The Self-Aware Millennial

On this post-turkey, holiday kick-off episode, J.Mix and her favorite rollerskating comrade, Marlo, cover the illusion that is gender and the importance of respecting people's pronouns.
They also have a lengthy discussion on Muslim activist Amani Al-Khatahtbeh's removal and arrest from an American Airlines flight after a white male passenger claimed that they felt uncomfortable. Lastly, they answer a listener's question about the "one penis policy" rule that many hetero polyam couples come across while dating multiple partners.

Other things discussed:
Normalizing fallow times of creativity, What J.Mix is learning in NOLA People's Assembly Political Education classes, How Marlo came to identify with their current pronouns, Intersexuality, Gender as a colonial construct, J.Mix's favorite gender neutral terms when addressing a group, Marlo's bomb-ass OnlyFans special

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Whaddup TSAM Fam! This week, JD joins J.Mix in a "friendly" discussion on a multitude of uncomfortable but enlightening topics that aren't sex-related (yet). The "benefits" episode, where they go into details on their sexual relations with each other, is available exclusively for TSAM's Patreon subscribers. :P

J.Mix starts it off by discussing the contents of her anxiety and depression from this past week. She also reveals that she is finally inspired enough to make some new beats to roller skate with. Both J.Mix and JD discuss whether the news of Mayor Cantrell's 2021 Mardi Gras parade cancellation leaves them fazed or un-fazed.
For the "Pony Tales" They tale a tell about someone that they're not over.

OTHER TOPICS: Steven Crowder and why JD can't stand him. Dangers of FB debates and text arguments. Dangers of Extremism. Reflections on toxic things they have had to UNLEARN throughout their lives. "Representing morals through actions, not appearance." Why J.Mix is bitter about other peoples "milestones" and what she plans to  do to take control of that. AND JD gives some important advice for celiac tourists that are looking to visit NOLA for the first time.

JD isn't really on socials, so if you have a question for him, just DM TSAM and we'll make sure to deliver the message in a timely manner.

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This episode is MANDATORY for all vagina owners to listen to, because so many don't realize they have endometriosis. This week's guest, Keah Moffett, breaks down her experience living with Endo. From being misdiagnosed by a billion male doctors to saying goodbye to her bellybutton, Keah's personal journey with endo is incredibly unique. J.Mix also covers her array of opinions on the election results, and Keah tells the ponytale about her unfortgettable interaction with the Obamas on Inauguration Day in '08.
Other things discussed:  the confusing wording attached to Louisiana's abortion bill, Rising Covid cases in NOLA, Super spreader concert in Jackson Square, and much more!

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On the second half of J.Mix's discussion with Lex Caron, they have an extremely engaging and healthy dialogue on the healing powers that sex workers inhabit throughout the community.
They also touch on: Consent and communication, the game of making bottoms cum, being rhythmic as a means of enjoying sexual pleasure, Prostate toy, AMAB folks journey to discovering their body's other nonconventional sexual regions, Ecosexuality, Titty sucking, Foreplay as the grand buffet and not the appetizer, Being "present" during sex, and sooo much more!

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This week's episode will be brought to you in two parts because the conversation that transpired was nothing short of divine. J.Mix is joined by her fellow revolutionary friend and "mugician" Lex Caron, to discuss the importance of collective healing within community after this wave of election madness is over. Lex discusses their love for music and the unity it brings revolutionary families who take part in marches and rallies for civil rights. They also unpack their strong opinions on the passing of the "Louisiana Love Life" Amendment (#1) and what it means to the marginalized vagina owners and their families who will feel the effects of the state's decisions before the people in power ever will. Lastly, they begin to touch on the many facades of sex work and the ongoing struggle to de stigmatize the shame and malice of performing sexual acts for money.

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This week, TSAM is joined by fellow self-aware millennial, Thane Marcus Ringler, to unpack how he applies the lessons from his self-awareness journey to inspire others as a performance coach, author, podcaster, and public speaker. J.Mix and Thane compare quarter-life crisis experiences and dive into "elephant in the room" discussions on race, gender, and the importance of millennial involvement in the community after the upcoming election.

Follow Thane on IG @THANEMARCUS and his podcast @UPANDCOMERSSHOW!
Visit www.thanemarcus.com to sign up and take his Self-Awareness course and obtain a copy of his latest book, "From Here to There".
You WON'T regret it!

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On this self accountability-focused episode, J.Mix and Christian reflect on times that they have physically and emotionally hurt others and themselves. They also discuss why we are, as humans, more likely to hurt our loved ones versus strangers or people we are not emotionally connected to. Other things discussed: Victory Belles, Working for Disney, Being Keyed, Middle Child Syndrome, Rewarding Small Victories, and sooooo much more!

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Suicide prevention hotline http://suicidepreventionhotline.org
Mental health  http://mentalhealth.gov + https://www.mhanational.org/get-involved/contact-us 

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On this week's Sex & Non-monogamy inspired episode, J.Mix converses with Haley about their preferences and challenges during sex. Thangs discussed include: Lights on or lights off during sex, being a third in an open relationship, flirtatious personality woes, befriending your metamour, high/low sex drive vs. high/low libido, finding your voice/explaining what you want in the bedroom, having sex with your ex after a big break-up, and so much more!

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On this week's episode, J.Mix goes into her vulnerable corner to discuss her current physical, social, and mental insecurities. From her broad shoulders, to her stuttering "problem," she explores some less common insecurities that are unique to her current livelihood. If you have any insecurities you would like to share with J.Mix, email her at [email protected] or DM her @theselfawaremillennial on Instagram.

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This week's episode is brought to you by J.Mix's intolerance for complacency. She is joined by her friend, Charis Gullage, as they discuss J.Mix's abrupt resignation from The Victory Belles. The ladies reflect on their experiences with the troupe and offer their suggestions on what current and future Belles should be mindful of when representing the group. Hint: "authenticity."

Other things discussed:
Charis's performance journey, Being black women in the NOLA Theatre, Representation/Diversity as a stepping stone and not a quota, Perks and downfalls of working for the National WWII Museum, Importance of maintaining your craft outside of your stagnant performance job, and so so SO much more.

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