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Podsters, today we’re talking about the perils of being "overly agreeable" (a.k.a. people-pleasing) in leadership.

We've all been there, right? That moment when you nod along in a meeting, even when your gut is screaming, "Seriously?!" It’s called being "overly agreeable" (a nicer way to say people-pleasing), and while it sounds harmless, it’s about as useful as a screen door on a submarine when it comes to stepping up as a leader. And this applies to everyone Podsters, whether you're running the show, climbing the ladder, or running your own business; bending over backward to keep everyone happy can cause more chaos than it cures.

Spoiler alert: it's not your job to be everyone's emotional support person.

So, what's a recovering people-pleaser to do? Here are three ways to kick the overly agreeable habit to the curb:

At the end of the day, leadership isn't about making everyone like you. It’s about creating a space where the work, and your team can thrive!

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Hey, Podsters! Have you heard the expression, “Feedback is a gift”? Sure, sometimes feedback shows up at our door as a beautifully wrapped present, but other times... It's more like an unsolicited mystery package that leaves you scratching your head about the sender.

People love to give feedback—partners, clients, bosses, even random strangers. And while a lot of it is super helpful, let’s be real: not all feedback comes from a place of positive intent. So, how do you figure out which advice to embrace and which to toss straight into the metaphorical trash?

Today, we’re unpacking how to process feedback without letting it impact your mental health. The key? Understand where the feedback is coming from. First, assess the other person’s values, intent, and perspective. Are they offering insights to support your growth? Or are they projecting their stuff onto you? Because heads up, not all feedback is about you.

I’ll share some personal stories today—including one from my early leadership days that seriously shifted my career trajectory. Spoiler alert: I wasn’t always comfortable with not knowing all the answers, but one piece of advice helped me embrace the leader I am today.

It’s not about growing thicker skin. Nope. It’s about learning how to process feedback without giving it too much headspace. You’ve got to filter feedback as data points—some are valuable, and others are not so much.

So buckle up, Podsters! Let’s dive into how you can use feedback like a boss, stay true to yourself, and grow into the best version of yourself—without letting the noise slow you down.

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Hey there, Podsters! Quick question for you: If doctors, pro athletes, and scientists use visualization to transform health, boost performance, and hit major goals, why aren’t we doing the same for our own lives? It's time to change that, Podsters and that’s exactly what we are going to do today.

Today, we’re talking about the magic of acting as if you've already achieved your goals. That’s right - and this isn’t just woo-woo —it’s backed by science. Whether it’s performance coaches with athletes or doctors guiding patients to better health, the data’s clear: When you act like you’re already living the life of your dreams, your subconscious gets on board and starts making moves in that direction.

So, how do you do it? First, get crystal clear on your goals. Don’t just say, “I want a better career” or “I want to be healthier.” Nope - we’re talking specific details here. Visualize what your day-to-day life looks like when you’ve hit that goal. What are you wearing? Who are you talking to? How are you feeling? Get all up in those details, and watch your brain start rewiring itself for success.

Why does this work? Simple: confirmation bias. When you start acting as if you’ve already got the job, the lifestyle, the whatever it is you’re after, your brain begins pulling in people, situations, and opportunities that match that belief. You stop waiting for life to happen and start living like it already has. Sounds like magic, but it's science.

Let’s say you’re switching careers. The moment you start “acting as if,” you’ll find yourself networking with new people, stumbling on the right job posts, and suddenly, that “impossible” leap doesn’t seem so far-fetched. The same goes for health, relationships, finances—you name it. Visualize, act as if, and your reality will start shifting to match.

So buckle up, Podsters, because today we’re diving into the game-changing mindset shift that turns “someday” into today. Get ready to stop dreaming and start doing by tapping into the power of ‘acting as if.’

Let’s do this!

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Hey Podsters! Ready to level up your public speaking game? Whether it's the boardroom, a client presentation, or even a networking event, owning the room can make all the difference for you personally and professionally.

Today, we’re talking about how to leave a lasting impact—not just with what you say, but with how you make people feel.

Here are three game-changing tips to help you do just that.

So next time you step up to present, remember: Know the room. Connect with the room. Engage with the room.

These tips are tried and true, and I promise they’ll help you own any stage.

Until next time, go out there and own that room, Podsters!

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Welcome back, Podsters, and wow, are you in for a treat today?

What if I told you that after today’s episode if you follow the advice from our very special guest, you will have everything you need to guard your energy like a ninja and face each day as if it’s going to be the best one yet?

I’m serious, Podsters. This is the real deal. And if you’ve been with us for a while, you know I have a not-so-secret obsession with Brenda Johnston. And she’s back again today Podsters giving us allllll the tips and practical advice so we can shore up our energy as we head into our busy fall lives.

Brenda is a subconscious mindset coach and energy mentor who helps women break through to the next level in business and in life; and today we are talking all things energy. How to get find, harness and protect your precious energy and in particular - how to identify and stop your energy leaks. This is a crucial topic as we move into fall and the holidays because I know you know Podsters - very soon our energy will start to drain as we manage competing priorities, the holiday season, all of it.

Too often, we ignore the importance of protecting our energy, even though we know how important it is to ensure we have enough left over for our own needs and lives.

Today, we share what creates energy leaks, such as people-pleasing, repeating patterns of behavior that don’t serve us, and having weak or no boundaries. Whether overt or covert, these behaviors can drain your energy, impact your life, and lead to the dreaded burnout.

Not to mention holding on to past regrets, resentments, and unresolved issues, which also consume mental and emotional energy.

We are also sharing one of my favorites all time Brenda nuggets for how to manage our energy – observe, don’t absorb.  Yes, it’s that simple and we dig deeper into how to observe what’s happening around you, without letting the situation occupy your precious mind space!

We share practical tips for energy management, from clearing physical clutter to help with mental and emotional clarity to setting realistic expectations for yourself and for others.

Winter is coming, Podsters and it’s the perfect time to tidy up your mind, the space where you "live 24/7."

Are you ready to manage your energy, take back your life and THRIVE??

Buckle up, Podsters, because this episode could change your life.

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Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

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This has been weighing on my mind so we are bringing it back and jumping back to episode #1 with debunking imposter syndrome. You are having a feeling, not a medical condition.  Feelings are not facts. They are a temporary experience.  A feeling.  So now that we know this...what do we do?

In this episode, we talk about how to recognize, deal with, and prevent future feelings of being an imposter.  Spoiler alert - men feel it too.  The difference?  They take action anyway.

Ready to move out of imposter feelings, here are the 3 R’s for success:

Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

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Podsters! We’re in the final stretch of 2024 with just four months left, and it’s time to make sure you’re not stressing yourself out.

We need to talk about how to really value your time, make smart trade-offs, and think about how you want to live the rest of this year. Some fine tuning right now could totally change the trajectory of your career.

So, it’s September, my favorite month!

I love those cool mornings where you can rock a sweatshirt with shorts, only to have to ditch the sweatshirt later when it gets hot - classic New England fall vibes. To set yourself up to enjoy these Fall days we must talk about the true value of your time.

As we get back to the grind, whether that’s school, work, or just life getting busier. It’s crucial to think about how you’re spending your time.

Are you trading time for money, or money for time?

This is something that changes throughout your life, and today, we’re diving into what that looks like at different stages.

Why it’s so important to get this balance right, whether you're in corporate or running your own show? Because if you don’t nail this now, you will miss out on those memorable moments and cause yourself unnecessary stress.

So, Podsters, how are you valuing your time? Let’s figure out how to make the most of what’s left of 2024!

SIDE NOTE: Do remember that 2015 wife bonus scandal? Let’s unpack this scandal and give you another wild way to think about the value of time and how we negotiate our time with our relationships.

Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

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It’s fall, Podsters!  The chill in the morning air, the sweatshirts coming out of storage, leaves falling (yes, my lawn is covered in leaves) all mean one thing – summer is over.  And as summer winds down, you might find yourself feeling a bit of that seasonal stress creeping in.   You know what I mean… the shift from the laid-back vibe of summer to the busyness of fall can be a lot to handle.

Enter, September Scaries.

You’re not alone Podsters and guess what? This is the perfect time to level up in both your life and business, and this week’s episode will help you to do just that.

Today I’m sharing three key tips to help you smoothly transition into fall while keeping your momentum strong. Summer might have been all about relaxing and recharging, but as we move into the last quarter of the year, it’s time to get clear on what you really want to accomplish before the year wraps up.

Right now, is the best time for a re-focus.  It’s like a second New Year!

With shorter days and a busier schedule, it’s easy to feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day so we have to curate our commitments.

How? By taking a strategic approach to your calendar. Before committing to new obligations, ask yourself, "Will I want to do this when the time comes?" With the summer freedom feeling it’s easier to say yes to more things, but as we roll into fall we have to manage our energy a little differently.

This means, really asking yourself what you want to commit to and leaving some room in your schedule.

What if you choose one day  in your schedule where you don’t schedule anything at all and simply let things play out and happen for you!

Life happens, and it’s crucial to create space for those unexpected moments and for times when you just need to pause, play, and regroup. Having this space not only allows you to focus to move your life and business forward and leaves time for those unexpected delightful days of fun with your friends and family.

So, if you’re feeling that end-of-summer stress, Podsters, I got you. Together, we’ll turn those September Scaries into the fuel you need to thrive this fall and beyond.

Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

Connect with⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Nancy on Instagram @‌nancy_medoff⁠⁠⁠⁠

Join my⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Confidence Community HERE⁠⁠⁠

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⁠⁠Unmute Yourself - Speak Up to Stand Out - By Nancy Medoff

You know when you meet someone and you know immediately that they’re going to be in your life?

An instant connection - - might be a lighting bolt and might be simply a KNOWING.

Well Posters, that’s what happened to me two years ago when I first heard Tiffany Carter speak on a podcast. She’s a highly successful entrepreneur, host of the #5 podcast for business, multi-millionaire business owner and all around beautiful human being.

She’s also my friend, my mentor and my business coach and today we are holding nothing back as we talk about everything: all of the peaks and valleys that come with managing your own success such as:

· Managing conflicting expectations and How I’m managing priorities

· About ME overcoming my OWN limiting beliefs

· What happens when you really go all in and get what it is you think you’ve wanted all along – and the rest of your mind needs to catch up.

· Next level success

· The reality of running for political office

· Really getting to the heart of what you want and the insidious way we hold ourselves back to stay comfortable.

· Toe dipping actions and tricking ourselves into believing you are taking high level actions

So buckle up, Podsters as nothing is off limits in this raw, real and hilarious episode that will help you open your mind to what is possible and how your big dreams might be the starting point.

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Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

Grab my book UNMUTE YOURSELF HERE:

⁠Unmute Yourself - Speak Up to Stand Out - By Nancy Medoff

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Look around, Podsters - and look closely.  Your environment (the people you hang with, the places you go, the information you take in, all of it) shapes your thoughts and beliefs.  Your beliefs shape your behavior.  And we all know – your behavior shapes your outcomes.  So, I ask…

Who are you surrounding yourself with?

You know the saying, "your net worth is the average of the five people you spend the most time with"? Well, I'd take it a step further and say your value (which is your currency), is shaped by those same people.  How you see and value yourself affects how others do, and if you're not hanging out with people who inspire you, challenge you, and are on the path you want to be on, professionally or personally, it's time to rethink your circle.

Podsters, it's true. You become what you surround yourself with. The people in your life, their energy, their mindset, ALL OF THIS has a massive impact on what you think, your beliefs and how you show up.

And eventually, you’ll start to reflect the ideas, thoughts, goals and opinions of those around you as well - so make sure these are people you admire, people whose qualities and successes you want to emulate.

Today, podsters I invite you to take a good hard look around; your friends, your colleagues, your family, your professional networks, how you spend your precious time and who you spend it with…. are these the people who will support you, believe in you and help you get where you want to go?

As we get ready for fall, and the “back to school” frenzy, it’s the perfect time to assess who you're spending time with on the playground of life.

Let’s unpack this in a real, practical way. No cheesy quotes or overused memes, just an honest look at how the company you keep can significantly impact your journey.

As summer winds down, let’s use these quiet moments to re-evaluate and ensure that we're surrounding ourselves with people who are lifting us up, pushing us forward, and helping us to achieve our goals.

If really want to level up, it's time to pay attention to who’s in your circle.

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Are you ready make the bold move, step into who you know you are meant to be and finally DO THE THING?

You know it’s time.

You also know there’s a whole new life waiting for you on the other side of your fear and this powerful, two-day retreat is where transformational coaching meets tactical execution so you can actually DO THE THING.

📣 5 like-minded, powerhouse women committed to stepping out of our day-to-day for 2.5 days in November to DO THE THING. Private one-on-one coaching, group brainstorming, and your own customized, tactical plan as together we hold each other accountable and finally DO THE THING. Learn more about the RETREAT ⁠HERE⁠, or get in touch to ask me anything!

Grab my book UNMUTE YOURSELF HERE:

Unmute Yourself - Speak Up to Stand Out - By Nancy Medoff

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