Let’s clear something up: not everyone you hate is a narcissist. And not everyone you love isn’t. This week, Emma is going down the rabbit hole of actual narcissism — in platonic and romantic relationships. What it is, what it isn’t, and how to spot the difference between someone who’s just selfish… and someone who’s clinically manipulative. And this is just PART ONE. From love bombing and future faking to victim-playing and covert sabotage, we're going through the key red flags and the psychology behind why it’s so hard to walk away from someone who keeps you craving the highs.

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This week, we're going down the rabbit hole about the rabbit hole. The one we go down when we see everyone’s getting engaged, having babies, buying homes... and you’re over here just trying to find your phone. Emmas' diving into the psychological chaos of comparison, the pressure of timelines, and the positive pregnancy test that changed her perspective forever.

From biological clocks and made up milestones to redefining success on your own terms — this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt behind, panicked, or like their life isn’t happening “on time.” It’s not about being picked — it’s about choosing. And the next chapter of your life can start any damn minute.

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You hope he’ll text you. You hope he’ll change. You hope the mixed signals mean something good. Let’s be real: you’re not hopeful — you’re in denial. This week, we're joined by dating coach, podcaster, and professional bullshit-caller, Sabrina Zohar, to unpack the psychology behind clinging to potential in dating. We talk dopamine addiction, Disney delusions, and the brutal difference between healthy optimism and emotional procrastination. Sabrina and Emma (two “too much” girls turned thriving adults) break down how to stop mistaking inconsistency for compatibility, how to grieve what never actually existed, and how to stop handing out CEO roles in your life to people who haven’t passed the first interview. If you've ever romanticized a walking red flag or stayed just because "there’s potential," this one’s for you.

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It’s time for some tough love. In this episode, we’re talking about accountability—why it’s the foundation of any healthy relationship, and how learning to take responsibility (and demand it from others) changed the way I show up in friendships, work, and love. It’s a little bit of a TED Talk, a little bit of a therapy session, and a whole lot of truth. If you’ve ever struggled with someone's refusal to take accountability or just owning your own part, this one’s for you. Buckle up and bring a notebook.

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This week, we’re going down the rabbit hole into another Ask Emma — tackling your juiciest, rawest questions about maintaining independence in relationships, navigating hyper-independence without being labeled “toxic,” friendship breakups, ignoring the haters, and why celebrating your wins (even the tiny ones) is non-negotiable. As always: no scripts, no filters, just me, you, and a wild ride down the rabbit hole. And don't forget, got a question or some receipts? Slide into the DMs or drop them in the link in bio.

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This week’s episode was recorded on April 17th — 48 hours after sharing the truth behind the end of Unhinged. After a whirlwind 48 hours, Emma is taking a moment to share gratitude, to reintroduce herself, to reframe what it means to be “too much,” and remind you why this podcast exists in the first place. Emma’s been deemed “too much” everywhere from classrooms to boardrooms — and instead of shrinking herself, she’s built something out of it. If you’ve ever been misunderstood, gossiped about or told you're too much, this one is for you. Welcome to Day One. Let’s begin again, together.

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This is the truth about what happened with my podcast, Unhinged — and the detailed, receipt-bearing, factual account of what has unfolded behind closed doors. For over two months, I stayed silent as the podcast I built was taken out from under me. I was locked out, erased, and a new show has been operating on my platforms — without my consent. Today, I’m finally sharing the truth. This isn’t about drama; it’s about business ethics, accountability, and setting the record straight. For anyone who’s ever been erased, betrayed, or made to question their worth — you are not alone.

As this episode is lengthy and layered, please see below for a detailed breakdown so you can know what to expect and in case you’d like to skip ahead at any point:

2:23 - 6:00 — Unhinged Backstory & My Decision to Dissolve

6:00 - 11:25 — JAN 3: The Attempted Communication

11:25 - 14:10 — How Too Much Came to be

14:10 - 17:42 — The Attempted Communication (cont’d)

17:42 - 21:29 — JAN 17: The Lockout

21:29 - 24:20 — JAN 21: Launching Too Much

24:20 - 29:23 — JAN 27: First Communication with Co-Host

29:23 - 34:23 — FEB 4: The Deletion & the Video

34:23 - 36:03 — The Aftermath

36:03 - 39:22 — What it All Means, Why it Matters & Why Now?

39:22 - 42:15 — The UnSettlement

42:15 - End — My honest thoughts

Everything discussed in this episode is based on my firsthand experience, dated records, and/or legal guidance. My intention is to speak honestly and transparently about what happened in an effort to advocate for myself. My opinions shared are clearly stated as such, and all factual claims are supported by written documentation. This episode is not intended to defame — it is simply my account of events as I experienced them.

Thank you for listening and thank you to my community for your continued support.

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This week, Emma welcomes her very first guest — dating guru and host of Seeing Other People, Ilana Dunn — and things go off the rails immediately (in the best way). From decoding green flags, emotional unavailability, and the struggle between "chemistry vs. compatibility," the two dive way down the rabbit hole of modern dating. Plus, Emma throws a new game into the mix: "Too Much or Not Enough?" at the end of the episode and Ilana gives the greatest advice in history for how to make your Hinge profile WAY more attractive.

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Rejection is just redirection, right? But sometimes it can feel easier said than done. Whether it's a breakup, a job loss or just a plan you made up in your mind that goes to sh*t, this week, Emma goes down the rabbit hole about the art of pivoting. She's breaking down the psychology behind why change is so hard, how to rewire your brain, and how she turned her biggest ‘WTF’ moments into the biggest glow-ups ever. So, if you’re in the thick of an uncertainty menty B, this one’s for you.

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All breakups suck, but this one? It takes the cake. Emma dives into a tell-all of her worst, most painful, insane breakup EVER. It's a crazy ride, but how she handled it, is even crazier.

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