Do you think you can make it alone?How important do you think other people are to what you’re doing?Whatever level of importance you just assigned - double itYou CAN’T do it alone, and even if you could - would you want to?Think about anything you’ve already accomplished in your life - can you honestly say that you made it happen by yourself? Other people are almost ALWAYS involvedSo... Commit to meeting new people.If you want to start easy - make it 2 a week. You BETTER be meeting at least 2 a week.Better yet - how about 7 a week? Why not?But don’t just shake hands - what you’re looking for is a REAL and LASTING relationshipThis doesn’t mean that you’re best buds, hanging out with you every weekendRather, develop a real relationship to the point that they actually WANT to help you out.This is the whole trick, isn’t it? When someone has mastered the art of making others WANT to help them - there is no limit to what they can accomplishHow do you do this? - NOT by being fake.“How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie has some decent advice - but has led a lot of people in the wrong directionHe talks about acting very interested in other peopleThe most important thing is to be sincere, and sincerity cannot be faked.The book has led to a lot of insincere people to pretend to be sincere, doing more harm than good. They come across as salesmen and womenSo don’t PRETEND to be interested - BE interested.Your most powerful tool in building relationships is a REAL, NOT FAKED, interest in other people - what they’re up to, what gets them excited, etc…People can smell fake a mile away. There’s no way to fool anyone - and why would you want to?REAL interest in the new people you meet is the only wayLastly, find a way to deliver value to EVERYONE - not just the people that you think will help you down the roadDelivering value means helping them, in any way you can, NOT expecting anything in returnThis mindset, and set of habits and practices will lead you to so many opportunities you could never have predicted. Don’t keep score on relationships - just give value relentlessly - and huge things will open up for youIf you would like to be considered for featured artist, email music submissions [email protected]
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