
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8oqk2NftBSSmWaDXDKFKFw
    https://www.tiktok.com/@clarkishakent

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    59 min
  • ”Everyday Heroes: A Kandid Chat w/ Katina Holliday Founder of Hollidays Helping Hands”

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    On this “Everyday Hero Spotlight episode, The Kandid Shop welcomes Katina Holliday, the Founder and CEO of Holliday's Helping Hands, an organization that provides interim housing and wraparound services to people experiencing homelessness in the LA County area. Katina shares her personal experience with homelessness via her father, as well as statistics about homelessness in the United States- there are roughly 582,462 people experiencing homelessness or 18 out of every 10,000 people.

    Holliday's Helping Hands takes a "hand- up" approach, providing love and support to those in need. This organization allows families to stay together, including same-sex parents and mothers and daughters and single father’s in a “home” not a warehouse-like shelter. The organization also operates a recuperative care facility for individuals who have been discharged from hospitals but still need medical care. 

    One of the organization's key programs is a 12-week life skills training program for homeless individuals. The program focuses on teaching skills such as money management, budgeting, opening a bank account, professionalism, completing job applications, writing resumes, and interviewing. The goal is to equip individuals with the necessary skills to secure and maintain employment. The program also includes hands-on training in retail services and landscaping and maintenance. The retail services program teaches customer service skills, while the landscaping and maintenance program teaches the necessary skills for those fields. The organization plans to expand the program to include a catering service, which will provide certification for those who love to cook. The program is part of the organization's holistic approach to addressing homelessness, which includes providing counseling services, mental health services, nursing staff, and specialized meals for individuals with chronic health issues. The program is designed to help reduce homelessness and assist individuals on their journey to finding permanent housing.

    Katina & Holliday's Helping Hands are committed to helping families and individuals experiencing homelessness by providing them with the support and resources they need to achieve self-sufficiency and a better quality of life.

     

    Guest Contact  Info:

    https://hollidayshh.org/

    https://instagram.com/hollidayshelpinghands?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

    https://www.facebook.com/HollidaysHH

     

    About Katina Holliday:

    From the time she was a little girl growing up in Aberdeen, Mississippi, Katina Holliday knew she wanted to help people.  How exactly?  She didn’t quite know.  Never in her wildest dreams, though, could she ever have imagined running one of Southern California’s most successful, minority-led companies dedicated to serving society's “forgotten populations.”As founder of Holliday’s Helping Hands (HHH), Miss Holliday is transforming the lives of both homeless and pregnant women recently released from the penal system who are taking their first steps to reenter society.  Through her specialized programs, HHH is helping give them newfound purpose.  But that’s not all her faith-based company does.  In fact, it was her ability to adapt to the needs of the communities she serves that led her to answer a call from the Department of Human Services.  The agency sought to ease the pressure exerted on our overburdened hospitals caused by the high numbers of COVID patients.  Miss Holliday worked closely with the County of Los Angeles to reinvent motels and hotels in communities with the greatest need into makeshift hospitals to accommodate the overflow.To get a glimpse of what Miss Holliday is all about, one need only retrace her upbringing.  Born into a

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    35 min
  • Artist Spotlight: Rick DellaRatta & Jazz For Peace

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    On this episode, I am shining a very special artist spotlight on Rick DellaRatta, Jazz singer/pianist & Founder of Jazz for Peace, an organization that provides empowerment, grant sustainable funding, and advocacy for nonprofits, artists, and all outstanding causes worldwide to enable them to be more productive and successful.

     

    Key Takeaways 

    • Rick's passion for music ignited at a young age, fueling his desire to bring joy through his musical talents.
    • Jazz for Peace originated as a response to 9/11, aiming to bridge divides and connect people through the power of music.
    • The concept started with a poem, later transformed into a musical composition, resonating with audiences and receiving positive feedback.
    • Jazz for Peace expanded from local concerts to a global organization, including initiatives like providing musical instruments to underprivileged children and promoting music in schools.
    • The conversation stresses the importance of preserving rights and taking action through platforms like music before it's too late.
    • Rick's journey emphasizes adaptability and seizing opportunities for personal and professional growth.
    • Rick's words and quotes gained popularity, demonstrating the impact of genuine expressions of creativity.
    • When we fill our souls up with creativity, artistry and intelligence ...we have a better chance at avoiding the behavior that leads to destruction. Rick DellaRatta
    • Jazz for Peace unites individuals from diverse backgrounds, showcasing music's power to foster positive change and bring people together.
    • The conversation highlights music's ability to ignite passion, inspire personal growth, and transcend cultural and religious boundaries.

    Guest Contact Info

    https://www.rickdellaratta.com/

    https://jazzforpeace.org/

     

    About My Guest

    Rick DellaRatta, the acclaimed jazz singer/pianist and founder of Jazz for Peace, has made an indelible mark on the music world with his extraordinary achievements. Considered "One of the most significant cultural events of our time," Jazz for Peace has earned a reputation as one of the world's greatest jazz acts.

    • Here are six unprecedented achievements in Rick DellaRatta's jazz journey:
    • UNITED NATIONS CONCERT: In a groundbreaking moment, Rick DellaRatta and Jazz for Peace performed at the United Nations Headquarters, leading an international band of jazz musicians from diverse backgrounds. This historic event played a pivotal role in world history, bridging divides through the universal language of music.
    • UNITING WORLD LEADERS: The Benefit Concert Series organized by Jazz for Peace has garnered support from more world leaders and prestigious supporters than any other musical event in history. This exceptional achievement underscores the power of jazz to unite people and promote positive change.
    • UNPRECEDENTED FUNDING FOR OVER 850 OUTSTANDING CAUSES: Through the Benefit Concert Series, Jazz for Peace has provided unprecedented funding and support to over 850 outstanding causes worldwide. This remarkable contribution has solidified Jazz for Peace as the most significant cultural event of our time, showcasing the transformative power of jazz.
    • HELPING CHILDREN: Rick DellaRatta's commitment to helping children extends through the Education Series & Instrument Donation Program. By using Jazz for Peace as a platform, he advocates for musicians' rights and promotes the importance of music education for future generations.
    • UNPRECEDENTED MUSICAL PERFORMANCE: Rick's musical prowess is unparalleled, combining mesmerizing vocals in English and Portuguese with virtuoso piano playing and outstanding compositions. His ability to seamlessly blend Latin and Brazilian rhythms has captivated audiences worldwi

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    49 min
  • Author Spotlight: New York Times & International bestselling Author of  ”A Child Called It”, Dave Pelzer

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    In this episode, I am thrilled to shine a very special Author Spotlight on National Jefferson Award recipient and New York Times & International bestselling author of  "A Child Called It" and "Return to the River: Reflections of Life Choices during a Pandemic," Dave Pelzer.  We chatted about overcoming hardships, resilience and living in gratitude.

    Key Takeaways

    ● Dave Pelzer emphasizes the importance of not giving up and striving for greatness.● "Return to the River" is a haunting love story that explores loss and the effects of the pandemic.● Dave Pelzer's childhood abuse as told in his book "A Child Called It," gave him the desire to live a life of service     that emphasizes the importance of kindness, manners, and making a positive impact.● Giving advice is easy, but applying it to your own life is challenging.● Reflecting on your past actions and taking inventory of what you did right and wrong is important.● Life is about movement and taking action to make your life better.● Resilience is crucial, and it means accepting your situation, finding ways to overcome challenges, and never giving up.● Resilience is about standing up for something and not falling victim to circumstances.● Life's challenges are temporary, and it's important to focus on the present and make the most of it.

     

    Dave's Contact Info:

    http://www.facebook.com/pages/Dave-Pelzer/120306964692233http://www.youtube.com/user/davepelzerofficialhttps://www.davepelzer.com/

    About My Guest:

    Dave Pelzer is an extraordinary individual who has achieved remarkable success as an author. He has reached great heights, becoming a #1 New York Times bestselling author and a #1 international bestseller. Additionally, Dave has been recognized for his exceptional contributions and was honored as a recipient of The National Jefferson Award.

    Dave's journey is truly inspiring, embodying the spirit of Esprit: Spirit, Humor & Wit. Despite enduring severe abuse in his childhood, his resilience propelled him to overcome life-threatening obstacles. For over 25 years, Dave's inspirational work has touched the lives of countless organizations and individuals, motivating them to remain steadfast in their convictions and personal growth.

    Dave Pelzer is a living testament to the power of perseverance and self-determination. His unique perspective on life, coupled with his wit and sense of humor reminiscent of Robin Williams, captivates and motivates others to conquer any challenge. Dave's life's work has been dedicated to helping others help themselves, making him a truly remarkable individual.

     

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    51 min
  • The Final Chapter: A Kandid Chat on End of Life Matters & Dying Your Way!

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    On this episode of The Kandid Shop Podcast, I had the opportunity to have a much-needed chat about death, dying, and end-of-life matters with two amazing guests.

    • Jenni Herchenbach, a death doula, end-of-life coach, grief tender, and founder of Flourish Collaborative
    • Amy Hensley, an RN hospice nurse, end-of-life educator, and co-founder of Sip and Wishes.

     

    The Stats: According to a Pew Institute study:

    • Only 27% of people have talked with their loved ones about end-of-life care despite 90% saying that it is important.
    • 60% of people believe that making sure their family is not burdened by tough decisions is extremely important, but 56% have not yet communicated their end-of-life wishes.

     

    Key Takeaways:

    • The lack of knowledge about how to create a plan is one of the reasons people don't write down their wishes and values for end-of-life care.
    • It is important to pursue a good death since everyone will die eventually. ~Jenni Herchenbach
    • People want honesty about end-of-life care. They want to have control over who is in the room, what they smell, what they look like, and other details. ~Jenni Herchenbach.
    • People want the opportunity to have a conversation about their end-of-life wishes, and the floodgates can open once the conversation starts. ~Amy Hensley
    • Preparing, educating oneself, and having end-of-life conversations can be an incredible gift to our loved ones. ~Amy Hensley
    • Documenting our end-of-life wishes can be incredibly helpful. This can include things such as advanced directives, living wills, and durable power of attorney for healthcare. ~Amy Hensley
    • People tend to downplay their feelings, especially when it comes to grief. ~Jenni Herchenbach
    • Starting small is a good approach to having an uncomfortable conversation about end-of-life matters. ~Jenni Herchenbach
    • It is important to start having these conversations early on and to revisit them periodically as our wishes and circumstances may change. ~Amy Hensley
    • Encouraging children to have these conversations is beneficial and can lead to a more open dialogue. ~Amy Hensley
    • Educating oneself on medical interventions and knowing one's own definition of living, can help guide end-of-life decisions. ~Amy Hensley

     

    Talking about the end of life can be difficult and uncomfortable for many people, yet it is an important conversation that everyone should have. Being comfortable with end-of-life conversations involves having the knowledge, skills, and confidence to communicate effectively with patients, their families, and other healthcare professionals about topics related to death and dying. It can be a challenging and emotionally sensitive area of healthcare, but it is an essential aspect of providing quality care to patients at the end of their lives.

     

    Guest Contact Details

    Jenni Herchenbach

    https://flourishcollab.com/

    https://www.facebook.com/flourishomaha/

    https://www.instagram.com/flourishomaha/

    https://www.tiktok.com/@flourishindeath

    [email protected]

     

    Amy Hensley

    https://www.sipsandwishesparty.com/

    [email protected]

     

    About Guests

    Jenni Herchenbach

    Jenni Herchenbach is a death doula, end-of-life coach, and grief specialist. As an occupational therapist, Jenni learned to sit with patients and families in the tender spaces built by grief — grief that accompa

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    47 min
  • THE TIES THAT BIND: A KANDID CHAT ON TRAUMA BONDS

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    !CONTENT TRIGGER WARNING!

    This episode contains discussions about domestic violence, abuse, and trauma bonding, which may be

    triggering to listeners with similar experiences. Please, please, please engage in self-care if you choose to continue to listen.

     

    I had the opportunity to have a kandid chat on Trauma Bonding, a prevalent issue experienced by people in abusive relationships.

    I was joined for this discussion by two incredible women who shared their insights and perspectives on the subject:

    Lianne, the Creator and Host of the Personal Development Podcast: “Watch Us Thrive.”

    &

    Natasha D’Arcangelo, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Certified Clinical Trauma professional, Certified Compassion Fatigue professional, and educator.

    Key Takeaways

    • Trauma bonds are the emotional attachment formed between a person and their abuser which often makes the victim feel compelled to stay in the relationship.
    • Trauma bonds cut across races, ethnicities, cultures, and socioeconomic status -Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • There are different ways a relationship can be abusive that are not physical – Lianne
    • Parents might meet their child’s physical needs but may not meet their emotional needs, causing long-term emotional damage - Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • When a relationship progress very quickly, it is likely a red flag – Lianne
    • The victim may think that the good days outweigh the bad ones, but it will get worse over time, and leaving can be difficult – Lianne
    • You can be in an abusive relationship even if you’re not being physically harmed. Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • Leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time for the victim – Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • It’s best to provide resources and support to those in abusive relationships rather than lecture them to leave -Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • If you’re in an abusive relationship recognize your worth and understand that you deserve better - Natasha D’Arcangelo
    • Detaching and healing from an abusive relationship can start with speaking up and using your voice to take your power back – Lianne
    • It’s not your responsibility to fix an abuser who is broken and needs professional help – Lianne
    • Every person deserves a healthy relationship - Natasha D’Arcangelo

    Trauma bonding is a piece of the whole domestic violence situation and everyone’s situation is different. If you’re a victim, reach out to someone for support, whether it’s a professional counselor, domestic violence shelter staff, or friends and family.

    RESOURCES: If you or someone you know is in a violent relationship, help is out there:

    • Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
    • Text START to 88788
    • RAINN -Call 800.656.4673
    • Trans Crisis Hotline (888) 843-4564
    • Trevor Project(LGBTQIA+)(866) 488-7386
    • Crisis Text Line: Text START to 741-741

     

     

    Guest contact info:

    Lianne

    https://wutpodcast.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/watchusthrivepodcast/

     

    Natasha D’archangelo

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/natasha-darcangelo/

    [email protected] (Not encrypted so no personal info should be emailed)

     

    About Guests:

    Lianne

    Lianne is the creator and host of the Watch Us Thrive podcast, a platform that focuses on

    personal development and mental health. Despite never having considered public speaking

    as an option before, she now finds herself fulfilling this role with great passion and

    enthusiasm.

    Through the Watch Us Thrive podcast, Lianne aims to shine a

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    42 min

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