Could it be that the vast majority of black brothers speaking on the issue of how single black women with kids are the least desired- have indeed in their past, left a woman and his kids behind at one time-themselves.

 And although there are several obstacles involved as to fathering kids that are not your own such as: will the child grow to have respect for me? Can I discipline the child without my every move seen as child abuse? Will my new significant other take out her frustration that she has for her child's father be re-directed towards me? Is my new girlfriend still sleeping with her baby daddy? Or, will I have to fight over territory, when the biological father communicates or visits  with the children.

 Because we live in a society that now- says," to pick a man or woman better than your ex." which in retrospect, has left many women who have played themselves out of a stable family for herself and her children and leaves many men bitter about having to finance 2-3 households only to find out that many women have inner emotional issues- and that it was to his better judgement to at least stay with the woman( that you are familiar with her quirks and issues) who has his biological seeds.

 So many black men are coming forth with the dislike in entertaining the ideal of raising another man's offspring; without encouraging more black men to stay at home with the woman he originally had his children with.

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Staying at home past childhood years has stifled many of men from standing on their own " two feet" and accumulating the basic survival skills- that leave them without coping mechanisms that enable them to deal with  daily responsibilities, job occupation, and parenthood.

After the midnight rendezvous ( where he often displays masculine strength) wears off; their female significant other may bring up the discrepancy she often feels as to the neglect( in regards to the areas where the average woman needs a man the most ) that she has come to grips with, as she faces the reality that something within the relationship is amiss.  

With the black woman, vying for some form of accountability from the black man- and the black man feeling psychologically worn out- from what he feels is unrealistic, over-demanding, and meaningless arguing ( or dialogue.) 

He  then, retreats( escapes) to where he feels most comfortable at ..

His mother's house....

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Can a woman walk outside with hardly any clothes on and still expect men to respect her, or for men to pass by without having impure thoughts?

Can a man engage in certain conversations( or ask intrusive questions) with unfamiliar women without being propositioned(treated or approached) as a "generous male" of the night?

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Can we fairly say,  that the white woman is more soft spoken, without pointing out the fact that she isn't called out of her name (verbally abused)24/7.

Or, that she isn't aggressive or hasn't been known to throw a tantum or two, when in actuality it just remains " out of sight" and hidden, because white men wont allow you, the media, or any other man; to portray white women as anything  other than what white men want their women portrayed as?

Furthermore, what if Black Men took  the same amount of time and energy they spend, glorifying and uplifting other women- to do so for their own women?

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What would it feel like to never have a loan, or employment application approved or denied based off of the inner feelings or thoughts  of a Caucasian person in the USA.

Majority of Black people are not asking to be liked, included in. or accepted by white people.

They simply ask for; what most  Caucasians in this Country feel," naturally" entitled to.

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Break the Black woman so that  she is eating out of our hands.( Willie Lynch Letter Excerpt) 

How was the black woman broken to be led to  eat out of who's hands? Furthermore, how does the black woman continue to eat out of " their hand." 

We will negotiate by the black woman and at will through the black woman.( Willie Lynch Letter Excerpt) 

How are they negotiating vicariously through black women even till this day, and for what purpose?

Who is effected?

How does this method keep black men and women ( as a whole) nearly at a thousand year disadvantage.

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In order for black people as a whole to heal. Black women must raise their self esteem, and the awareness of what contributes to low self esteem.

The black man and woman must rise together- because if  one is healed without the other - the cycle and domino effect of trauma will continue from black man , woman, to child- and back again.

As black women we are asking for black men to evolve, but we must do our part as well.

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Its ironic how just like the  black woman- other nationalities of  women experience anger, depression, and express ill- tempered mannerisms  towards others. Yet Black Women and girls remain the most highlighted for such actions.

Besides being  constantly told, that she is a drama queen, or over exaggerating 

Let's look behind the neck popping, lip smacking, loud cursing,  Black Woman. And why she struggles to find her place as a woman.

With no one to listen.......

And how years of untold silence can turn into outward anger; in the everyday life of the black woman.

*Disclaimer: All points of reference do not reflect the lives of all black women*

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The young black male's mind must be protected at a very young age(2 -3 years of age and so forth) from all imagery of thug life such as: music( auditory hypnotizing), posters, and movies.

He must also, be protected from all males who engage in criminal and thug life behavior such as: uncles,  grandfathers, and  boyfriends to prevent the mental disease from being passed down another generation. Because a young male has a tendency to emulate what or who he views as a role model.

We can't wait to attempt to reform our black men  (who have a low percentage to change)  once they have become teenagers, or already grown men- for the mental damage is already done. And has proven to be quite difficult and almost impossible to revamp their brain  from such an hypnotic state!

Because the reality is that when you kill another black man- you are only killing a part of yourself.

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As we well know, that there is a shortage of Black Men within the black community. 

And granted, some black brothers are trying their very best- to perhaps some ungrateful or unrealistic women.

 But are some black men using this as an excuse to give the black woman little or nothing at all- basically the bare minimum.. 

Are some black women wrongfully being categorized as: desperate, needy, or in a rush- in regards to the basic needs of any woman regardless of  ethnicity/class/or race?  

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