Walking on eggshells with your adult child?

In this essential video, we delve into the nuanced and often challenging dynamics of interacting with adult children, particularly when you feel like you're walking on eggshells around them. Many mothers find themselves tiptoeing around sensitive topics, anxious to avoid conflict or hurt feelings, which can strain even the strongest bonds. We explore key areas that lead to this cautious interaction, including the common triggers and the type of responses they evoke from both sides. From lifestyle choices to career decisions, understand what typically sparks these tensions and how to approach them with greater awareness and sensitivity. Additionally, we offer comprehensive strategies to improve communication, such as practicing active listening, framing concerns without judgment, and effectively setting and enforcing respectful boundaries. Learn how to transform conversations from conflict-ridden to constructive with clear examples of how to express feelings and set expectations without escalating emotions. This video is designed to empower mothers to foster healthier and more fulfilling interactions with their adult children, even when the path seems fraught with emotional landmines. Join us as we tackle how to navigate these delicate situations with grace, confidence, and a hopeful outlook for the future.

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0:00 - Introduction

0:45 - walking on eggshells

1:10 - Why we walk on eggshells with our grown kids

2:00 - Defensiveness

3:00 - Triggers

4:00 - Communication

5:00 - Building confidence

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If you are struggling with placing expectations on your adult child, listen to this!

How to let go of expectations (Adult children)//Welcome to our latest video on the delicate art of parenting adult children—specifically, the importance of letting go of our expectations. Holding on to these can strain relationships while releasing them fosters independence and growth. In this video, we delve into how respecting your child’s autonomy enhances your relationship, the emotional benefits of removing the pressure of expectations, and the significance of adapting to life’s changes. We also discuss prioritizing values over achievements for a more meaningful connection. Join us as we offer insights and practical advice to help you support your adult children’s unique paths without the burden of expectations. Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments to help enrich our community.

If you are a Mom who is on this estrangement journey and you are tired of trying to do this alone; reach out to me here for a 30-minute consultation to learn more about coaching (Not a coaching call) Discovery call link: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

0:00 - Introduction

0:45 - How to let go of expectations adult children in adulthood

1:25 - How to stop worrying about adult children

2:05 - Letting go of your grown child

3:35 - How to let go of a child who hates you

3:55 - Mom letting go of son

4:10 - Mothers letting go of sons

4:50 - unhealthy parent-adult child relationship

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If you struggle with resentment towards your adult children, listen to this!

How to deal with resentment towards an adult child. Are you struggling with feelings of resentment towards your adult child? You're not alone, and you have a choice in how to handle these emotions. In this video, we explore a holistic approach to dealing with resentment, emphasizing both emotional and physical health. Discover strategies like recognizing and acknowledging your feelings, prioritizing self-care, practicing mindfulness, and seeking professional help. Learn the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and engaging in creative outlets. We also discuss the power of reframing your narrative, building a support network, embracing radical acceptance, and setting personal goals for growth. Join us as we delve into practical tips and real-life examples to help you navigate this challenging journey. By taking proactive steps towards healing, you can rebuild your relationship with your adult child and find peace within yourself. Don't let resentment control your life-take the first step towards a healthier, happier you.

If you are a Mom that is on this estrangement journey and you are tired of trying to do this alone; reach out to me here for a 30 minute consultation! (Not a coaching call) Discovery call link: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

 

0:00 - Introduction

0:45 - Selfish adult children

1:00 - Signs your child resents you

2:10 - When your grown child breaks your heart

2:55 - why is my grown daughter so rude to me?

3:45 - When your grown child hurts your feelings

4:05 - When to give up on your grown child

5:00 - How to deal with disrespectful adult children

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Welcome to the Reconciled Relationships Podcast, your safe space for navigating the complexities of adult-child estrangement. Whether you're facing complete estrangement or enduring a challenging relationship with your adult child, this podcast offers hope, encouragement, and actionable steps to help you move forward. I'm your host, Sally Harris, a coach dedicated to empowering mothers to reclaim their lives amidst familial turmoil. While I’m not a therapist, I bring over 10 years of personal experience navigating estrangement with my own daughter, offering insights and strategies grounded in real-life challenges. My Christian faith is a cornerstone of my approach, emphasizing forgiveness, self-responsibility, and the strength to rebuild a fulfilling life. As the creator of a YouTube channel boasting over 1.7 million views, I've shared insights on family dynamics, self-care, and personal responsibility. My work has been recognized by the likes of Families Divided TV, The Justin American Radio Show, Watching America, Tamron Hall and Dr. Phil. Through this podcast, you’ll connect with a community of mothers who understand your journey and realize that you are not alone. Each episode is designed to help you cultivate inner peace, develop self-awareness, and gain insights into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. You’ll learn the importance of putting yourself first, discovering how prioritizing self-care not only benefits you but also your relationships. Together, we’ll explore ways to identify and improve patterns, such as enabling behaviors, while establishing healthy boundaries that promote mutual respect. The podcast features powerful expert interviews with specialists in psychology, family therapy, and personal development, offering diverse perspectives and practical advice. Additionally, solo episodes provide personal reflections and guidance from my own experiences and expertise, equipping you with tools to navigate your unique situation. Join us on this transformative journey toward healing and empowerment. Together, we’ll work toward building stronger, healthier relationships and a more fulfilling life. Subscribe to the Reconciled Relationships Podcast today, and take the first step toward reclaiming your peace and purpose.