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Ambition Vs. Goals: Why I’m Not Goal Oriented

In a world that often celebrates setting and achieving goals, we often gravitate towards goals rather than pursuing our ambitions and potential. While ambition propels us forward, our inclination to be overly goal-oriented stems from a desire to measure our progress, run the scorecards, and for external validation. Ambition, a dynamic force rooted in a continuous hunger for improvement, allows for adaptability and innovation in the face of evolving circumstances. Ambition is acknowledging our potential, and that the journey is as significant as the destination, and in cultivating ambition, we open ourselves to a broader spectrum of possibilities unbound by the limitations of preconceived objectives. Ambition fuels a perpetual quest for excellence, fostering a mindset that thrives on challenges and values the intrinsic motivation found in the pursuit of our utmost potential.

In this episode, your host, Paul Lyngso, shares more about the dynamic interplay of ambition, potential, and goal setting. Drawing from his own experiences and insights, Paul sheds light on the fine line between ambition and goal orientation and how you can reconcile them for success in your fitness journey, business and pursuits in life. Tune in and get insights that you can use today to propel your personal and professional trajectories forward.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show 

[00:48] How to reconcile two opposing goals through ambition 

[03:41] Paul’s drive to level up and provide value to the world 

[05:25] How ambition and pursuit of potential are different from goals 

[07:05] The problem with measuring goals and running scorecards

[08:01] How to use ratio to reconcile goals and ambitions

[13:20] The ratio Paul uses to determine if his life is going in the right direction 

[16:09] Stepping out and trying to avoid regrets 

[19:12] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Surround yourself with people who force you to level up and use as much of your life as possible in the pursuit of your potential. - (05:03).
• A goal is external; it’s entirely focused on what you will accomplish, while the pursuit of your potential is internal, and it takes courage because there is no external validation and medals for it. - (05:33)
• We all desire external validation, but if you can get to a place where you validate yourself first, it’s very freeing from the grips of society. - (06:42)
• Everybody wants to grow their business, but if you are not paying attention to the ratios, it will fuck you up. - (11:29)
• When you sit on the sidelines because you are afraid to lose, you’re protecting yourself from failure but eliminating yourself from victory and ensuring you have regrets down the road. - (16:11)

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Paul Lyngso (Host)

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Imagine a world where we dedicate 90% of our working hours to pursue our passions and effortlessly produce massive results. That is your zone of genius, where time seems to fly by, effort turns into enjoyment, and your output positively impacts the world.

But that does not always come easy. There are many roadblocks that need resilience, determination, and perseverance. Fear and Limiting beliefs, especially, are the most dangerous roadblocks to that life of infinite potential. We must, therefore, learn how to overcome it through a shift in mindset and a willingness to challenge them.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as Lukas Resheske joins us to talk more about why we need to understand that though our potential is infinite, our life is limited, and we must learn to make the best out of it. Lukas shares this wisdom from his Letters to the human spirit that they must understand and answer to achieve their zone of genius. He also shares valuable tips and strategies to overcome fear of unleashing that potential.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[02:54] The three key questions you must answer to unlock your potential

[05:04] Why you easily feel drained when you work outside your zone of genius

[13:14] Why fear of rejection is the root of all limitations to your full potential

[15:40] How fear operates and the best strategy to overcome it

[17:39] The concept of Krav Maga and how you can use it to win over fear

[20:24] Shifting your mindset from society's conditioning on overcoming fear

[23:24] Cognitive dissonance and why it matters in your battles with self

[28:33] How struggling and conflict is just the human nature

[38:51] Episode wrap-up and key takeaways 

Notable Quotes 

• When you are in the right room, great things happen. - (01:31).
• Your potential is infinite. This means it is immeasurable, and you will never fully attain it. -(04:21)
• Every moment you spend working on something outside your unique zone of genius is a theft of your highest potential. - (05:04)
• You were born with a talent; if you develop it, you can gift it to the world. (07:37)
• Fear of rejection is the leading cause that drives away humans from their true potential - (13:14)
• Consistent body fitness can be your first battle to win if you aspire to win greater battles of life and societal conditioning. - (21:50)
• Once you flip from force to power, things become more effortless and infinitely more powerful. - (32:50)

Resources Mentioned

Power vs. Force by David R. Hawkins, M.D. Ph.D: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Force-David-Hawkins-M-D/dp/1401945074

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The Letter: https://v3letter.com/

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Attaining true masculinity goes beyond just physical fitness. It involves harmonizing physical well-being with personal style through dressing. Clothing is not just functional attire but a medium for self-expression and communication. How you dress reflects your identity, values, and aspirations. By neglecting this aspect, you present an incomplete picture of yourself. Fathers and husbands should take pride in their appearance as role models, demonstrating respect and self-esteem, positively impacting their relationships and careers.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as Tanner Guzy joins us for a candid conversation on style and masculinity. Tanner is a style and image consultant who empowers men to unlock their true potential by dressing well and projecting a confident, authentic image. He believes that in today's world, where first impressions matter more than ever, men must dress strategically to stand out and succeed in their business endeavors. Tanner's approach goes beyond simply picking out the right clothes; he helps men understand the psychology of style and how to use it to their advantage. His clients learn to dress in a way that reflects their unique personalities and aligns with their career goals, achieving a powerful and authentic presence that attracts opportunities and inspires others.

Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show with Tanner Guzy

[02:48] How Tanner has mastered appearance psychology

[06:18] Is there room for dignity and self-promotion to co-exist?

[08:32] Dressing as a way of sending the signals of who we are to the environment 

[11:25] Why judging people based on how they look is so true

[15:06] Understanding your fitness and styling sweet spot 

[25:10] How styling is a key ingredient to masculinity 

[36:23] Is it unmanly to care about how you look?

[42:01] Takeaways and why you should take your styling seriously as part of fitness

[48:57] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• When people don’t see the congruence between the person, we advertise ourselves to be and who we really are, they believe us to be dishonest, untrustworthy, and lacking genuineness.- (00:54).
• When you dress in an aesthetically good way and in a way that represents who you are, you feel better than you ever do in your cargo shorts and graphic t-shirts. -(03:55)
• It does not entirely mean you should not judge someone by their appearance. Our dressing sends powerful signals of who we are to the environment. - (09:54)
• Sometimes, we have so much psychological cowardice when we hide who we really are from the people who matter the most to us and, most importantly, how we see ourselves. (23:30)
• Fathers and husbands have a greater obligation to dress well. - (25:20)
• The skeleton key to life is discovering yourself and presenting that to the world. Once you project yourself to the world, the right people will catch your signals. - (41:36)

Resources Mentioned

The Appearance of Power: How Masculinity is Expressed Through Aesthetics by Tanner Guzy:  https://www.amazon.com/Appearance-Power-Masculinity-Expressed-Aesthetics/dp/1979138400

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Tanner Guzy

Website: https://masculine-style.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanner-guzy-0b4a5221/

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Beyond Busyness: Everything About Work Ethics Is Wrong

Everything about work ethics is wrong when we blindly equate it with the notion of being a hard worker. The societal perception and glorification of hard work and relentless toil as the ultimate measure of success can obscure the importance of focusing on growth and what we want to achieve. It is, therefore, essential to shift the narrative from the quantity of work to the quality of work, emphasizing efficiency, innovation, growth, results, and strategic thinking over mere exertion. True success lies not in the sheer volume of hours spent laboring but rather in the meaningful impact and tangible results we can deliver. Rethinking our approach to work ethics can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling professional life, where emphasis is placed on growth and evolution rather than a misplaced idealization of constant busyness.

In this episode, your host, Paul Lyngso, shares more about work ethics and how you can channel your hard work toward building competency and reliability, the true cornerstones of success. Learn how to focus on what it takes to produce the results, let go of the need for validation and approval, and be present in the season.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show

[00:12] How hard work ties to competency and reliability 

[02:02] The arbitrary nature of hard work as a success standard

[04:08] Paul’s social conditioning and how it costs him his sales job

[05:52] How hard work can become a protective mechanism for our ego

[08:08] The risk: What happens when you are result driven 

[09:08] Celebrating hard work vs. growing and getting better over time.

[10:45] Creating results and living from a place of truth, not frustrations

[12:12] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• The arbitrary nature of hard work as a standard is to keep us on a treadmill that creates a massive sense of internal struggle. - (02:06)
• When we remove the reward from achieving a task and replace it with working hard, we get so deeply focused on showing everybody how busy we are that we completely lose sight of the results. - (02:41)
• Hard work can get you validation and approval, but the same validation can keep you in your comfort zone and from getting what you want. - (07:58)
• Hard work is just a pre-requisite for any situation; it’s not something we should be celebrated for; it’s the price of admission. - (09:30)
• When we celebrate hard work, we’re lowering the bar and expectation of what it means to be a man, woman, or adult in society; celebrate growth, being honest with yourself, and getting better over time. - (10:07)

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Experiencing Life The Way You Want To: My Early Onset Midlife Crisis

Experiencing life the way you want to is about being intentional with your time and giving yourself permission to do the things that matter most to you. It's about making choices that align with your vision, values, and priorities and not letting external factors or other people’s opinions and expectations dictate how you live your life. When we're conscious and intentional with our time, we're more likely to make choices that lead to a fulfilling and meaningful life. So, give yourself the permission to experience life the way you want to, get clear on what you want out of life, let go of the inner conflict, expectations, and judgment, and align with your vision to maximize your outcome and achieve what you desire in life. 

In this episode, your host, Paul Lyngso, shares tips and strategies from his coaching experience and book reading metaphor story on transformation, intentional living, and time consciousness to help you overcome inner conflict, get clear on your vision, invest your time currency wisely and align your behavior with your vision. 

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show

[00:23] The genesis of Paul’s passion for helping people get clear and align with their vision 

[04:01] Paul’s story that he uses as a metaphor with his clients 

[08:27] How reading books has helped Paul cultivate intentionality in his life 

[10:11] Time Vs. money: How to minimize time expenses and invest it wisely 

[12:19] Intentionality and prioritization in shifting your perspective and outcome

[14:47] Being careful of who you let into your brain 

[16:36] Giving yourself permission to choose the way you want to consume a book

[18:08] Time-conscious can be a life changer in your life 

[18:46] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Reading books is a metaphor for how you are going to do everything, how you are going to spend your time, and what you want to accomplish with your life. - (08:39).
• Money is cool; it can do valuable stuff for you, but the most viable currency is time, and you should invest it wisely. - (10:11)
• Time is a currency; get smart on how you budget, spend, and invest in it. - (12:03)
• If you don’t prioritize something, it might not happen. - (13:05)
• There are many ways to read a book and gain value and insights from it without starting from page one to the end. - (16:58)
• Give yourself permission to change your mind, put the book down, not be linear, or skim for the high-level view to experience the book the way you want to experience it. - (17:11)
• Don’t just take blind recommendations; if something sucks, you don’t have to read the whole thing, experience life and book exactly the way you want. - (19:48)

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Finding Your Clarity and Taming the Busyness Beast 

In today's fast-paced world, it's undeniably challenging to resist the allure of constant busyness. The demands of daily life often conspire to keep us in a perpetual state of urgency, leaving little room for what truly matters in the long run. It's essential to break free from the head-down mode, allowing ourselves to look beyond the immediate and cultivate the fortitude to say "No" to tasks and distractions that do not align with our long-term vision. While the urgent may provide a sense of accomplishment in the short term, it's the important goals and dreams that drive us that truly shape our future. Learning to prioritize the significant over the merely pressing is a valuable skill in achieving a fulfilling and purpose-driven life.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as he shares strategies and an invaluable framework for achieving clarity on your mission and vision while ensuring your success and that of your team remain at the forefront. Paul's insights provide a roadmap for not only defining your personal and business objectives and effectively executing them but also leading with purpose while ensuring that your aspirations align with the greater good.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:42] Lessons fromEchelon Front’s Muster leadership training 

[02:14] Prioritizing and understanding everybody’s mission more than your own 

[03:29] How Paul got to a place of covering others but being ineffective in his mission

[06:48] How being 1-degree off course can get you away from clarity overtime 

[07:03] Taking inventory of what matters to gain and keep clarity

[07:53] Getting out of the head-down mode and creating the fortitude to say No to busyness

[12:36] A framework to cultivate clarity and increase efficiency in implementing your mission 

[17:54] Quantifying and majoring in what makes you feel like you 

[19:04] Prioritizing, piecing everything together, and adding more to your plate

Notable Quotes 

• Even if you are off course by 1 degree, being 1-degree off course compounds over time, and that’s what gets you lost. - (06:52).
• Give yourself permission to slow down, re-evaluate your position, take inventory of where you are and what is important to you, and contrast that based on where you are going and spending your time. - (07:08)
• Goals and objectives change over time and are moving targets; gaining clarity and keeping clarity requires some stillness and slowing down. - (07:22)
• It takes time and effort to step away from the doing, but it’s a worthy pursuit because it keeps you on track in the long run. - (07:42)
• It’s hard to say no to being busy, but don’t let the urgent push the important out of the way. - (9:23)
• If you can sit with the discomfort of saying No to busyness and urgent stuff, you can be at total peace with not doing things that don’t serve your long-term vision. - (12:13)
• If you can remove obligations, prioritize projects that will make your life better, and only add to your plate things that make you feel truly alive, the benefits to your psyche, productivity, and physicality will compound. - (21:08)

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Training is not just a routine but about being smart in your approach. Instead of blindly doing activities like walking, yoga, or hitting the gym, we should think of fitness intelligently by understanding that fitness falls under three main pillars: athleticism, lifting, and endurance. At Lyngso Fitness Academy, we believe that all three are important. But you do not need to go crazy in just one direction. You should blend them to reach your fitness goals in a better way. By combining these three pillars, you can train in a way that gives you the desired experiences and keeps you healthy.

Join this conversation with Paul and Tony as we discuss these pillars, what it means to be athletic, and how you can become more athletic, even if you were not born naturally gifted in this area. We will also discuss the many advantages of lifting weights and improving cardiovascular fitness. Being stronger makes life easier and helps you endure challenges better. It is a sign of a healthy nervous system; having muscle as you age makes you more resilient. Being weak can be risky, and you might not realize its limits until you get stronger.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Intro and what’s in for you into today’s episode with Tony Mastrolonardo

[05:37] How Tony came to embrace running as a fitness exercise

[07:44] What athletics is and the activities that fall under the athleticism umbrella

[08:33] How Tony writes the athletics fitness programs 

[11:51] Primary body fitness objectives for someone doing weight-lifting

[12:30] The benefits of building a stronger muscle mass

[14:00] Why would somebody want to get stronger?

[17:04] Building endurance and why anybody would want to build on their cardio

[19:46] The right mindset you need when working on a way to reach your fitness goals

[22:26] Why your fitness strategies need to be changed seasonally

[24:38] How individualized tactics must accompany your fitness strategy

[29:41] Fitness philosophies and principles by Paul you should embrace everyday

[38:35] Key takeaways from the episode

[39:51] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Since everyone starts at a certain level of fitness in their journey, someone’s fitness program may not work for you exactly. - (08:37).
• If you want to look toned, you must have muscle. But that also means you must lift heavy weights and push bodies beyond physical limitations to have muscle. - (13:23)
• You will look skinny if you lift weights and lose fat without building muscles. - (13:37)
• The stronger you are, the more resilient you are, and the easier it gets to go through life. - (14:04)
• Having a stronger body essentially means that your nervous system is functioning well. Also, being strong and having muscle mass allows you to age gracefully. - (14:54).
• Tactic without strategy is the noise before defeat. - (26:06).

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Paul Lyngso

Website: https://thegoodshit.info/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.lyngso/

Tony Mastrolonardo

Tony Mastrolonardo: https://www.instagram.com/tony_mastrolonardo/


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The Power of Vision in Cultivating Long-term Behavior Change 

Have you ever reached a point where you know what to do and just need to do it but are not doing it? Understanding what you need to take action and create long-term behavior change is the key to progress, and harnessing the power of vision is the catalyst for cultivating lasting behavior change. Learning to move beyond your willpower, discipline, motivation, and pain will help you get moving, but it will not keep you in the game. It's the vision of who you want to become, what you want to achieve, and what your values are that act as a magnetic force, pulling you toward your goals. When your vision is crystal clear and emotionally charged, it becomes your unwavering compass, guiding your actions day after day, transforming intentions into habits, and ultimately leading to long-lasting change and transformation.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as he discusses how to cultivate long-lasting behavior change and the transformative power of creating a clear vision that propels you toward personal growth and achievement. Paul also illuminates why traditional approaches centered around discipline, willpower, and moving away from pain may have their place but are often insufficient in cultivating long-lasting change. Tune in and get insights on how envisioning and becoming your ideal self can be the ultimate driving force for your end goal, offering you the sustainable desire needed to achieve your goals and foster profound, enduring change.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show 

[00:13] Why we struggle to get things done even when we know how to do it  

[01:08] Why willpower, discipline, and pain are short-term solutions

[03:24] How to cultivate long-term behavior change through vision 

[04:10] Creating a clear vision that pulls you forward 

[06:29] How vision creates desire that outweighs the discomfort of growth and action 

[07:13] Paul's trip to Denmark and how his vision drives him 

[12:25] Getting clear on what your values are to move past the excuses 

[13:43] Aspiration identity and creating a ’desire state’ for yourself 

[15:05] Steps to become the version of you that can achieve the goals you want in life

[18:16] What happens when you create your ideal or aspiration identity 

[20:10] Making living in alignment with your vision your second nature 

[21:17] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Willpower and discipline will always fade, and often they push us to do something that we don’t want to do; if you are in pain or in a situation that you strongly detest, you can master up the effort to do something you don’t want to do, but you can only do it if the pain of where you are is more than doing the thing you don't want to do.  - (00:36).
• Pain can push you to do things you don't want, but having a clear vision for yourself will pull you forward. - (03:42)
• Vision needs to be crystal clear and updated regularly: if you don't have a crystal clear vision of who you want to become, what you want out of life, and what your values are, you are not going to have a vision that pulls you forward.  - (04:10)
• The key to achieving something huge is knowing who you need to become to achieve that goal and becoming it. (14:13)
• Having a clear picture of the lifestyle you want, what you want to achieve, and who you want to become gives clarity into the vision of your life, creates the desire that pulls you forward, and makes the behaviors that are uncomfortable easy to stick with because the desire to bring your vision to reality outweighs the discomfort.

Breaking Through and Conquering Paralysis by Lack of Clarity

Many of us have experienced the frustration of wanting to pursue a goal or make a decision, only to be thwarted by a sense of paralysis and overwhelming uncertainty. This common feeling, known as "paralysis by lack of clarity," can be a formidable obstacle on the path to achieving our ambitions. Even when we have a general sense of where we want to go, the absence of a crystal-clear vision can leave us feeling stuck and immobilized. It's as if we're standing at a crossroads, unable to choose a direction because we can't see the road ahead clearly. This lack of clarity not only hinders our progress but also makes it challenging to fully commit to our aspirations. To overcome this hurdle, it becomes crucial to invest time and effort in gaining clarity, creating a plan, and taking actions needed to propel us forward and turn our goals into reality.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as he discusses the paralysis induced by a lack of clarity, the mindset shifts that you need to break free from the cycle of paralysis and empower yourself to make informed decisions, take action, and ultimately commit wholeheartedly to the journey toward your desired outcomes. Tune in and uncover the keys to unlocking your potential and achieving the results you've always envisioned.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] What is in for you in today’s show 

[00:30] Paralysis induced by lack of clarity

[01:51] Two schools of thought on how to break out of the cycle of paralysis 

[02:47] The perspective shift we need to take on to make things work 

[04:59] Soft offense: Learning to take action, learning from it, and evaluating along the way

[06:58] Cultivating a strong decision-making process and trusting yourself to execute it 

[07:44] The decision-making process framework that will help you get closer to your goals

[07:51] #Start with vision: Get clear on what you want to achieve

[09:28] #Understand and define your core values or non-negotiables

[11:21] #Define the currencies that you value in your business 

[13:51] #Quantify your values to set and maintain your standards 

[16:41] Taking action and having a strategy in place 

[18:12] Decision-making as the cornerstone of a good and successful life

[19:01] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Sometimes, we know what we want and the direction we want to go, but we don't have a crystal picture; even if we know the general direction, this lack of clarity holds us back and keeps us from committing to the process. - (00:36).
• When we are crystal clear about what we want, where we want to go, and what we want to achieve, we achieve great things and commit fully to the process. - (00:57)
• When we are not clear on what we want and don’t believe in our process, it’s really hard to commit, and we end up stuck and not knowing where to start. - (01:35)
• No energy is wasted as long as long as we’re moving forward and learning from it - (03:07)
• When you have a strong decision-making process in place, and you trust yourself to execute that process, you become free, and you can make big and small decisions and stand by your decisions regardless of the outcome. - (07:57)
• Defining your values and standards allows you to practice restraint or to commit fully in the face of big promises. - (15:40)
• In the business world and the job market, there are plenty of opportunities that us throw a single currency, money, and if we don’t kno

What is success? Is it simply financial stability of material possessions? What metrics do you track to consider your life successful? Or do you get frustrated by trying to live up to someone else's definition of success? Tune in to this episode to hear why defining success for yourself is the most important work you can do! Everyone has the capacity to create the limitless boundaries of their own success, not based on the traditional narrative of accumulating wealth. Nobody can tell you what success means for you. You decide it because you are the author of your life. You can create a decision-making framework or process that will set you up for success by ensuring that you define your success, the values you wish to move forward with, and whether the risk you take is acceptable to you. 

In this episode, we discuss the internal struggles that nearly everyone experiences but only a couple talk about in the process of creating success. It is the struggle between what we want and should do. Listen and learn an easy decision-making framework that will help you and make it easy to make decisions that lead you to a life of what you actually want.

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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] What is in for you in today’s show 

[00:31] Paul’s personal struggles with what he wanted versus what he thought he should do

[06:07] Experiencing true personal success

[06:45] Why trying to live up to other people’s success is imprisonment

[07:50] How a quality decision-making process looks like

[10:07] Three ways to make your decision-making process work for you

[10:50] How Paul weaves the tree tips in his day-to-day life decisions for success

[16:00] Assessing whether the risk you take for success is worth it

[18:54] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

• Making that scary decision unplugs you from the matrix of dilemma. - (06:07).
• Nobody can tell you what success means for you. You decide it. You are the author of your life. - (06:32)
• Trying to live up to anybody else’s version of success is imprisonment to your potential that keeps you in a state of confusion. - (06:45)
• No decision is in itself a decision. If you do not say YES to what you want, you are actually saying NO.- (07:22)
• True confidence is not about thinking that you will win all the time. A truly confident person knows they will still be okay even if they fail. - (07:57)
• We rarely think about the time and opportunity we lose when we say no to risks that lead us to success. Every day is an opportunity to get closer to your definition of success. - (18:02)

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