The Pleasure Seeker

If You Can't Seduce Yourself... NO ONE Can.

The Art of Self Seduction is starting 2.7.22 and I have gotten lots of questions and curiosities regarding this program!

Could this one-month pleasure salon be right for you??

So often we don't even allow ourselves to imagine, fantasize and WANT what we deeply want... because it feels emotionally risky.

But maybe that's a sign that you're tapped into something that actually really fucking matters to you (and this WILL require some growing pains or change).

In this episode, I talk about exploring desire and fantasy (including any ole goal you have) in a way that FEELS GOOD.

Being honest with your true wants.

Letting them scare you.

Deciding what you want to create in REAL life.

Then the delicate, messy work of allowing negative emotions as you tinker with your fantasy creation.

Let your Pleasurescape guide you and evolve your life.

This conversation all about boozy sex and sexy booze and snoozy boozy bluesy sex is perfect for the new year. Y'all doin Dry January?? 

Well in this podcast, I talk with Jennie Juechter, an Activatrix of Aliveness life coach who helps women check their over-drinking and eating habits. 

We talk about WHY we want to drink, social anxiety, radical self-ownership, and ultimately the relationship between alcohol and sexual pleasure.

If you're curious about how to curate a SEXY AF and INTENTIONAL lapdance-in-my-mouth kind of relationship with drinking (that doesn't leave you sloppy or zonked by 9pm)... LISTEN UP!!

Plus Jennie is hella funny. 

Check out Jennie on IG (and Follow like a mofo!)  Here's a link to our collab interview we did last fall on her MILF's Droppin the Mic series: 

https://www.instagram.com/p/CWBgmoKJaZb/

2022 doesn't have to be about willing yourself off bread or cranking out brutally consistent IG posts.

In this episode I talk about the masculine and feminine pillars to creating A PLEASURESCAPE:  

1. Imagination 

2. Planning 

3. Embodiment 

4. Creation 

5. Amplification

We'll map it out, feeeeeel it and start the courageous work of creating epic pleasure.

Time to check your imagination!!

Does it actually bring more pleasure and connection into your body and life?

I'm joined by my lovely and turned-on client Cassandra Anderson as we talk about her journey that started with TON of DIS-trust of her body and desire as broken and subpar.  

Now she uses her embodiment practice as a means to ALWAYS check in with her body for what she wants.... and trusts her ability to create it. 

Listen on if you want some super practical, easy ways to create a FULL BODY YES to pleasure and intimacy. 

ALSO, if getting out of your head and into your body sounds undeniably delicious AND you are ready to take your pleasure to the next level, reach out!  

XO

Lydia

When I talk about embodiment, I'm not just talking about feeling sexy and relaxed.  

Your frustration and fury, sorrow and untapped desire... your uncanny power & truest self. 

In this episode, Tosca Necoechea and I talk about her work and practice of Krav Maga self-defense and her women's fight club in Oakland, Ca. 

We talk about combat training as a practical tool for women and more importantly, WHY physicalizing our unsavory emotions in a healthy way is radically therapeutic. 

As Tosca puts it, "it's more than just defending yourself; it's about the personal transformation that can occur when you enter your body and befriend the emotions you've been advised to suppress."  #MICDROP 

Interested in more ways to EMBODY your bigness and get out of your head?

We usually think we need to DO something in order to feel better. 

Fix something, change someone, make more money, solve a problem...etc.

I want to offer that no emotion is "bad"... in fact, we want to be able to feel it, understand WHY we're feeling it, and then let it go (FULLY). 

With a little drama as possible. 

Here's my process which is SO SO helpful in simply letting myself feel shitty before thought work or blatant numbing out or springing into reaction mode. 

If you want more support in learning how to embody your FULL range of self so you can access deeper pleasure and connection, JOIN my new small group coaching program The Embodied Woman. 

$500 

Starting November 15th, 2021

I have a sparkling, amazingly intimate offering just for YOU, woman!!

POLE CURIOUS?

Join us for a fun conversation about the power of POLE and Erotic Movement.

Today I’m interviewing Jen Pearce and Kerry Anne Aldridge, founders of Sisters In Motion, an S Factor dance and erotic embodiment studio for women in San Francisco.

If you’re getting stuck in your head and want to explore embodiment and erotic expansion… Listen UP!

Also, find more of their work and class schedule here:

https://www.sistersinmotionsf.com/

If you’re listening to this upon release of the podcast, join their free class Saturday, 10/9 at 12pm PT with the promo code “foundation.”