Shloime Ehrlich is a rabbi, educator, and community leader in the Orthodox Jewish community, recognized for supporting struggling youth. He founded Bnos NY, a program offering a nurturing environment for teenage girls facing challenges, and contributes to Kesher Nafshi, delivering talks on resilience and support for individuals and families. He also specializes in couples counseling and marriage, with a focus on blended families, helping them navigate their unique dynamics.
00:00 – Intro
00:44 – Rabbi Erlich’s Journey
07:35 – Dating vs shidduch System
12:38 – Roles in the marriage
20:45 –Are divorces disposable?
22:16 – Seeking advice from the right people
24:33 – Knowing who the kids really wanna marry
27:54 – Bias Din and Toyanim
33:50 – Family court disputes
37:10 - When do you know the marriage will not work?
41:18 - Not letting the ex have custody
45:25 - Getting out of toxic relationships
49:12 - living with the decision after a divorce
51:49 - Do tolerance levels change for second marriage?
58:23 - Children who take advantage of divorce
01:01:56 - Learning to trust again
01:06:11 - Successful second marriages
01:08:24 - The right way to get divorced
01:10:38 - Self blame and healing
01:14:52 - Gaining children’s trust in blended families
01:18:05 - Why are kids misbehaving and dropping out of schools?
01:28:11 - Who is you’re role model?
01:30:28 - Final thoughts
01:34:27 - Outro
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