The Mail-In Podcast

This week on The Mail-In, Dave Ruff of Circling Back and Too Much Dip joins the show to fill in as a co-host with Brett Merriman. We're solving your problems, folks. Or at least trying to. Here's what we've got this week:

- What is on your "ick list" for a typical night out?

- How do you navigate the house-buying process in a city like Austin?

- Should I pay the best man who offered to pick up a steak dinner tab on a bachelor party?

- What should I do to get out of the friend zone?

- Should I quit my job to trade options full time?

- Solo for a day in Austin - what should I hit?

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries to give you what you need: answers.

- How do I tell my wife she needs to get her weight under control?

- I got a big promotion and am finding it's not all its cracked up to be. What do I do?

- My girlfriend is way too into the new appearance changing trends. How do I explain to her that I think they're making her look worse?

- How much is too much to ask my friends to pay for my bachelor party?

- What can I do ahead of time to be more confident in my transition to the workforce and office life?

- How do you unwind after long days of work? My anxiety spikes and I can't "turn off"

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This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are tackling problems like:

- Can joggers be business casual?

- After getting someone's number, when should you text them?

- How should we go about inviting a divorced couple to our wedding?

- Is it lame to have your bachelorette party in your hometown?

- Can I reach out to step parents who have been a big part of my life after a divorce?

- What is the cutoff age for a belly button ring?

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This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to tackle your most burning questions. Things like:

- Do you tip at a wedding tasting?

- Any advice for initiating intimacy again after having a child?

- What do you buy for a 1-year-old's birthday party?

- Is it wrong for me to not want to spend time with my coworkers outside work hours?

- Am I asking too much of my partner to define the future of our relationship?

- Travel tips for heading to Italy

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are here to help with weddings, bachelorette parties, social media and more.

- How do I stop my partner from doomscrolling and freaking out that the sky is falling?

- Picking between two best men

- Where is the line for calling the police on potentially abusive neighbors?

- Trash or not trash to post wedding pics that I look good in but the newlyweds don't?

- Do I HAVE to attend someone's bachelorette party that attended mine?

- Power rank leftover foods

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This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries returns with Brett Merriman to tackle the internet's questions of the week. Here's what we've got today:

- How do I tell people (nicely) that they can't always crash at our place?

- What do you do to manage friends that don't put in the same amount of effort as you?

- How do you ground yourself when so much around you changes in adulthood?

- Making wedding planning easier for my future spouse who has lost both of her parents

- Am I an asshole for not wanting to eat leftovers from my wife's cooking 3 nights in a row?

- Help me litigate a situation where I'm planning a guys golf trip in which some guys are planning on bringing their significant others

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Will deFries, creator of Sunday Scaries and husband of Sally deFries, fills in on the mic. Here's what we've got this week:

- One of the wildest drunk text situations we've come across

- Tips for trying to get pregnant with your first child?

- AirBNB rules when splitting different bedrooms with couples?

- How to start a long distance relationship with someone you met while they were in town?

- Is it weird that my girlfriend has pictures of her ex on her phone?

- Bachelor party ideas for Saratoga Springs, NY?

- El Tiempo vs. Matt's El Rancho

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Another episode of The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in which we get a question that we did NOT see coming. Here's what we have:

- Tips for hosting friends in town?

- Should I be ok with my husband going to strip clubs with his coworkers?

- Is my boyfriend getting a dog a dealbreaker when I'm not a dog person?

- Am I the asshole for not attending the birthday party of my 5 year old nephew?

- My boyfriend of 3 years has a "goon cave" that I didn't know about. Do I have to break things off?

- Solo travel tips for Los Angeles?

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Back on The Mail-In this week to break down the biggest problems facing our listeners! Sally deFries and Brett Merriman take you along for a WILD ride this week. Here's what we're working with: 

- Is it a trash move to not go to a wedding that was supposed to be an elopement? 

- Feeling stuck in life despite everything being great on the surface. Help. 

- I got Monica'd. Should we do a small wedding and save money for a house OR spend on a celebration for ourselves? 

- My best friend's wife wants me to be her hall pass. My best friend can't find out. Should I do it? 

- How to celebrate a divorce? 

- How do you handle a bachelorette party drop out who hasn't paid for the Airbnb or activities yet? 

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We're back! After a week hiatus due to some unforeseen under-the-weather children, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to tackle every question the listeners have to offer. Here's what we have this week: 

- How does Sally balance friends, family, travel, etc while being a mom? Any tips to a first-time mom? 

- My wife has a friend who dresses really cute. How do I nudge her towards that style? 

- How can I introduce the conversation of getting a babysitter to my wife? 

- How do I friendzone a coworker without it blowing up on me? 

- Am I the asshole for cutting down my wedding invite list? 

- How do I get past the fear of rejection when it comes to sex in our marriage?

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