This Is What We Do

Today Toks has a chat with this month's featured musical artist, Meghan Wolf, who also happens to be her best friend. They talk motherhood, old times, surviving illness and about how Toks stole Meghan's voice.

Song: "The Resting Machine" by Meghan Wolf

Find Meghan Wolf at:

https://music.apple.com/us/album/theory-of-gravity/327204517

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

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Talk Space: talkspace.com

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Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today Toks chats with her favorite Audible narrator, the absolutely phenomenal Imogen Church. Warmed by tea and tea-quila they talk burlesque, untraditional eulogies and adoption.

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If you listen to audible you should listen to anything and everything Imogen narrates. Toks has. Here are a few faves:

Death and the Burlesque Maiden by Imogen Church on Audible. https://www.audible.com/pd?asin=B08TRS7XN9&source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp

Listen to The Turn of the Key by Ruth Ware on Audible. https://www.audible.com/pd?asin=1508284121&source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp

Listen to Death of Mrs. Westaway by Ruth Ware on Audible. https://www.audible.com/pd?asin=B079MHWLT2&source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp

Find Imogen at:

https://twitter.com/ImogenChurch

https://www.instagram.com/imogenchurchgobshite/

Find The Unist'ot'en Camp Fund:

https://unistoten.camp/

https://instagram.com/unistoten.camp

Find Refuge:

https://www.refuge.org.uk/our-work/our-services/

https://www.instagram.com/refugecharity/

https://m.facebook.com/RefugeCharity/

Find The Feminist Library:

https://feministlibrary.co.uk/

https://www.instagram.com/thefeministlibrary/

https:/twitter.com/feministlibrary

https://m.facebook.com/FeministLibrary/

Find Mermaids:

https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate/

https://www.instagram.com/mermaidsgender/

https://m.facebook.com/MermaidsGender

https://twitter.com/mermaids_gender

Song: "Linens and Gravity" by Meghan Wolf

Find Meghan Wolf at:

https://music.apple.com/us/album/theory-of-gravity/327204517

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

A series of ten random questions asked and answered featuring Rachel Fisher, a woman who truly knows how to entertain an audience.

Find Rachel at:

https://www.instagram.com/childlikeempress/

https://twitter.com/TheRachelFisher

Find Hollywood Crime Scene at:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hollywood-crime-scene/id1262899883

https://www.instagram.com/hollywoodcrimescene/

https://mobile.twitter.com/hwoodcrimescene

Find Santé D'or and find your new best friend at:

http://www.santedor.org/

https://m.facebook.com/santedorrescue

https://mobile.twitter.com/santedor

https://www.instagram.com/santedorrescue/

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

You're doing great, but life can be hard. If you are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

They say people shouldn't meet their heroes, but when Toks finally had the opportunity to work with Kathleen Rose Perkins, one of her most favorite actors of all time, it was nothing but an amazing experience. Today they have a long and lively chat about all things acting and more. They talk pilot season, national parks and Earthships. Yes, Earthships.

Find Kathleen at:

https://www.instagram.com/kathleenroseperkins/?hl=en

https://www.cameo.com/kathleenroseperkins

Find Kiva at:

https://www.kiva.org/

Song: "There Will Be Nowhere" by Meghan Wolf

Find Meghan Wolf at:

https://music.apple.com/us/album/theory-of-gravity/327204517

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Man and wife. Married life. Questions asked and answered. And we put the very beginning at the very end. Thanks for listening.

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Here are some great resources for therapy and counseling :

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today, Toks chats with one of her favorite podcast hosts, Rachel Fisher. They talk insect invasions, substance abuse, cosmetic procedures and how Hollywood Crime Scene kept Toks going.

Find Rachel at:

https://www.instagram.com/childlikeempress/

https://twitter.com/TheRachelFisher

Find Hollywood Crime Scene at:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hollywood-crime-scene/id1262899883

https://www.instagram.com/hollywoodcrimescene/

https://mobile.twitter.com/hwoodcrimescene

Find Santé D'or and find your new best friend at:

http://www.santedor.org/

https://m.facebook.com/santedorrescue

https://mobile.twitter.com/santedor

https://www.instagram.com/santedorrescue/

Song: "Take Everything" by Meghan Wolf

Find Meghan Wolf at:

https://music.apple.com/us/album/theory-of-gravity/327204517

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Toks has a fascinating chat with this month's featured musical artist, Lumi Bee. The two talk spirituality, psychedelics and endometriosis.

All songs for this month's episodes by Lumi Bee

Find everything Lumi Bee at

https://linktr.ee/lumibeem

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

Comments. questions or stories? Email us at [email protected]

If you are seeking counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today, Toks has an extra long chat with her newest chosen family member, Tyler Merritt, and he surprises her with a reversal of roles. Tyler is an actor, lead singer of a band, author of the critically acclaimed "I Take My Coffee Black" and most likely to be everyone's number one pick for a dinner guest. They talk about auditions, black hair, bananas, "Big Shot" and being awkward in front of Nia Long.

Find Tyler:

https://www.instagram.com/thetylermerrittproject/

https://mobile.twitter.com/ttmproject

https://m.facebook.com/thetylermerrittproject

Find Preston Taylor Ministries:

https://prestontaylorministries.org/

https://m.facebook.com/prestontaylorministries/

https://www.instagram.com/prestontaylorministries/

Song: Easier by Lumi Bee

Find Lumi Bee, her art and her music at:

https://linktr.ee/lumibeem

Find Toks at:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

We would love to hear from you! Please send a story, comment or question to [email protected].

We love you. If you are in need of counseling or help of any kind, please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.)

Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location. Please reach out; you are not alone.

Ten random questions asked and answered.

Find Mekia at:

https://instagram.com/mekiacox

https://twitter.com/mekiacox

https://www.facebook.com/Mekiacox

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today, Toks chats (and laughs and cries) with comedian, writer and content creator, Ta'Vi. They had a little too much fun gabbing, so this is an extra long one, folks! You're welcome. They talk Arcane, League of Legends, cronyism, representation in Hollywood and what it's like to be in the wild world of stand up comedy.

Find Ta'Vi at:

https://www.tiktok.com/tavitalkstrash

https://twitter.com/TaviTalksTrash

https://www.instagram.com/TaviTalksTrash

Find Black Women United (Sacramento) at:

https://www.bwusac.org/

https://m.facebook.com/BWUSac/

https://www.instagram.com/bwu_sac/

https://mobile.twitter.com/bwusac

Song: Hunt of a Lifetime by Lumi Bee

Find Lumi Bee and her music at:

https://linktr.ee/lumibeem

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

Have a story, question or comment you'd like for us to answer or read on the show? Want to be our monthly featured artist? Email us at: [email protected]

If you are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources:

Here are some great resources for therapy and counseling :

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.