The Todd V Show

My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol.

00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question 
02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating
06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol
10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking  
14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating

In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.

Chapters:

00:00 - Listener question
02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...
07:30 - Does game work in today's world?
13:45 - My response to critics of game...
20:30 - Get real.

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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo 
00:26 - Learning Game Solo 
01:40 - Preference for Solo Game 
03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman 
04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues 
06:12 - Wingman Limitations in Groups 
08:25 - Solo Game: Character Building 
10:18 - Approaching Girls Alone 
12:05 - Group Dynamics in Night Game 
14:45 - Cataloging Attractive Girls in Clubs 
17:35 - Best Solo Approach Scenarios 
19:55 - Handling Groups and Isolation 
23:10 - Warm-Up Sets in Clubs 
26:00 - Drinking in Game 
28:50 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety 
31:45 - Benefits of Night Game 
35:30 - Conclusion: Going Solo Builds Character

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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress.

Chapters:

00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement
01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions
03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process
05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical**
08:30 - The Problem with Overly Specific Questions
10:50 - The Issue with Overly General Questions
14:00 - Turning Bad Questions into Good Questions
16:15 - The Importance of Field Experience
18:40 - Learning Game Step by Step
21:00 - Self-Coaching & Owning Your Process
24:00 - Debriefing After Game Sessions 
27:30 - Biggest Takeaway & Focus 
29:30 - Game as a Journey
33:00 - Process Over Natural Talent 

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Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.

Timestamps

• 0:00 – Introduction
• 1:45 –  Pickup Lines explained
• 4:05 – The best way to tease
• 6:15 – Subtlety…
• 9:00 – The right frame in getting her to qualify
• 9:50 – “You and I would not get along.”
• 13:00 – Disqualifying sex?

And we currently have a discount on the mentorship program for a very limited time. You can see that at https://toddvmentoring.com

In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.

Timestamps:

• 0:00 – Introduction
• 3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…
• 10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame
• 13:45 – Qualifying Explained
• 29:00 – Daygame Masterclass

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In this podcast, we mentioned a video featuring James on my main YouTube channel, Todd V Dating. Check it out here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf6miBNwCvo

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.

• 0:00 – Introduction
• 0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question
• 1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown
• 1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue
• 2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges
• 3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating
• 4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating
• 5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance
• 5:53 – Handling the Date Itself
• 6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions
• 7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction
• 8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation
• 10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value
• 13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection
• 14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation
• 17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations
• 18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice
• 20:25 – Closing Thoughts
• 21:18 – Outro and Call for Questions

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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.

• 00:00 - Intro
• 00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode
• 01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe
• 02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure
• 03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun
• 04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update
• 05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?
• 07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps
• 08:00 - How to Make Game Fun
• 09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun
• 10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety
• 11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts
• 12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game
• 14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral
• 15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting
• 16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration
• 18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence
• 19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers
• 21:00 - Using Cocky Openers
• 22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers
• 24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home
• 25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins
• 27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins
• 28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches
• 30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process
• 31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood
• 33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques
• 34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence
• 36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone
• 37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game
• 39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp Information

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In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. 

• 00:00 - Intro
• 01:50 - Coaches Background
• 05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 
• 16:30 - Being high-value online
• 21:00 - Achieving abundance
• 25:30 - Improving your messaging game
• 27:00 - Paradigm shift
• 31:30 - Todd's game insights
• 40:00 - Physical escalation on dates
• 46:50 - How to respond to every text
• 50:20 - Answering deep questions over text
• 51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship
• 58:00 - "It just happened."
• 1:01:00 - Nexting
• 1:04:00 - Wrap up 
  
  

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In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.

• 00:00 - Intro
• 01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women
• 04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good
• 11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.
• 16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.

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