This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Sally deFries battles through one of the worst cases of nasal congestion she's ever seen. The gang gets through it and answers some questions in the process. Things like: 

- I dropped $500 on a birthday dinner and gift for my girlfriend. She broke up with me the next morning. Can I request some money back? 

-  Is it a red flag if you have the same appearance traits as your partner's ex? 

- Getting on the same page when it comes to how much house/apartment you can afford as a couple

- Laid off in Chicago - should I just become a "yachtie" for a year?

- Finding the right balance between surprise and sure-thing with engagement rings?

- Where should we do our babymoon?

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This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries is back in the co-host chair with Brett Merriman as they take on the hardest questions in the game. Not really. But hopefully you can relate to some of these: 

- If you had to defeat the devil in one activity for the battle for your soul, which activity would you choose? 

- How do I handle our friend's wife being too close with one of her male friends?

- Relationship tips for an ICU nurse? 

- Is it weird that I don't want a bachelor party? 

- Am I being unreasonable not wanting my friend to name her daughter the same name I have picked out?

- Romance novel recommendations?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Intern Calli Rubin fills in for Sally. The two break down the most burning questions their audience has and more. Here's what we've got this week: 

- Friendsgiving Do's & Don'ts 

- If someone ghosts you after a first date, can you call them out? 

- How early is too early for a Christmas tree? 

- Trying to talk to someone at a 6am gym class? 

- What's the criteria for working from bars?

- Couples trips on a budget? 

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Happy November! This week on The Mail-In hosted by Sally deFries and Brett Merriman, we're getting into wedding receptions, breaking off engagements, and much, much more. 

- What to do if you're the best man for two weddings on the same day? 

- Why do personal errand days feel so much more productive than work days? 

- Tips on throwing a great wedding reception?

- Breaking off an engagement and getting into a new serious relationship? 

- Traveling for summer trips: Montana, California, and Wyoming

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On The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are breaking down the most pressing problems and burning questions that y'all have. Here's what we've got this week: 

- How long after a trip or dinner do you have to send a Venmo request? 

- How do I deal with a break up from an unrequited love?

- Is one year too early in a relationship to buy jewelry? 

- I like a guy who doesn't want to do long distance...

- Is it reasonable to have a "tough love" conversation with your husband who's been unemployed for almost a year? 

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Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to break down your toughest questions that you need answers to. Here's what we've got this week: 

- Do I tell someone that her boyfriend is cheating on her? 

- Can I tell my new girlfriend I got my dog from my ex? 

- How do I come out to my husband that I'm bi? 

- Is something wrong with the relationship if I don't miss my girlfriend?

- Which month is the best? 

- How do I do a trip to New York in December?

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This week on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries: 

- Open relationship coming to an end 

- How do I date someone else in the friend group? 

- Is wanting to move in with someone *after* marriage a red flag? 

- How do I tell people they're not invited to my wedding? 

- Bridesmaid expenses are CRAZY

- Shower Thoughts 

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Brett Merriman is back from his week-long road trip to join Sally deFries on The Mail-In, where they attempt to solve your problems in 60-ish minutes or less. Here's what we've got this week: 

- How do you find the motivation to be productive while working from home 

- Brett & Sally's hair secrets 

- My husband and I have decided to not have kids, how do we tell our parents?

- Can I turn a fender bender into a meet-cute?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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Sally deFries is hosting today on The Mail-In. Sally and her sister, Lily, are answering your questions and breaking down your problems. Also answering a bunch of questions about being a mom. Here's what we've got this week:

- Halloween Costumes

- What travel credit card should I get?

- How to approach a woman without appearing creepy?

- MOM TALK (pregnancy, relationships, postpartum, & more)

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Sally deFries is back from Italy and we're FULL speed on The Mail-In. Brett Merriman and Sally are answering your questions and breaking down your problems. Here's what we've got this week: 

- What is your walk-up/closer entrance song? 

- How do you handle your younger sibling getting engaged before you? 

- How many teams am I allowed to be a fan of? 

- What are the requirements for cubicle decor?

- Can I ask my friends getting married for a plus one?

- Bachelor Party Pick: Las Vegas vs. New Orleans

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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