As the daughter of an OBGYN, Danielle Bezalel learned all about vaginas — but pleasure wasn’t part of the conversation. Now she’s on a mission to help people prioritize pleasure. Today, she shares the incident that motivated her to become a sex educator, her own struggles with birth control, the orgasm experiment she did on herself, and tips for getting in the mood as a busy parent.

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Recommendations from the archive

Sex & Parenthood Series

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Episode resources

• Danielle’s podcast: Sex Ed with DB

• Find your shortcut to getting in the mood with Danielle’s smut quiz

• Danielle’s personal Magic Wand experiment

• Official Magic Wand study

• Planned Parenthood birth control quiz

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Alex was itching to ask her partner Ben whether he’d be up for having kids one day — a question that felt scary and extra complicated because she has Cerebral Palsy. To muster some courage, she turned to an unexpected ally: a tiny stuffed lamb that can see the future.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on August 16, 2017 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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College student Zaraia Fabunmi became a sex educator and a doula as a teenager. Today she shares how she's used that training to help her peers — and, at times, her teachers — plus the fascinating reproductive health research she did in India.  

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Recommendation from the archive

Zaraia is also in Ep #237: YOU KNOW WHAT: An LST Spinoff, a pilot we made featuring three super cool college kids talking about sex, dating, and relationships. (We are still trying to make this show! Email hello [at] longestshortesttime [dot] com if you’re interested in sponsorship opportunities!)

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Episode resources

• Planned Parenthood resources for teens

• You Know, Sex (Silverberg/Smyth): wonderfully dynamic and comprehensive book for tweens + teens

• Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between (Zaloom): great info and practice scenarios for teens + parents

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A young Mormon plays a long con on his childhood crush—in the hopes of starting a family with her.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on January 17, 2016 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Pop culture critic Kristen Meinzer joins us to share how as a tween, The Golden Girls — a show with grownup themes — helped her bond with her mom and grandma. She also recommends contemporary shows she loves watching with adolescents to spark fun and deep conversations.

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Recommendations from the archive

#118 All the Feels with Rob Huebel

#140 Zombies, Caillou, and Other Creepy Things

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Kristen’s full list

We couldn’t fit Kristen’s full list in the show. Find all of her recommendations here!

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More on Kristen Meinzer

Kristen has all kinds of amazing projects, which you can find at her website. Here’s a sampling:

• Kristen is a featured voice in ABC-HULU’s official 40th anniversary Golden Girls documentary, available in November

• She’s a host of The Nightly, a pop culture bedtime podcast

• She’s the co-author of How to Be Fine: What We Learned from Living by the Rules of 50 Self-Help Books

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Actor and comedian Rob Huebel talks about sneaking onto airplanes, why he doesn't share a bed with his wife, and what it was like to have their daughter live in the hospital for her first 117 days. And! The best placed fart noise ever.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on April 12, 2017 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Bobbi Brown built a career making people look beautiful. Behind the scenes, she was mired in breastmilk, spit-up, and sleepless nights. Executives told her to hide her motherhood; instead, she put her soccer-momness front and center.

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Recommendations from the archive

#77 Behind Family Lines

It’s a Real Mother: our series about workplace discrimination

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More Bobbi

• Bobbi’s memoir: Still Bobbi

• Jones Road Beauty

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Darlene's childhood dream was to join the military. She didn't imagine she'd also be raising three children solo. Tune in to hear what it’s like to be pregnant, breastfeed, and raise kids on your own in the Army. And to get shot in the back. Twice.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on March 7, 2016 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Recommendations from the archive

#19 The Mortality of Motherhood

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When Jean Hannah Edelstein went to college, she realized she had great breasts. Like, the kind that could win a wet T-shirt contest. But they also made her a target for harassment. Later, when she started nursing, her feelings toward her breasts got even more complicated. Then, when her son was four, she learned she would have to say goodbye to them. Today, Jean walks us through the life cycle of her breasts — from when she first noticed them to when she lost them.

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Recommendations from the archive

#108 Boobs

#109 More Boobs

#203 When Mommy Boobs Go Viral

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When you get pregnant, your body changes (duh). One of the most common changes happens in your boobs (double duh). But sometimes your boobs change in ways that you don’t at all expect. Today we hear from two women whose boobs caught them off-guard, back when they became moms.

First, there’s Emily, whose nipples seemed to, uh, multiply. Then there’s Tara, whose boob betrayed her at age 26, when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Except it’s her *other* boob that’s really the star of this story.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on January 11, 2017 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new boob-related episode!

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Recommendations from the archive

#109 More Boobs

#203 When Mommy Boobs Go Viral

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