Last week I found myself in a bit of a funk. I was feeling down and took myself through a 3 steps process that allowed me to move through it and come out feeling 100X better. This is a process I've been refining over the last year that has changed the way I deal with the "shitty 50" - the 50% of life that's painful, unpleasant, challenging and uncomfortable. I want to normalize being in a "funk" because we falsely believe that we should be happy all the time. When we're not, we make it a problem and often don't cope in the healthiest ways. Save this episode and come back to it anytime you're in a mood that you're struggling with.
1. Move TOWARDS the uncomfortable feeling. Allow, accept and open up to it. Notice how it feels in your body. Pay attention to the sensations, vibrations and energetic expression of the emotion you're experiencing.
2. Understand the cause. Your feelings are caused by your thoughts. What are you thinking about? Focusing on? Twitch from "thinker" to "observer". This is the practice of metacognition. By doing this, you gain insight into how you're creating your "funk".
3. Redirect your mind. Use the following journal questions to generate more pleasurable feelings:
What do I already know about this?
What am I forgetting to think?
What would love say?
What would the wisest part of me say about this?
What's the best case scenario?
Why do I want this?
How do I want to feel as I create this?
Who do I want to be as I experience this?If you want to master your mindset in 2023, join me in The Pleasure Project Program, my brand new coaching course that starts in January 2023. You will learn invaluable tools and get transformational coaching to create a more pleasurable, purposeful and deeply satisfying life. Click here for details.
If you want a taster, join me at on of the following New Year's workshops:
New Year’s Day for a Visioning and Manifesting Retreat at Pranify Yoga.
This is the first time since Covid that I’m bringing back my annual ritual of spending the day together in person dream-crafting, moving, visualising and connecting.
This year I’m bringing in brand new brain rewiring practices to help you program your subconscious mind to align with your 2023 desires and intentions.
We’ll do some yoga, release 2022 with a powerful exercise, create clarity for 2023 and learn self-directed neuroplasticity to create new neural pathways to help you become your future self. A delicious, plant-based lunch and tea will be served.
If you’re not in Kelowna and still want to ring in the New Year with intention, I’m also offering a free online workshop: Best Year Ever on Friday, December 30th at 9am.
Click here to join The Pleasure Project Program