How mean can you be to your body?
Several years back, Nicole Ayers realized she wasn't okay. She was experiencing rampant thoughts and having nightmares, and old wounds she thought she had buried were reappearing.
This led Nicole on a journey of self-discovery only to find that she didn't like myself very much, especially her body.
She was horrified by how cruel she was to her body and now, with two daughters (ages twelve and ten), she couldn’t allow her body-shaming be the model for how they might relate to their bodies.
Nicole set herself on a mission to be a better role model for her girls and she did this through, of all things, writing letters. She started a daily journaling practice of writing love notes to her body and all its parts.
The transformation was liberating and was the tool that silenced the voice of shame.
Bio: Self-love sage and author Nicole C. Ayers is a dynamic and engaging speaker who gets real, raw and vulnerable about her personal journey to finally loving herself. And all her body parts. She’s a strong voice for female empowerment and the freedom it brings. Nicole’s speaking style is just like a warm embrace, pulling people in and leave with transformative tools to get to know themselves.
Nicole is the award-winning author of Love Notes to My Body, recognized as one of 2020’s best life-changing books, and its two body-positive companion books. She’s been invited by local and national media to speak about the importance of body acceptance and where she encourages everyone to disrupt the narrative that tells them they are not enough. And that their bodies are not beautiful.
Contact Info:
Website: https://nicolecayers.com/
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @nicolecayers
Phone: 704-451-8489
Links to three women whose bodies of work are significant to me:
Elizabeth Dialto, Wild Soul Movement: https://wildsoulmovement.com/
Taryn Brumfitt, The Body Image Movement: https://bodyimagemovement.com/
Sonya Renee Taylor, The Body Is Not an Apology: https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/