My thirteen-year-old son has a goal. He wants to break 40 on nine holes of golf. Recently he had a three-foot birdie putt that would have put him in a great position to finally get there. He lined it up, stroked it, and missed. That was the moment. The moment when everything that followed depended on one thing. How quickly he could pause, reset, and move forward.

"You rarely control what happens, but you can control how long you carry it."

Viktor Frankl wrote about the space between stimulus and response, and how that space is where our freedom to choose lives. This episode is about training yourself to use it.

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Bob knew he needed to have a difficult conversation with a member of his team. The behavior was clear, the impact was real, and the conversation was overdue. But every time he thought about it, the same movie played in his head. The team member gets defensive, shuts down, and walks out the door. So he delayed. And while the team member didn't leave, the behavior stayed.

"Most of the conversations you are avoiding aren't going to end the way you think. Slay the fear and have them."

The thing Bob feared most never happened. This episode is about the false evidence you've been treating as fact.

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One night our family was watching Our Planet on Netflix. They highlighted a bird called the Laysan Albatross. When a chick is born, it doesn't move. It just sits and waits for its mother to come back and feed it. If she doesn't return, the chick dies. Not because it couldn't learn to find food. Because it won't move until someone brings it.

"At some point the chick grows up and goes and gets its own. The question is whether you have."

Nobody is coming to fill your bowl. This episode is your reminder to get up and go get your own.

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I volunteer as a lector at our church. One Sunday morning my name wasn't on the schedule. But when the moment came for the lector to stand up and read, nobody moved. The scheduled reader wasn't there. So I got up and did it. I didn't wing it. I had read the readings that morning. I was dressed the way I normally dress when I'm scheduled, sport coat and all.

"It's easy to prepare when you know you're up. The impressive part is staying ready when you have no idea if you will be."

If your number got called today, would you be ready? This episode is about making sure the answer is yes.

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There are two voices inside your head. One tells you that you aren't good enough, that you've tricked people to get where you are. The other tells you how good you are, how hard you work, and how much fun you have doing what you were meant to do.

"You might listen to the right voice and still fall short. But you'll never have a shot if you keep handing the mic to the wrong one."

The voices aren't the insight. The decision about which one you listen to is. This episode is about making that choice.

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I made it a habit to never keep a kind thought to myself. Strangers in airports, people on stage, anyone I crossed paths with. I was proud of that habit. Then I noticed a discrepancy.

"Kindness to strangers creates an image of who you want to be. Kindness at home creates a person of character."

The habit was only half built. This episode is about finishing it.

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I watched my eleven-year-old daughter, Lucy, play a tennis match recently. Two players, two completely different styles on the court. One playing offense, one playing defense. After the match, the coach said something I haven't stopped thinking about.

"Life rewards those who play offense."

The work you do every day builds your ability. But the work means nothing if you never take the shot. This episode is about the difference between capacity and choice.

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The 4th quarter of an NFL game has more points than any other. The last two minutes of each half are the most efficient scoring periods in the game. Same players, same field, same ball. But something changes.

"Urgency is a mindset. And mindset changes behavior."

This episode is your call to action for today. The clock is running. What are you waiting for?

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A chiropractor showed me my X-rays, walked me through a three month plan, and then said something I wasn't expecting. Something that had nothing to do with adjustments or exercises.

"Your brain is not a passive observer of your outcomes. It is an active participant in them."

The research on belief and outcomes will change how you approach everything you do. This episode makes the case for treating belief as part of the prescription.

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You're walking through the mall with your kids, and a boy their age rolls past in a wheelchair. Your mind goes somewhere immediately. You feel sorry for him. You think about everything he's lost.

Then one line from Atomic Habits changes all of that.

"Same wheelchair. Completely different perspective."

Your first thought was everything he lost. His first thought was everything he gained. This episode is a reminder that perspective is the lens you use to see life, and it is always your choice.

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