The Queer Confidence Podcast

This week I have another episode in our gay porn series.

This time with performer and creator Kaden Gray.

We got to talk about so much, from gender identity to shame and sex to therapy.

Kaden is a powerful creator and an amazing human being.

Let’s be honest, when you hear the label ‘porn star’ you immediately put the person in a box. 

Kaden is here, breaking out of the box.

Enjoy.

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We are in the middle of our gay porn series on the podcast, and this week I talked with Coach Nic.

He is a Certified Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker and soooo much more.

He’s an ex-priest who helps individuals heal sexual shame.

And he supports models in the gay porn industry.

This episode was so powerful.

Coach Nic is a fabulous storyteller with a boat load of stories and amazing wisdom about sex and self-pleasure to share.

This episode will get you comfortable and even excited to practice your own self pleasure, with or without a partner.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/88

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Today is the beginning of a brand new series where I’m taking you behind the scenes of the gay porn industry.

You heard me right.

This week we kick off with Davey Wavey.

You may remember him from his days as a YouTube star.

Now Davey owns a gay porn site, and produces scenes like you’ve never heard of before in the industry.

Peek behind the curtain with me today and take your self pleasuring to a whole new level.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/87

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I want to introduce you to a concept that has been working really well for me and my clients lately.

It’s a way to work with all the characters in your head, especially the ones you have shamed yourself for having (like your inner bitch).

This method will help you handle difficult conversations, and make big decisions.

It helped me work through my breakup.

And it’s helped me draw boundaries with various business partners.

Check it out.

Get full show notes and more info here:
https://coachalexray.com/podcast/86

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This week it’s time to get real.  Lots of us have been in that slow slide down towards a rock bottom, sometimes for years (and years…) while a part of us watches and wonders if this is all we get.  

Today I’m going to talk about what I learned about myself through and after all that pain.  Pain can teach us.  How we respond to pain is something we can change, if we want to.

I’m inviting you, this week, to consider how you want to respond to your own rock bottom.

Get full show notes and more info here:
https://coachalexray.com/podcast/85

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This week’s podcast is about the rubber hitting the road.  In some ways, kinda literally!  I keep talking about having your own back, so let’s talk about one way that can, and did, happen in my life.

I really love to support my friends, sometimes showing up in support ends up being more than I have capacity for.  Then there is the decision to stay or go.

This week we’re going to talk through how to make decisions for ourselves.  This isn’t easy but I’m here to tell you, making a decision on purpose supports everyone.

You got this, promise.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/84

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Today is a great day to talk about relationships.  In the movies and on TV, they all seem to just happen, as if by magic.  Two people in the right spot at the right time? Boom!  Done!

There isn’t much we see, growing up or grown up about what it takes to be ready and actually available mentally and emotionally when that relationship does show up.  So I’m here, laying out what work I’ve done, and keep doing, to help this relationship thing happen.

We’ve all got our own work to do, but let’s work together, we can get so much more done. 😘

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/83

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This week let’s be in the moment.  I’ve got a moment of calm for you, and a moment on the relationship between discomfort and what’s happening around us.  

When we’re in the uncomfortable moments, all we want is calm and quiet.  Then it seems calm creates it’s own type of uncomfortable motivation to begin again.

So let’s just take some space for being a messy human being.  It’s ok.  Whatever is happening right now, you’ve got this too.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/82

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I was thinking about you and about how s*x is one of the hardest (pun intended?) places to really feel confident.  So I decided to tell you 3 totally embarrassing stories about my s*x life.

I wanted you to know that I’m out here living this confidence thing, getting uncomfortable and living to tell all the tales.  I really wanted you to know, so you can learn to do it too.

Or maybe you just want to hear some crazy s*x stories.  Either way.

Enjoy! 😘🦄

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/81

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I’m so pleased to introduce you to my amazing friend and colleague Simone Seol!

She is a marketing coach who walks the walk. And we had such a fun (and slightly anxiety inducing) conversation about the ways we’ve f***ed up and learned.

Enjoy this conversation as we get a little naked, figuratively, and chat about our life and coaching experiences. Some of them were terrible and we’re not here to sugar coat it.

And tomorrow tune in for a special bonus part two where Simone and I share how we are working on being the change we want to see in our industry.

This is for coaches and people who are getting coaching too. Coaching is an amazing tool, but the industry has done a sucky job of valuing safety and consent.

Simone and I are committed to changing that.


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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/80-2

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