The Pleasure Seeker

The Pleasure Seeker

By Lydia FeldmanHealth & FitnessSexuality
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The Pleasure Seeker episodes

  • 6. How to Have a HOT Marriage

    It is possible to be a decade into marriage and feel butterflies


    And goosebumps

    And longing

    And D E S I R E.

    Want those whispers again under the sheets in the wee hours of the morning?

    The sneaky glances?

    The electric connection?

    You can create it AND not far from that relationship.

    It's in your hands to get back there now.

    I know this.
    My clients know this.

    And I want to teach you my simple process how you can too.

    Between laundry, bills and some new love handles, let's heat you and your marriage back up.

    38 min
  • 5. Just a Lil Gay

    You are a human.


    Your human sexuality, contrary to what you may think, is not binary,

    Sexuality is not a straight line for the humans.

    It's a subtle, undulating spectrum of individual nuances that create what YOU like.

    And you likely have a pretty good sense of where you land most of the time in that spectrum.

    But then... there are some moments 😳🔥😯that surprise you.

    You decide the boundaries of what works (or COULD work) in your sexlife.

    Threesomes, swinging, open, pan, bi, sex clubs (someday), orgies, porn, ummm all that NON linear straight stuff...

    Its human.

    Trust your human-ness.

    Your body, emotions & power of your minds & creativity.

    Here's how... xxListen on!

    24 min
  • 4. Your Desire Bank

    Desire is our life force! It is what literally gets us up in the morning, inspires us to do shit, find partners, make money, make babies and keeps us WANTING more.

    The thought "I want" creates a force within us.

    Magic can happen with that thought... as well as a slew of instant gratification quick pleasures that leave us feeling empty, fat, sluggish, in debt and scrolling mindlessly.

    So in today's episode, I want to help you harness your D E S I R E to create more of what you want... Plus, even when you "can't" have something and that desire goes unmet, even that can be used to your advantage... anticipation is power.

    As always, if you're curious for how Pleasure Coaching could help you specifically, head over to my website to book a consultation or email me at [email protected] 

    29 min
  • 3. How to OWN your sex life

    We often slip into relinquishing our responsibility in creating the vibrancy of our sex life... aka, he needs to change, I need to loose weight before I can feel sexy, pleasure can wait, it's out of my hands because it takes two to tango!


    All stories we tell ourselves that takes us out of creating the love lives we want.

    With my clients, I use Brooke Castillo's "MODEL" in helping see just how powerful our own thinking is -- I'll teach you here how to do the same!

    23 min
  • 2. Pleasure is Productive

    We were all taught a big ass lie that pleasure is lazy, indulgent and must be "earned" or gifted to us.

    That pleasure is saved for exclusive treats and not productive.

    You should be stressed, anxious, determined and punished in order to achieve success.  Thankfully, this is total bullshit!

    Pleasure my friends is your portal to better creativity, less drama and YES better (less "productive") sex.  Listen on for ways to create your pleasure protocol and see it work wonders in your life.


    For more pleasure magic, book your consult here for 1:1 coaching or check out my FB group: The Electric Ladies Lounge

    34 min
  • 1. Pleasure 101

    Welcome to The Pleasure Seeker Podcast.  I'm your host, Lydia Feldman, Sex and Pleasure Coach, and I'm here to remind you of your natural birthright as a pleasure seeker... and guess what? You're already really good at knowing what feels great!


    In this episode, I talk about why pleasure is built into your DNA and then how you be even more intentional.  The point isn't to fix a broken body, partnership, home life, or past. This is about noticing what is already your superpower and amplifying it.

    ALSO, want a worksheet to map your Pleasure Matrix?? Click HERE.

    For more, come and join my free FB group, The Electric Ladies Lounge or reach out for a consultation to see if coaching is for you. 

    28 min

About The Pleasure Seeker

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This podcast is here to remind you of your natural birthright as a pleasure seeker so you can go create your most vibrant, turned on life.