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  • #29: Do You Define Yourself By Your Horoscope Or Do You Define Your Horoscope?

        
    Do You Define Yourself By Your Horoscope Or Do You Define Your Horoscope? Yohana Desta, author of Why women believe in astrology more than men. stated that “Approximately one in four Americans believes in astrology, according to a 2009 Pew Research Center poll. This figure grew slightly over the years, as a 2013 poll from Harris Interactive of 2,250 Americans showed 29% of people believe in astrology. However, a gender divide exists — according to a 2005 Gallup poll, about 28% of women believe in astrology, compared to 23% of men.” In Episode 29, the TRP discuss if there is any truth to horoscopes about ourselves and relationships.
    Do You Define Yourself By Your Horoscope Or Do You Define Your Horoscope? Outline

    * What do you know about Astrology and Zodiac Signs?
    * What is your Zodiac Sign?
    * Do you feel this is an accurate portrayal of who you are as a person?
    * Do you think men or women believe in Astrology/Zodiac more?
    * How do you feel about people dating based on Zodiac signs?
    * How do you feel about people that go to fortune tellers for love advice?
    * If people have a strong belief in Astrology, do you think this can be dangerous for relationships? Since the “future” is already written.
    * Resource Reads:

    Where do Zodiac Signs Come From?
    The Ultimate Pros and Cons of Dating Your Sign
    Why Your Zodiac Sign and Horoscope Are Wrong



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    43 min
  • #28: What Is Your Relationships With Introverts Or Extroverts?

        
    What is Your Relationships With Introverts or Extroverts? Are you an introvert or extrovert? Do you prefer to date one or the other? Does it matter to you? In episode 28, Ryan poses this question to the TRP team. We discuss what we think we are, if there are pros and cons of each one of them, and if you should completely disregard the other if you are looking for a significant other.
    What is Your Relationships With Introverts or Extroverts? Outline

    * Definitions according to Webster’s dictionary:

    Introvert: One whose attention and interests are directed toward one’s own thoughts and feelings.
    Extrovert: One whose attention and interests are directed wholly or predominantly toward what is outside self.


    What do you see yourself as and why?
    What are your thoughts on the 16 Personality Archetypes by Myers and Briggs? M&B Personality Test.
    What were the Pros and Cons of dating an Introvert?
    What were the Pros and Cons of dating an Extrovert?
    Is it harder to date an introvert or an extrovert? Why or why not?
    Should people completely not date a certain type?
    Resource Reads:

    Why the Myers-Briggs test is Meaningless
    How to Date an Introvert When You’re An Extrovert
    The opposite coin: Extrovert Dating an Introvert
    5 Crucial Tips for Introvert-Extrovert Couples



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    43 min
  • #27: QFA: Question for Answers ft. Dr. Events (pt. 2)

        
    Welcome to Part 2 of Quest for Answers featuring Dr. Events (Elaine). Elaine joins the TRP staff to continue our relationship talk. Elaine brought her own questions that she would like answered from the male perspective. If you guys missed Part 1, you should definitely listen to Part 1 prior to Part 2. To those that are jumping in now, here is a quick synopsis: It is fortunate we have Dr. Events, Elaine, to be our female panelist to represent her whole gender. I believe Elaine could provide great insight into this because (1) female perspective, (2) 20-something demographic, and (3) the industry that she works in. Elaine is an entrepreneur and wedding event planner so she must have a wealth of knowledge from working with partners as they work to their big day. Today, Dr. Events and the TRP will take the journey for our Quest For Answers.
    QFA: Quest For Answers Featuring Dr. Events Outline

    * If your significant other’s friends aren’t loyal to their significant others, what does that make your partner? Birds of a feather flock together?
    * Bachelor and bachelorette parties: You are getting married to your partner because you obviously trust them, but something about a last hoorah can even get the loyalist people to do unlikely things. Thoughts?
    * Does marriage really change things for couples? You’re great together as a couple, so you take the next step and make it official. Then you have kids and your life isn’t the same anymore. Is it wrong or still taboo to want a life partner and children without making it government official?
    * Business trips: If you are dating or married to someone who goes on numerous business trips or vice versa, what can you do to stay connected and really maintain the trust?
    * Resource Reads:

    * 10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character
    * Do’s and Don’ts for Women When He’s At A Bachelor Party
    * The Marriage Problem: Why Many Are Choosing Cohabitation Instead
    * 12 Tips on How to Maintain a Healthy Relationship While Traveling For Work
    * How To Deal When Your Partner Is Constantly Traveling


    * More Information on Dr. Events

    * Dr. Events @Facebook
    * Dr. Events @Instagram
    * Dr.
    59 min
  • #26: QFA: Question for Answers ft. Dr. Events (pt. 1)

        
    TheRelationshiPodcast is on a Quest For Answers, we knew we were missing the female perspective on our podcast. This is something that our friend’s and fan base has voiced as well. It is fortunate we have Dr. Events, Elaine, to be our female panelist to represent her whole gender. I believe Elaine could provide great insight into this because (1) female perspective, (2) 20-something demographic, and (3) the industry that she works in. Elaine is an entrepreneur and wedding event planner so she must have a wealth of knowledge from working with partners as they work to their big day. Today, Dr. Events and the TRP will take the journey for our Quest For Answers.
    QFA: Quest For Answers Featuring Dr. Events Outline

    * What is dating? There’s talking, see each other, dating, being exclusive then official. What determines these steps?
    * What makes a guy or girl know he or she is The One? Or what’s the breaking factor that makes a person want to commit? How long does it typically take?
    * Man wants it all: looks, ambition, wifey qualities, woman to be down for him. But why don’t they feel like they should reciprocate?
    * Can Men and Women be just friends?
    * Resource Reads:

    * Deal Breaker Discussion, Do You Have Any Serious Ones? (S1E5)
    * Cohesiveness allows for Healthy Dating Relationships (S1E6)
    * 5 Stages Of A Relationship By George Levinger (S1E9)
    * Ambiguity In A Relationship, Do You Navigate The Fog Or Abandon All Hope (S2E3)


    * More Information on Dr. Events



    * Dr. Events @Facebook
    * Dr. Events @Instagram
    * Dr. Events @WWW
    * For more information or to inquire about receiving a quote for your event, please go here.





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    49 min
  • #25: Do You Want to Know the Truth About Online Dating?

     
     
        
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    Do You Want To Know The Truth About Online Dating? Ever since the TRP team started doing the podcast, Drey has always been the odd one out when it comes to experience(s) in the online dating realm. Ryan and John have tried to keep him up to speed on this new age of dating and it made him even more curious. Drey did some research into the subject to better familiarize himself for future episodes. What he found after just a cursory amount of research was interesting to say the least. Basically, all dating sites are just winging it. It isn’t quite a scam, but it can be perceived as riding the line on being misleading.
    Do You Want To Know The Truth About Online Dating? Outline

    * eHarmony

    * Online dating algorithm is a sliding scale that makes your answers irrelevant.
    * eHarmony wants people to date outside of their dating bubble.
    * Do you feel this practice is ingenious or misleading? Why?


    * OkCupid

    * Experimenting on users, such as giving false positive matches amongst other things.
    * Christian Rudder, founder of OkCupid, was quoted “OkCupid doesn’t really know what it’s doing.”
    * Do the ends justify the means? Why or why not?


    * Tinder

    * 2015 Tinder promoted an updated algorithm that would give you better matches.
    * Investigation found that the “dating algorithms” is barely better than matching people at random.
    * Its found that many important relationship metrics cannot be quantified; so personality is the leading metric.
    * Studies show personalities only accounts for 0.5% of happiness.


    * Does this change your view on dating sites?
    * Should dating sites be more transparent in their algorithms or intentions?
    * Does it actually matter? As long as people are meeting each other, do you feel like the service is working as it should?
    * Is it ethically sound to experiment on your users?
    * Resource Reads:


    Secret of eHarmony algorithm is revealed….
    The one thing about ‘matching’ algorithms that dating sites don’t want you to know
    OkCupid Admits It Experiments on Users, Founder Says Dating Site “Doesn’t Really Know What It’s Doing”
    The Ugly Truth About Online Dating



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    52 min
  • #24: What Brought You to the Point of No Return (PONR)?

     
     
        
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    Ryan had to come up with a new episode in an hour and this is what he came up with. We already talked about break-ups and giving second chances. However we have never explored the topic of the Point of No Return (PONR, apex of a relationship), which was mentioned in our Five Stages of a Relationship episode. The Point of No Return is basically the stage where you are ready to walk away from the relationship for good.
    What Brought You To The Point Of No Return (PONR)? Outline

    * How do you define the point of no return (PONR)?
    * When was the last time you experienced the PONR?
    * What’s the pettiest reason you reached the PONR? Most severe reason?
    * Is the PONR triggered by one party or both parties?
    * Can Dealbreakers (S1.E5) be used to determine what the PONR looks like?

    * Is there a difference between a friend’s PONR threshold vs. a significant other(s) PONR?


    * Can Cohesiveness (S1.E6) eliminate the potential risk of experiencing PONR with your friends or loved ones?
    * Can you ever recover from PONR and give a Second Chance (S2.E17) at love or friendship?
    * Are there specific circumstances that would ever prevent you from reaching the PONR?
    * Resource Reads:

    * 5 Red Flags Partners Should Never Ignore
    * Overcome Anger Before It Reaches The Point-Of-No-Return
    * 9 Signs Your Relationship Isn’t Worth Fighting For



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    51 min
  • #23: Can You Have a Successful and Healthy Relationship w/out Trust? (ft. MillennialDatingCoach)

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    The basis of a long lasting & healthy relationship is trust in your partner. But is it possible to be in a relationship without trusting your partner? Several months ago, the millennialdatingcoach posted a poll on her Instagram. The question was “Do you trust your partner?” When I clicked Yes, the results of the poll was shocking to me; 50% Yes and 50% No. I reached out to Marquita (millennialdatingcoach) to be a guest on TheRelationshiPodcast since she is certified counselor with LPC, NCC, and DCC credentials.  
    Can You Have A Successful and Healthy Relationship Without Trust? Outline

    * Is trust the biggest key to success in a relationship?
    * Have any of you ever had problems trusting your partner?
    * What is your best practices to building it between two people?
    * Is it more difficult for people in long distance relationship to build?
    * What are 100% valid trust issues that would dissolve a relationship?
    * Can you have a relationship without trusting your partner?
    * Questions for Marquita

    * What is the main problem(s) that you noticed that most couples have issues with today?
    * What is your best advice/suggestion for people that are dating?
    * What should all couples discuss with their partner before getting married?


    * Resource Reads:

    * How To Build Trust In A Relationship: 6 Important Tips
    * Building & Repairing Trust: Keys to Sustainable Relationships
    * 5 Signs You Have Trust Issues That Will Ruin Your Healthy Relationships
    * The 5 Stages Of Trust in Every Relationship
    * Is Micro-Cheating Actually A Form of Infidelity?


    * Want to know more about the Millennial Dating Coach?

    * Website: millennialdatingcoach.com
    * Instagram: millennialdatingcoach
    * Facebook
    * Article: Is It OK To Break Up With Someone Over Text? Why It’s So Common, According To Relationship Experts
    * Free PDF of “5 Ways to Know that You are Ready for a Relationship“: Text EZDATING to 797979



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    59 min
  • #22: Is Micro-Cheating Actually A Form Of Infidelity?

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    In this episode, I was going to discuss if flirting is actually infidelity. However, while I was listening to Kevin and Bean this morning, I heard them use the term “Micro-Cheating.” According to Here’s How To Know If You’re Micro-Cheating, “Micro-cheating is the term for small things you do that could have whispers of infidelity–without being physically unfaithful–and can take you into territories you might regret.” My previous topic sounds like it fits into this micro-cheating spectrum. Today, we are going to discuss 10 types of behaviors that count as micro-cheating from What Counts As Micro-Cheating? 10 Behaviors That Cross The Line In A Relationship–And When It’s Considered Infidelity by Lea Rose Emery.
    Is Micro-Cheating Actually A Form Of Infidelity? Outline

    * Contacting An Ex On Social Media (24%)
    * Liking An Old Social Media Post (37%)
    * Repeatedly Visiting A Profile (41%)
    * Lying About Your Relationship Status On Social Media (54%)
    * Keeping An Active Dating Profile (58%)
    * Contacting An Ex And Concealing It (62%)
    * Having A Deep Emotional Contact With Someone Else (68%)
    * Listing Someone By A Fake Name In Your Contacts (75%)
    * Sexting Someone Else (83%)
    * Sending Nude Photos (88%)
    * Resource Reads:

    What Counts As Micro-Cheating? 10 Behaviors That Cross The Line In A Relationship–And When It’s Considered Infidelity.
    What Is Micro Cheating, Is It Endangering Your Marriage?
    Relationship Warning: 4 Signs That Your ‘Flirting’ Is Flirting With Cheating!
    One Millennials Success Strategy: Shamelessly Flirting


    * If you like this episode you should listen to:

    * What Is Your Thought On Relationship Second Chances?
    * The Importance Of Relationship Building Through Travel?
    * The Challenging Dating Landscape Of Today
    * Technology: Changing The Dynamics Of Relationships



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    49 min
  • #21: What Relationship Topics Should All Couples Discuss?

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    Andrey found an interesting article 11 “Not So Easy” Topics Every Married Couple Needs To Discuss by Troy Spry. The article was meant for married couples, but it can be applicable to anyone in a committed relationship as well. The article lists 11 controversial relationship topics you should have with your partner. Due to time restrictions, we may not cover all of them, but the link to the article is on the copy if you want to review all of them.
    What Relationship Topics Should All Couple Discuss? Outline





    Can you still have opposite sex friends?
    Should you tone down your sexy?
    Are conversations with exes still okay?
    Should your partner have access to all your social media and passwords to your phone?
    How much sex should be expected?
    Can you have a “work wife” or “work husband?” Is this okay, or out of bounds?
    How much of your personal relationship should be shared with friends and family?
    Resource Reads:

    11 Controversial Topics Every Married Couple Needs to Discuss


    * If you like this episode you should listen to:

    * Why Are We Taking So Long To Get Married In This Generation?
    * Five Stages Of A Relationship by George Levinger
    * Lets Talk About Guy Time
    * Cohesiveness Allows For Healthy Dating Relationships







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    You should binge on previous episodes of TheRelationshiPodcast. Start from Season 1 (Episode 1). LISTEN NOW.
          

    This the NON-SALTY Disclaimer: ‘We at The Relationship Podcast do not discriminate based on race, sex, sexual orientation, income level, political affiliate, religion, or creed. These opinions are solely based on our own unique experiences; our opinions are not the rule. We are always open to EVERYONE’S personal life experiences and opinions. At the end of the day, we can always agree to disagree. Please enjoy the podcast.”
    51 min
  • #20: Are Long Distance Relationships Worth It?

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    It’s World Cup Season right now where people are traveling to Russia with their friends to watch the tournament.  I see a lot of soccer hotties in the Instagram feeds so there is definitely potential for people to meet their future ex-wife there. We’re in a society where it’s becoming increasingly common to have long distance relationships. Dr. Gregory Guldner published a book in 2003 about Long Distance Relationships and there is currently a site, providing some suggested amendments to adjust for 2018 and to carry on this legacy of Long Distance Relationship knowledge
    Are Long Distance Relationships Worth It? Outline

    * How far would you be willing to cast your net–distance wise?
    * People who date locally are they more confident vs. someone dating outside of their local proximity and more likely in an long distance relationship?
    * How different were long distance relationship back then vs. long distance relationship today?
    * Does an long distance relationship really make the heart grow fonder?
    * How would you cope with intimacy and connection if you were in an long distance relationship?
    * Do you know anyone personally who had a successful long distance relationship?
    * What are some of the fears you would have being in an long distance relationship?
    * Do you think American Men or American Women are more likely to be in an long distance relationship?
    * What about International Men vs. International Women?
    * Resource Reads:

    * Video Games Got Me Through My Long-Distance Relationship
    * 13 Pieces of Long-Distance Relationship Advice From Military Spouses
    * Do Long-Distance Relationships Work?


    * If you like this episode you should listen to:

    * The Importance of Relationship Building Through Travel



    If you want to be a guest on TheRelationshiPodcast please send us an e-mail.
    You should binge on previous episodes of TheRelationshiPodcast. Start from Season 1 (Episode 1). LISTEN NOW.
          

    This the NON-SALTY Disclaimer: ‘We at The Relationship Podcast do not discriminate based on race, sex, sexual orientation, income level, political affiliate, religion, or creed. These opinions are solely based on our own unique experiences; our opinions are not the rule. We are always open to EVERYONE’S personal life experiences and opinions. At the end of the day, we can always agree to disagree. Please enjoy the podcast.”
    46 min

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