an intro to how i think about and practice awareness around patriarchal conditioning, internalised misogyny and de-centering men. a very complex topic which i hope we can further explore together. for many women the only thing between them and their next slay is a man or the imagined gaze of a man........ let's de-condition together!!

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00:57 - 1. the patriarchy

03:35 - 2. the “pick-me” seed

09:45 - 3. the 4 A’s of realizing things - awareness - anger - acceptance - action

10:41 - 4. how is the seed activated

12:09 - 5. challenging your ego

12:54 - 6. integration not avoidance

13:40 - 7. lean into your insecurities & reclaim your skills

14:57 - 8. beauty

15:55 - 9. domestic labour

17:04 - 10. desirability

19:46 - 11. emotional labour

20:40 - 12. radically accept & stay woke

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