Being confident and going for what you want is about grasping the nettle and feeling the discomfort in the moment that will yield positive results in the medium / long term. There is a two-part process that will yield positive results in most dating and business situations and it is this: 1. Make a decision to go for the thing you want  2. Accept that this might involve short / medium term pain and take action anyway.  If you do both of these things regularly then you will undoubtedly see greater success in your endeavours in short order.  Remember to sign up for my FREE 5-part online course Renegade Playbook here: https://realtroyfrancis.com/free-book/