In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.

• 0:00 – Introduction
• 0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question
• 1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown
• 1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue
• 2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges
• 3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating
• 4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating
• 5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance
• 5:53 – Handling the Date Itself
• 6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions
• 7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction
• 8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation
• 10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value
• 13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection
• 14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation
• 17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations
• 18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice
• 20:25 – Closing Thoughts
• 21:18 – Outro and Call for Questions

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In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.

• 00:00 - Intro
• 00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode
• 01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe
• 02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure
• 03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun
• 04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update
• 05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?
• 07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps
• 08:00 - How to Make Game Fun
• 09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun
• 10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety
• 11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts
• 12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game
• 14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral
• 15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting
• 16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration
• 18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence
• 19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers
• 21:00 - Using Cocky Openers
• 22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers
• 24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home
• 25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins
• 27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins
• 28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches
• 30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process
• 31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood
• 33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques
• 34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence
• 36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone
• 37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game
• 39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp Information

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In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. 

• 00:00 - Intro
• 01:50 - Coaches Background
• 05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 
• 16:30 - Being high-value online
• 21:00 - Achieving abundance
• 25:30 - Improving your messaging game
• 27:00 - Paradigm shift
• 31:30 - Todd's game insights
• 40:00 - Physical escalation on dates
• 46:50 - How to respond to every text
• 50:20 - Answering deep questions over text
• 51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship
• 58:00 - "It just happened."
• 1:01:00 - Nexting
• 1:04:00 - Wrap up 
  
  

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In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.

• 00:00 - Intro
• 01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women
• 04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good
• 11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.
• 16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.

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• 00:00 - What is Bootcamp?
• 01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game
• 03:55 - His massive game improvement
• 09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment
• 11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience
• 15:30 - How he met his girlfriend
• 19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game
• 21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about game

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• 00:00 - State transference
• 04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)
• 06:30 - Bootcamp story
• 16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl
• 20:00 - AMOG situations

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• 00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?
• 02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls
• 04:20 - Irreverent.
• 08:45 - Don't do this...
• 13:30 - How hot girls live their lives
• 16:40 - Show social proof
• 20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?
• 26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame... 

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In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game.

• 02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?
• 08:00 - What about results in game?
• 13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?
• 16:00 - Assimilation.

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• 02:30 - Balancing validation with avoiding flakiness.
•  15:10 - Navigating "non-sex dates"

In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating. 

In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date. 

• 00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?
• 00:50 - Do looks matter?
• 04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.
• 06:05 - Showing vs. Telling 
• 08:00 - Messaging
• 10:45 - Focus on THIS
• 13:10 - Getting her from app to date
• 18:10 - The most efficient online dating strategy

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