In Episode 13, Pam Crawford shares her story with us shedding light on not only the early years, but her career as a breeding manager, realtor and trainer's wife. She and husband Todd, have just celebrated 45 years of marriage!

As we spoke she revealed layer upon layer of what has made their marriage work in the western performance horse world as Todd grew to be an icon in not only the reined cow horse, and reining, but the industry as a whole. He is an NRCHA $3 Million rider, and has almost reached $1 Million in NRHA as well! Todd is also a member of the NRCHA Hall of Fame, and a past NRCHA President.

Together, Pam and Todd contribute countless hours to the grass roots of the association to ensure longevity by promoting youth and other programs to build a strong future.

The Trainer’s Wife is a podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers.

Episode 12, of The Trainer's Wife, was recorded during the NRCHA Derby in Scottsdale, AZ, with local wife, Mindy Barkemeyer, who says she married her best friend, over twenty years ago and has never looked back! Brad is an NRCHA Professional, World's Greatest Horseman Finalist, and has NRCHA earnings of $240,000 to date. Most importantly, they have a beautiful family, thriving business, and goals for the future as their children leave the nest and they consider what's next.

Mindy is open and honest about being a young mother, the changes it brings to daily life, and how to persevere in the western equine industry while not losing your identity. She is a woman of strong faith, which has served her family well!

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers.

In the episode, I talk with Chelsi Johnson, from Twin Falls, Idaho. She is the wife of NRCHA Professional, JD Johnson who has started to excel in the reined cow horse arena over the last several years. The couple splits their time between Idaho and Arizona, taking advantage of all the Grand Canyon State has to offer during long winter months up north.

Chelsi shares stories about being the wife of a young horse trainer just starting out, and how important it was to have qualified mentor's from the business in their lives. She is committed to helping her husband succeed and willing to do whatever is needed to push him forward.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers.

In the episode, I talk with LaDona Emmons, from Ione, CA. She is the wife of Ron Emmons ~ Two time, World's Greatest Horseman, NRCHA Professional and Hall of Fame Member.

LaDona shares important lessons about business and finance, and how she and Ron manage those things together with transparency. She also recognizes the importance of the support and connection with other wives in the business.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers.

In this episode, I talk with Brianna Koch, wife of NRCHA Million Dollar Rider, Matt Koch. She tells us about life growing up in Alaska, and her journey into the horse world. She also opens up about the sacrifices she and Matt have made to enhance the life of their child.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

In the episode, I talk with Jennifer Gillespie. She is the wife of NRCHA Professional, Judge and Commentator, Taylor Gillespie.

Jen is candid with us about how she learned to manage their income taxes in a way to allow a self employed horse trainer to obtain a home mortgage - great information to have! She also talks about her husband's military career and their new opportunity with War Horses for Veterans.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

In this episode, I welcome Tricia Gilson of Sanger, California. She is the Horse Division Manager of Booth Ranches, as well as being the wife of Professional Horseman, Tracer Gilson, who trains reined cow horses and reiners . Tricia brings us very insightful information in regard to finances, raising children in the industry and remembering how to be a soft place to fall for your husband, in a world where you have to be double tough, most of the time.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry. For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

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Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry.For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

Colorado based, Reanna Dillman, talks about how to lose, how to win and keeping perspective. She and her husband Dave share a motto: "Never too high, and never too low." In this episode, we explore what that means.

Welcome, to the Trainer's Wife

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. 

A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry.

For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.

These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. 

Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. 

This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

"On the 7th day, it's maintenance - we do more work," says Tammy Johnston. She is the wife of NRCHA Professional and Million Dollar rider, Lance Johnston. Hard work has put them on the map of the western equine performance horse industry, where their specialty is reined cow horse.

Welcome to, The Trainer's Wife.

Welcome to, The Trainer’s Wife. 

A podcast dedicated to celebrating the wives, and on occasion the husbands, of horse trainer’s in the western equine industry.

For 35 years I’ve watched talented, successful, brave, beautiful women pour themselves into their husbands careers.

These women not only manage and build his business, they manage and build their own as well, sometimes while trying to train and show horses themselves. 

Whether they are cheering for him from the stands, the back gate, their computer screen at work, or the kids basketball game, they rarely miss one of his go’s at a show. And when he’s done they have the ultimate task of supporting him with empathy, love and acceptance. They have to find the right words to fit each run, learn how to respond and not react, know when and how to offer constructive criticism or just sit in the quiet and let it be. 

This podcast is about exploring not only what these women bring to complex relationships, but how they continue to be strong, resilient and independent while not losing themselves or being swallowed by their husbands careers. 

My guest today is the wife of NRHA Professional, Shane Brown. She is an artist and an author of women's psychological thrillers in addition to all of her day to day duties of being a trainer's wife. Welcome, Stacey Brown!

Be sure to search for her on Facebook, by looking for, The Dotted Eye ~ her artwork. You can also find her books on Amazon, under the moniker, Sterling Blake.