The Mail-In Podcast

This week on The Mail-In, Brett & Sally get in to discuss your most burning questions like: 

- Hanging on to the thoughts of an ex, even though you're happily married 

- Honeymoon destinations 

- Decorating a house as a first time buyer 

-  Bridesmaids on Wedding Day

- Deciding to go to grad school 

- The definition of "hanging out" as a couple 

And a brand new segment "Who Did It First?" 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett and Sally jump into the usual to answer your questions. Fun situations this week. 

- Sally takes you through the do's and don'ts of Napa and Sonoma, California 

- What to do when your buddy just won't get over his ex... even though she cheated on him

- Dating while in the midst of working on your mental health

- Improving your significant other's wardrobe 

- Not having an Instagram while in the dating scene 

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett and Sally take on another round of questions from the listeners including: 

1. How do I meet a girl OFF the apps? I'm 32 and have a pretty good thing going for me but can't find the one 

2. What's a go-to skinny drink in peak fall beer and football season? 

3. Stop looking at your ex's stories. Promise. 

4. Housewarming parties 101. Spreads are important. 

5. Am I a dick for owning a nicer house than I can afford? 

6. How do I tell a girl I'm dating that I'm not comfortable sleeping with her until she's cleared of STD's ! 

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This week on The Mail-In, Sally's husband, Will deFries, fills in with Brett as they discuss the merits of meat pies and other assorted foods. They also dig into a wild engagement situation and talk through the trials and tribulations of owning a small business. 

(3:35) Will's hypothetical food truck

(8:45) What should my fianceé and I register for? 

(21:36) Christmas traditions going too far in a new family?

(28:28) Changing your diet in a relationship

(39:42) Uhhh my friend's girlfriend just bought her engagement ring with my buddy's credit card...

(43:40) Small business doldrums and how to get out of them 

(53:25) Golfing at a corporate event when you're bad at it... what's the move? 

(58:45) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett and OFFICIAL co-host Sally take to the mics to talk seasonal beers, Christmas gift-giving, and switching up careers when you feel your organization is crumbling. They also hit on growing out of college hook up culture and being "out of someone's league". 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Sally deFries to discuss the future of the show along with the usual - the moment you realize you're an adult, when is it ok to start talking to your ex again after you break up mutually, and what to do when your career goals don't exactly match those of your significant other. They also touch on relationships your senior year of college, personal space with your sig oth, and if it's ok to be on your laptop at a bar. 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Sally deFries to talk through the best wines for this fall. They also hit on asking for days off as a new employee, the best compliments for pregnant women (and what to avoid), and when to start planning bachelor parties. There's also a bridezilla situation that they breakdown and it gets messy. 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Randy Trembacki to discuss not receiving a plus-one invite, the weather in the north vs the south, and how to discuss past relationships of your new girlfriend or boyfriend. 

They also dig into Brett's recent move in Shower Thoughts, how to handle your ex being the maid of honor in a wedding you're also the best man in, and supporting a friend in their small business venture even though their product sucks. 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Sally deFries to talk how many dates can you go on before you need to break up outside of a text, ending friendships over wedding invites, and dealing with an "MLM girlboss" that your buddy is dating. They also hit on goals to accomplish before having a child, disclosing friends of the opposite sex to your significant other, and debate the merits of french fries vs. chips vs. chicken tenders in this week's Shower Thoughts. 

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is back! And joined by Washed Media video guy Randy Trembacki. They talk getting out of your hometown, what to do when the best man isn't pulling his weight for the Bachelor Party, and how to decorate your apartment while you're on the edge of adulthood. They also get into getting over a breakup and how to handle a situation where a girl you're seeing has just befriended a serious ex... 

(7:44) My hometown friends aren't interested in going out at all 

(20:51) How do I handle the Best Man not pulling his weight? 

(30:44) Where do I go to get inspiration for my fifth-year apartment? 

(37:01) My girlfriend dumped me and I'm down BAD

(45:15) So my new girl just became friends with my ex of 5 years... 

(54:19) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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