Reasonably Happy with Paul Ollinger

The Narcissist Next-door with Dr. Ramani Durvasula

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Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist and author of the New York Times best-seller It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People. In this insight-rich conversation, Dr. Ramani explains the traits and behaviors of narcissistic individuals, how they hijack our well-being, and the motivations behind their attention-seeking behavior. She also relieves Paul of the sneaking suspicion that he might be a narcissist. Other topics include:


  • Gender and narcissism (ladies is narcissists too!)
  • The continuum and different types of narcissism, including: grandiose, malignant, neglectful and also self-righteous narcissism (Paul’s favorite!)
  • How social media has amplified narcissistic behaviors and their impact on society.
  • Gaslighting and other tools narcissists use to sow self-doubt.
  • Which cities has more narcissists, Los Angeles or Washington D.C.?
  • The Different roles that evolve in narcissistic family systems (the golden child, scapegoat, fixer, peacekeeper, invisible child, and truth seer)
  • The correlation between ADHD and narcissism 
  • The process of healing from narcissistic abuse and moving towards a thriving life.


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