The Queer Confidence Podcast

I’m so pleased to introduce you to my amazing friend and colleague Simone Seol!

She is a marketing coach who walks the walk. And we had such a fun (and slightly anxiety inducing) conversation about the ways we’ve f***ed up and learned.

Enjoy this conversation as we get a little naked, figuratively, and chat about our life and coaching experiences. Some of them were terrible and we’re not here to sugar coat it.

And tomorrow tune in for a special bonus part two where Simone and I share how we are working on being the change we want to see in our industry.

This is for coaches and people who are getting coaching too. Coaching is an amazing tool, but the industry has done a sucky job of valuing safety and consent.

Simone and I are committed to changing that.


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I have an amazing human to introduce you to this week.  My client, coach colleague, academic and fellow ADHDer, Jacy Tackett.  

We started with hypocrisy, detoured through philosophy, got a little caught up with duality in coaching, cruzed around in sales processes and ended up with consent and so much more between.  It has been such a pleasure to be on her team and I’m thrilled to share her with you.

We had so much fun together I had to split it up into two episodes.  

Can’t wait to see you there.

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I have an amazing human to introduce you to this week.  My client, coach colleague, academic and fellow ADHDer, Jacy Tackett.  

We started with hypocrisy, detoured through philosophy, got a little caught up with duality in coaching, cruzed around in sales processes and ended up with consent and so much more between.  It has been such a pleasure to be on her team and I’m thrilled to share her with you.

We had so much fun together I had to split it up into two episodes.  

Can’t wait to see you there.

Get full show notes and more info here:
https://coachalexray.com/podcast/79

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I have some story time for you this week.  We are headed back in time as we look at how this thing called relationship works, or doesn’t!

The title is a giveaway so let’s cut to the chase, we broke up, of course.  Let’s chat about why and what I learned, all hanging out, with a bit of shade. 

Mistakes were made, all over the place, on all sides.  That’s pretty normal, we all have our ‘stuff.’  The best part is we get to work on it, together.

Much love to you.  I’ll see you there.

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Here we go! It’s time for the conclusion to The Big Move.  Let’s wrap this up with a glittery bow and some reflection on shaking up my life, and yours.

I know it feels far away to just jump off the board into the deep end and turn your life upside down.  Hell, I don’t think I knew what I was getting into and I went from one end of the country to the other.  That is ok.  

The truth is, it’s all just one step at a time.  That’s all we can ever do.  

Tune in this week for some ideas, (blow your mind!) questions and encouragement.

Cheers to blowing things up!

You’re more capable than you think.

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In this episode we're back to exploring my cross-country move. This week I share the last lesson from the road and a surprising twist on my relationship with my parents. 

If you feel pressured to always be on social media, you’re going to find a huge relief in this episode too.

As you listen along with my journey I hope you see that confidence isn’t something you achieve, it’s something you continually practice.

Tune in to conclude the road trip.

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What an episode I have for you!  Today we get stories, wisdom and way too much fun with The Old Gays.  Oh, and blindfolds, lots of blindfolds!

They share so much, they’ve got stories from creating The Old Gays, to coming out and being queer in the 60s & 70s.  

I can’t wait for you to get to know Jessay, Bill, Robert and Mick, the fabulous queens of The Old Gays.  They’re so passionate about meeting and supporting the younger generations and that’s something our community needs.  We have history in our community that we can’t lose and getting to meet and connect with the older generations helps us keep that history alive.

I’m so, so excited for you to meet The Old Gays! This was such a fun episode. I still can’t believe I got to have them on the podcast 🤩

Enjoy!

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Today I want to celebrate with you the diversity of LGBTQIA+ identities in our beautiful community. I’ve got 6 guests, each with a unique story to share about finding and becoming themselves.

This episode was amazing to record, each story has something to say about what it means to be queer. I hope you can find yourself here too. Or at least a part of your story.

This is what pride is all about. We each have our uniqueness and we are willing to stand together for each other and say ‘you’re not alone.’

Happy Pride Month.

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Have I got a treat for you this week.  In this episode I get to chat with Frank Smith, the creator and star of ‘Open To It’ a webseries about queer and polyamerous relationships.  

I love how Frank is helping to shift our community’s narrative from one of suffering to one of thriving with love and openness. He’s got a really helpful perspective on centering joy in our lives.  And you’ll love his advice for  poly relationships (because real humans = real opportunities for messes of feelings).

You’re going to love this conversation.

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Today I’ve got some help for my trans and genderqueer Unicorns when it comes to other people respecting our new pronouns.  

Sometimes it can be tough to know why and how to confront the people in our lives who can’t seem to get on board with our new pronouns.  Internet advice abounds but how much of it feels really doable?

If you’re not trans, or don’t have pronoun problems, this one's for you too.  We’ve all had the experience of wanting to confront someone, for 1000 different reasons and all the same stuff applies, no matter what the issue.

Not only can we confront people without needing to be angry or over the top, we can build our own confidence in the process.  Sounds crazy right?  Listen in to find out how.

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