Too Old For This Sh*t

*Today with the magnificent Dr Robin Hornstein we talk about how to have a conversation with someone who stands in complete opposition to your beliefs and how to lead with curiosity, not judgement. She comes out with excellent and valuable insights!



We cover:

• How we’re all justified in our mind to believe what we believe. We didn’t get there for no reason, we have history, proof or trauma that makes us convinced - for better or worse.


• Why do people only want others to co-sign on their opinions, and not what will challenge it.


• When genuine, good movements, get taken over by people with bad intent.


• Cognitive dissonance and symptoms of emotional abuse from 2020.


• Identity politics: How to have a conversation with someone who stands in complete opposition to our beliefs and how to lead with curiosity, not judgement.


• To enter a debate and how-to counter productively by removing emotions.


• The coddled and validated society is causing a lot of damage and hurt in today’s society.


• Why it’s not ok for trolling behaviour, masking behind any movement, to be tolerated.


• Should we be embarrassed by our partners' political views in public?


• How certain communities have been more unfairly hit by 2020 (pandemic, job losses and more).




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Music by Peter Walsingham

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*Recorded 16 Dec. 2020

*Talking can be the most dangerous thing couples do. Today with the magnificent Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari, a relationship therapist, Chairperson of Imago UK, author, speaker, therapist supervisor and parental advisor, we cover:

Why compatibility isn’t what we think it is.

+ The first year is not always a smooth sailing, problem-free honeymoon, Kalanit explains why some of us stumble in the first year whilst others on the seventh. Neither are a good or bad sign but it’s how you handle it that’s key.

+ How to deal with conflicts with our partners and why they are “gold” in the IMAGO philosophy. 

+ How to grow and become a better partner for them or the next one (they leave, they lose).

+ How to forgive ourselves and our partner - feelings of guilt and shame, anyone?

+ Why it’s important to not paint your partner as the bad one during conflicts but to remember the good parts.

+ How to express an issue without it being a big deal aka without your partner feeling attacked.

+ How to not lose yourself in a relationship and why it happens.

+ Knowing the difference between: Needing space in service for yourself or in service for the relationship?

+ Is breaking up always the end? 

Reference used for this episode: Getting the love you want by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen Hunt

Come find Dr Kalanit at kalanitbenari.com Books on Amazon: Small Steps to Great Parenting & The Lost Book

Music by Peter Walsingham

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*Recorded in Nov 2020

Today is to introduce Season Two coming out next Monday the 15th of Feb 2021 and what happened during that break (the good, the bad and the ugly).



I’ll also cover the workshops I’ve created and to finish off this episode there’s a recap of Season One in the form of a long trailer which starts 14 minutes in.



*Content note: this episode discusses mental health and estranged fathers, discretion is advised*



Here’s the list of the episodes featured in the order of which the clips come in:

• The sex education part of the season with episodes: 018, 023, 024, 016, 040, 036


• The cult part of the season with episodes 010, 044


• The Love part of the season with episodes 014, 042, 043, 049


• The couples in lockdown part of the season with episode 035


• The not having kids part of the season with episode 025


• The toxic/gaslight part of the season with episodes 028, 037, 038


• The mental health part of the season with episodes 013, 039, 026, 027, 034, 032, 033, 046, 019


• The where is home part of the season with episodes 030, 047



Find me: https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit or www.angie-s.com  

Today with Dr Kathrine Bejanyan PhD we talk about the awkwardness of finances in dating and relationships.

We go over:

• Money imbalance in relationships and how it can affect a relationship.


• How to deal with money issues in a relationship & have the money talk with your partner when you’re the one earning less and how to manage it as the high earner.


• The untold story of divorce settlements that I learned in this episode.


• How would you feel if your partner covered you financially whilst you’re studying or working on your business? I express how that would make me so anxious but Kathrine explains how that couple is being a team.


• When men bound their worth to their money.


• We also cover when money takes a bad turn and when gifting equals buying your love & affection.





Find Kathrine: http://kathrinebejanyan.com/




Music by Peter Walsingham

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Taking you behind the scenes of how the podcast came about and answering your most FAQs around the podcast so listen in to get the lowdown!

Music by Peter Walsingham

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