This joyful, visibility-filled throwback deserves another listen.

Originally aired during our 2023 Pride Extravaganza, this episode features Brian and Alec Mazelin, a gay couple raising their daughter and showing up online as their fabulous, authentic selves. Their story of love, intentional family building, and unapologetic visibility is exactly what we need right now.

🎙️ “The more we show up, the more space we take up—and that matters.” – Brian Mazelin

In a time when LGBTQIA+ families are being erased from classrooms and attacked in legislation, the Mazelins’ presence is political. Their family is love in action, and this episode is your reminder that we’re still here, still queer, and still thriving.

🛑 This episode originally aired in June 2023, but its message is even more vital in 2025.

🎧 Take a listen. Share it wide. Let’s take up space together.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Finding your community and building it yourself
• Deciding to show up publicly as a queer family
• Parenting a young daughter while navigating online hate—and love
• Using humor and honesty to shift narratives
• Why being seen is part of the resistance

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Brian and Alec Mazelin (@meetthemazelins) are husbands, fathers, and content creators using their platform to normalize LGBTQ+ families and spread a message of pride, joy, and unapologetic queer parenting.

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This Pride Month warm-up replay is a must-listen.

Peggy Gillespie—author, queer parent, and co-director of Family Diversity Projects—has been celebrating LGBTQIA+ families and underrepresented voices for decades. In this episode (originally part of our Pride Extravaganza), she shares how her work has helped shift hearts and minds across the country—including the very communities where our identities are under attack today.

🎙️ “A child should wear what they feel comfortable in.” – Peggy Gillespie

We’re bringing this one back now because, in a time when lawmakers like Ron DeSantis and Greg Abbott continue to pass anti-LGBTQ legislation, we need stories like Peggy’s more than ever. From Don’t Say Gay bills to book bans, our families are under fire. But Peggy reminds us that queer joy, truth, and visibility will always be revolutionary.

🛑 This episode originally aired in June 2022 as part of our Pride Extravaganza, but it hits harder than ever in 2025.

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🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• 💥 Learn more about Peggy:
• 🔗 Facebook
• 🔗 LinkedIn

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Casey and Sarah share their beautiful, uniquely queer family-building journey—featuring a known donor (Sarah’s brother!), a nonbinary pregnancy, chestfeeding after top surgery, and building a milk-sharing network. Plus, we dive into Sarah’s breast cancer diagnosis and how their love and resilience are carrying them through. Full of heart, humor, and radical queer joy. 🌈

Through all the twists and turns, Casey and Sarah’s story is a powerful reminder: queer families show up for each other, through everything—birth, milk, chemo, and beyond.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Trans, nonbinary pregnancy after testosterone and top surgery
• Using a known donor (Sarah’s brother!) for at-home insemination
• Creating a milk-sharing collective and inducing lactation
• Navigating second-parent adoption and estate planning
• Facing a breast cancer diagnosis as queer parents of young kids
• The emotional parallels between pregnancy, parenting, and cancer journeys
• How queer love and resilience show up in every stage of family building
• 📍 Bonus: That moment when your mechanic plants the seed that one day you might be asked to be a sperm donor. #JustQueerThings
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🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Casey and Sarah are a married couple living in Philadelphia with their two young children. Casey (they/them) is a nurse practitioner specializing in trans healthcare and a midwifery school educator. Sarah (she/her) is a loving parent, breast cancer warrior, and advocate for queer family visibility. Their story weaves together themes of chosen family, resilience, humor, and radical love.

🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Journey Law (Philadelphia area family law specialists)

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Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbreaking late miscarriage after IUI in a clinic, to finding success through home insemination—and thawing donor sperm under a boob.

As we dive deeper, the episode unpacks the layered complexities of queer family building. The couple reflects on the fear and beauty of non-biological parenthood, the nuanced choice between known and anonymous sperm donors, and how a simple donor mix-up led to a deeper understanding of what really makes a family. With humor, heart, and radical honesty, Kim and Katie show us the power of queer intentionality, the importance of early and open conversations with their daughter, and the legal logistics we all have to consider—especially now.

Through all the twists and turns, their story is a beautiful reminder: queer families are built with love, purpose, and a whole lot of intention.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• From foster certification to home ICI: A uniquely intentional family-building journey
• The donor mix-up that became a story for the ages
• Navigating miscarriage, grief, and queer resilience
• The non-bio parent perspective and bonding fears
• Choosing an anonymous donor—and rethinking it years later
• Legal protections, second-parent adoption, and estate planning
• Talking to their daughter about donor conception, early and often

📍 Bonus: The sperm vial was thawed under a boob. Yes, really.

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Kim and Katie are a married lesbian couple raising their 7-year-old daughter in a predominantly straight suburb outside of Philadelphia. After facing unexpected hurdles—including a pregnancy loss, a donor switch, and the legal logistics of queer parenting—they’re now parenting with joy, honesty, and visibility. Their story is a testament to the power of love, intention, and community.

🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Zach’s Safari by Vanessa Brantley-Newton (children’s book about donor conception)

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What happens when your best friend offers to help you make a baby?

Jaimie sits down with Kait and Sophie—two queer folks trying to build their family—and their longtime friend (and now known donor!) Oliver. Together, they open up about the winding road that led them to one another, how a heartfelt email changed everything, and the love, planning, and community it takes to make a family—queer style.

This is not your average family-building journey. From navigating fibroids and reciprocal IVF to creating legal contracts and sharing meals during donation week, their story is bursting with intention, humor, and a deep sense of abundance. They’re redefining what family can look like—and we’re lucky to listen in.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Choosing a known donor over a sperm bank
• Medical complexities & the fibroid factor
• Navigating clinics as a queer trio
• Legal agreements, counseling, and the emotional labor of baby-making
• The beauty (and messiness) of chosen family

📍 Bonus: Hear how they found joy, built connection, and created space for grandparents, even across donor lines.

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Kait and Sophie are a married queer couple deep in the baby-making process, navigating everything from medical hurdles to donor contracts with heart, humor, and a whole lot of intention. Oliver is their longtime friend (and now known donor!) who offered to help grow their family in the most beautiful, chosen-family kind of way. Together, they’re showing us what queer family building can look like when it’s rooted in care, communication, and abundance.

🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Modern Families: Stories of Extraordinary Journeys to Kinship by Joshua Gamson
• And Baby Makes More: Known Donors, Queer Parents, and Our Unexpected Families edited by Susan Goldberg and Chloe Brushwood Rose
• LGBTQIA Family Law Attorneys: Mentioned law firms include Aaron Robinson and Tabitha Coe’s office specializing in queer family planning.d

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Two mamas. Two wombs. One donor. In this episode, Ana and Becky share their epic journey of building a family through simultaneous reciprocal IVF—yes, they were both pregnant at the same time. From pandemic sperm shortages to second-parent adoption logistics, this is a deeply lesbian, wildly honest, and beautifully queer tale of love, planning, and two babies born just five weeks apart.

This is a story of planning, spreadsheets, love, and so much queer resilience. Also, sperm selfies. And silk pajamas. You don’t want to miss this one.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Why they chose reciprocal IVF—and why they did it at the same time
• The donor selection process (including that pandemic sperm shortage!)
• Their deeply lesbian love story, from U-Hauls to board books
• Lessons from the postpartum trenches (and why doulas and dog trainers were essential)
• Second-parent adoption x2—just to be safe
• And the beauty of watching your two toddlers snuggle up in the same bed at night

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Ana and Becky are a married couple living in the San Francisco Bay Area. They’re thoughtful, funny, spreadsheet-loving parents of two, passionate about intentional family building, queer visibility, and silk pajamas.

🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Get you TQFP Merch here!

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Photo Credit: Lila Gray Photography

🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.

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Jaimie sits down with Jacob and Riley, a T4T (trans-for-trans) couple redefining what it means to be a modern family. From co-parenting with Jacob’s platonic best friend to conceiving their son using nothing but love, timing, and a little queer magic (yes, really!), this episode is a beautiful, affirming deep-dive into queer love, chosen family, and intentional parenthood.

They open up about stopping hormones to conceive, the emotional journey of pregnancy as a trans man, and how gender identity shaped their experience of becoming “Mom” and “Dad.” If you’ve ever questioned what a queer family can look like—this story is for you.

🏳️‍🌈 Plus, Jaimie shares why queerness isn’t a burden—it’s a higher calling.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Queer family building, redefined: Jacob and Riley show us that with intention, love, and a little queer magic, you can create a family that looks nothing like the so-called “traditional” model—and that’s exactly the point.
• Trans pregnancy joy is real: Jacob carried their baby, and spoiler alert—it wasn’t dysphoric. It was actually beautiful. Let’s expand what we think we know about pregnancy and identity.
• Mom and Dad, but make it queer: They weren’t sure those labels fit them at first. But once their son arrived? The imposter syndrome faded, and the roles made sense in their own unique way.
• Queerness as a calling: Jacob reminds us that being queer isn’t just who we are—it’s why we do what we do. It’s power. It’s purpose. It’s community.

🏳️‍⚧️ About the Guest(s) 🏳️‍🌈

Jacob is a trans man, a seahorse dad, and the founder of Pride and Purpose Coaching, empowering queer folks to live their truth. Riley is a trans mom with a passion for emotional intelligence, spirituality, and chosen family.

🔗 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Find Jacob at: @prideandpurposecoaching on IG & Facebook 🌐 Website coming soon: prideandpurposecoaching.com
• Everywhere Is Queer Apple and Android

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🎶 Edited by: Jerson Barajas

🎵 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol

🎨 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato

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🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.

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Jaimie sits down with Liam—a Scottish-born, England-based gay dad—who shares the winding road he and his husband took to adopt their daughter through the UK’s foster-to-adopt system. From intense evaluations to surprise newborn pick-up calls, this story is filled with love, bureaucracy, and a whole lot of intention.

You’ll hear how growing up under Section 28 shaped Liam’s identity, how he and his husband made the decision to adopt, and why they ultimately said yes to early permanence—despite the risks. It’s a moving, insightful story that shows just how badass LGBTQIA+ parents are.

🚨 Plus, Jaimie shares a personal update on her wife’s chemotherapy journey and why now is the time to secure those second-parent adoptions if you're in the U.S. 🚨

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• (00:01:30) Growing up gay under Section 28 in Scotland
• (00:08:15) Jaimie welcomes Liam
• (00:16:00) Why intention is central to queer parenting
• (00:23:35) “The world’s worst game show”: Deciding what you’re equipped to handle in a child
• (00:33:55) Foster-to-adopt in the UK: what it is and why Liam and his husband chose it
• (00:47:40) How a paperwork technicality delayed their adoption by 6 months
• (01:00:50) Why Liam and his husband are choosing to be a one-child family—for now
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👨‍👨‍👧 About the Guest

Liam is a Scottish-born gay dad living in the north of England with his husband and daughter. His story offers a rare and honest look at the UK’s foster-to-adopt process, shedding light on the emotional and bureaucratic hurdles many queer parents face—and the deep joy that follows.

🔗 Resources Mentioned

• California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
• Gaytriarchs Podcast
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🎵 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol

🎨 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato

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✊🏽 Take Action

• Secure your parental rights with a second-parent adoption
• Support foster youth and adoptive families
• Vote, donate, and advocate for LGBTQIA+ rights
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📢 Because representation matters—and queer families aren’t going anywhere.

History is watching. What we do now matters.

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!

Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny rise of online hate, they dive into how social media has shifted for queer creators in today's political climate. They also discuss second-parent adoption, why legal protection is a must for LGBTQ+ families, and how to handle the trolls that come with being openly queer online.

This is a fun and heartfelt conversation between two gay moms who are just trying to raise good humans—while also dealing with a lot of ridiculousness from their kids (and the internet).

🚨 And if you haven’t already, secure your parental rights with a second-parent adoption! Caitlyn and Jaimie share why it's crucial—and how you might not need a lawyer to do it. 🚨

🎧 Listen now for the laughs, the real talk, and a reminder that representation really matters.

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

• (00:01:10) Meet Caitlyn from 2ladiesand2babies—hilarious queer content creator and mom of two.
• (00:06:05) Parenting is a shit show—but laughing at it helps.
• (00:12:00) The state of social media: How trolls have ramped up, and why it’s more important than ever to stay visible.
• (00:22:50) "I’m woke AF." Fighting the myth that woke is a bad word.
• (00:36:29) Second-parent adoption: What it is, why it matters, and how you might be able to do it yourself without a lawyer.
• (00:45:31) “I've been lazy.” Jaimie on realizing the fight for LGBTQ+ rights is far from over.
• (00:50:04) Knitting at a protest? It tracks.
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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

• Caitlyn is a social media influencer and content creator who, along with her wife, operates the popular social media account "@2ladiesand2babies." Caitlyn shares candid and humorous insights into her family life as a mom of two boys. She brings a unique perspective as a social worker, while her wife is a homicide detective, giving their audience a multifaceted view of family dynamics and parenting. Caitlyn's content is appreciated for its authenticity and humor, often shedding light on everyday parenting challenges with a queer lens.

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 

• California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE)
• Find 2ladiesand2babies
• TikTok
• Instagram
• YouTube
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✊🏽 Want to make a difference?

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💡 Educate yourself & others on policies affecting our community

History is watching. What we do now matters.

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!

Marie Newman isn’t just an advocate—she’s a fighter. As a former Congresswoman from Illinois, she took on big fights for LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare equity, gun reform, and more. But her mission became personal when her daughter came out as transgender, propelling her even deeper into the fight for equality.

In this episode, Marie shares her unexpected path to Congress, the struggles of passing meaningful legislation, and why she refuses to back down—even as anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric ramps up across the U.S. and beyond. She also opens up about her family’s journey, the reality of raising a trans child in today’s political climate, and what we can all do to push back against the attacks on our rights.

🔥 Nobody is coming to save us—we have to be the ones to step up. 🔥

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

• ✔️ How Marie’s fight for LGBTQ+ rights began—and why she made it her mission
• ✔️ Her journey to Congress & the challenges of passing real change
• ✔️ Raising a trans child & navigating the medical & legal system
• ✔️ The dangerous rollback of trans rights & DEI policies
• ✔️ How to get involved and push back against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation
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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

• Marie Newman is a former U.S. Congresswoman from Illinois who built a career fighting for marginalized communities. Before politics, she worked in marketing, anti-bullying activism, and women’s rights advocacy. She’s also the author of A Life Made From Scratch, a powerful memoir about her journey. As the mother of a trans daughter, Marie has dedicated her career to creating a more inclusive world.
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