Too Posh Podcast

We are re releasing this episode which has been a hit on YouTube, because Milani is for sure a character that is one of a kind. Since he recorded 2 episodes with us in 2019 he is now the General Manager for
the LeBoys Club in Fort Lauderdale. Lively gay hot spot with food, full bar & a patio, featuring dancers, DJs & drag performances.
We have always known that Milani would become super successful - he just needed to find the right opportunity. We are so very proud of him.
This episode he tells of his traumatic years in high school and beyond,. - it is heartbreaking truly.

Milani tells us that his only job at this time is being a gay stripper. We find out that he grew up in white suburban America, where everyone was "judgy" and "bitchy".
He found out that he was gay at age 16, but never had a chance to really process and decide to come out on his own, because of a dramatic event at his High School that exposed him to everyone without his consent.
He has not had a relationship with his parents or siblings in years and he feels bad that he has not put more effort into that.
He grew up in an abusive household and went straight into an abusive relationship. He was too young to realize all that was happening to him. The guy who he thought loved him manipulated him into being an escort and was a Pimp.
Milani then took the fall for everything when he got caught selling cocaine, after selling to an undercover cop 3 times.
He says that there was a point where he stopped being a victim but became a willing participant. He was living his best life.
He went to prison for 2 years. He tells us how much it sucks being in prison as a gay person. He shares that he got raped a lot until he found himself a Puerto Rican boyfriend who protected him.
We feel like Milani got dealt a really bad hand in life, because we see his kind and caring heart and we tell him how bad we feel for him. He matter of factually tells us that Life is what it is.
You have to listen to him tell us about refusing to accept the early release from prison, because he was so in love with his boyfriend, who betrayed him the second he left prison, only to go back to his wife and never talk to Milani again.
When he first came to Texas he landed in Roanoke with a guy he met on Craigslist and was hugely disappointed. But once he saw Dallas and started working at the gay strip clubs he fell in love with the City.
He shares the story of when he was a houseboy for a gay couple in Cedar Springs which is a gay neighborhood in Dallas.
You have to hear him talk about having sex with girls and what he thinks about that.
Milani has an entrepreneurial spirit and loves to learn from business people and is planning an exit strategy out of this dark whore world soon.
But for now he finds his Sugar Daddies in Strip Clubs and is a Sugar Daddy himself to young, handsome boys.
This is the end of the first episode with Milani - stay tuned for the next episode where we get even more details about his very interesting life.

We are so honored to welcome the unequaled Waylon Tate, Celebrity PR from J Waylon Associates. He tells us how he got into becoming a Celebrity PR and how he was invited to the White House many times.
Waylon is also a College Professor at Dallas College. It is his way of giving back. He is such a kind, wonderful person all around.

His PR Firm has grown so unbelievably that they are no longer taking new clients.

Recently Waylon has discovered TikTok and it has become his outlet, we suggest that everyone follow his clever and fun content @thegaypublicist.

At this time in his life Waylon wants to meet his special someone and travel the world. He says it is very difficult to date as a gay man in your 40's. We know the right person is out there for him.

He talks about how difficult it is to navigate when his clients are involved in a scandal and that is a special skillset all in itself.

We turn our conversation to the Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills, in particular Erika Jayne. We all agree that Erika Jayne needs to hire Waylon to help with her PR. Waylon believes that her PR team has lead
her in the wrong direction and he would have handled the whole situation differently. He informs us that the public is more forgiving than we think that they are.

Waylon thinks that the lighting director had it out for the whole cast of RHOBH at their last reunion, because none of the ladies looked their usual best.

Then we talk about Britney Spears and the end of her conservatorship and Waylon has always been in love with her and he says if he was her PR person, which he wants to be, "come on Britney - reach out to Waylon ;) " he would
let her do whatever she wants. He believes that she needs to enjoy her freedom to the fullest.

Waylon also owns a company called Drag Star Diva which is everything LGBTQ including Merch, LGBTQ Interviews and News, Dragqueen Features and Mancandy Spotlights.
They hold monthly drag brunches at the amazing Virgin Hotel in Dallas.

Waylon has represented the magnificent and sweet friend of ours Alyssa Edwards aka Justin Johnson all the way back to when the Netflix Hit Dancing Queen was released, that Marcella our CoHost Starred in.

We talk about the new hilarious, witty and clever pop up shop DIX_wannalick.

find Waylon Tate on all social media
https://www.instagram.com/waylontate/?hl=en
https://www.tiktok.com/@thegaypublicist?

Question of the Day:
Date Number 4 and they still have not gone home with you? Good or bad thing?

Party With Miss Polly:
What is Golden Penis Syndrome?

Spill The Tea Too Posh Gossip:
New bar in the gayborhood coming in December 2021 called LAVA LOUNGE

We are re releasing this incredible story of our sweet friend Milani - this show has been Number 1 on YouTube for months - his story is riveting, traumatic, devastating, sad - yet so powerful.
Since Milani came on the show he has been making amazing changes in his life and is sober, thriving and in a happy relationship. We are so proud of him and love him so very much.

Milani is back with the continuation of his traumatic life story. Having been in prison for 2 years and repeatedly being raped with no condoms, he was very worried about getting tested when he got out.
He tells us the results.
Besides being a stripper he is also on an app called "RENTMEN" which is a secure way to hire escorts.
We talk about people that are super judgmental, but have so many skeletons in their own closets and then he shares that lots of married men with children seek out guys like him.
He tells us that the gay community does not support the gay community in the strip club world. They all swoon over straight guys and pay them way more.
He says there is an infatuation with straight married men that strip in gay clubs and they worship the ground they walk on.
He says that lots of straight guys like to peer in the gay community to get the gay Dollars, only to go back to the straight community and their marriages like Aaron Carter and Nick Jonas for example.
We ask him if he ever fantasizes about having sex with a straight man and his answer is very interesting.
We ask him how many sexual partners he has had and the answer is astounding.
We ask him the craziest place he has ever had sex.
He then opens up about the most traumatic moment of his life that changed his whole path and where he went from being a super popular, cool Jock in High school, a boy scout of America being tossed into the dark world of prostitution.
His whole life was shattered. He went from having a great life with a promising future to a lonely life where everyone laughed at him and hated him.
The trauma of the majority of people tossing him aside and treating him like yesterday's news devastated him to the core.
He got hooked up with a pimp that got him hooked on drugs so he could control him and profit off of him.
He was fed a lot of heroin for 4 years.
The only way to get away from it was when he went to prison and was thrown in a solitary confinement room, where he suffered from detox for 2 weeks with no help.
Because of all the trauma that he has been through nothing affects him anymore and he has a lot of abandonment issues.
He tells us that he was at a point where he didn't care if he died. His pain was so great that he was hoping he would die from an overdose.
Today he suffers from seasonal depression and has nobody to rely on. He has no family.
We ask him if there was one thing he could change about his life what it would be and his answer is heartbreaking.
Milani has a huge heart and his soul is good and he tries to help people all the time to protect them to not go down the same road he did.
We end the show with a twerking lesson.
Gabrielle wants Milani to make goals and go to school to make an exit plan.

Over 20,000 women have been murdered due to domestic violence since 2003. Unsilenced Voices founder Michelle Jewsbury nearly became one of those women. For years, Michelle was trapped in the domestic abuse cycle. She walked on eggshells around her partner, suffered his violent blow ups, and tried to believe his apologies. Instead of being accountable, her abuser worked to keep Michelle isolated and silent. In December of 2015 she summoned the strength to break that cycle, leave her abuser, and share her story. Now, Michelle works to combat domestic and gender-based violence on a global scale as the founder and CEO of Unsilenced Voices.
Unsilenced Voices is a Non Profit Organization that helps Victims of Domestic Abuse and Sexual Gender Based Violence Worldwide. They work closely with their partners to assist the many victims of domestic abuse and sexual gender based violence in Ghana, Sierra Leone, and Rwanda. They provide monthly sensitization community trainings and are pre-collaborating with their Nepal partner who assist girls forced into marriage who flee from their husbands due to physical and sexual violence against them. In Amsterdam, they are working with the Ellamo Foundation to bring programing there. In the United States, Unsilenced Voices is working to provide education to the community and resources to survivors Nationwide.
Unsilenced Voices’ vision is to provide legal counseling and services free of charge to survivors who are unable to afford counsel to represent them in their Domestic Violence Restraining Order actions. They also plan to provide vocational training, counseling and community outreach to victims of domestic abuse.
On December 8, 2021 Unsileced Voices is holding a "A NIGHT TO REMEMBER" Gala in Las Vegas and you do not want to miss this amazing event.
Please buy your tickets here https://www.eventbrite.com/e/a-night-to-remember-tickets-169162554755
Please follow Michelle on her social media platforms and reach out to her with any questions

https://www.instagram.com/michellejewsbury/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/unsilencedvoices/?hl=en

https://www.amazon.com/But-Love-Him-domestic-violence/dp/179054243X

WHAT A SHOW - WHAT A STORY WOW!!!!! Michelle is an International Philanthropist, Author, Speaker and Crusader against domestic violence, sexual abuse and human trafficking.

Her story is beyond words - she suffered from extreme domestic violence for 4 years and she shares her gripping story and gives us all the details of the abuse that included severe beatings,
that left her near death as well as sexual abuse, financial abuse and psychological manipulation.

A mind boggling 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men in the United States of America experience this injustice. This is a horrible epidemic and we need to do everything in our power to stop this.

Michelle is so open and honest and when she talks you feel like you are there and you experience the unbelievable pain she lived through.

This incredible women finally was able to escape her torture and hell and sued her abuser who is a very successful business man. All the while afraid for her families life as well as her own.
She wrote a play about her experience and started a non profit foundation that is called Unsilenced Voices.
There is a big event coming up on December 8 in Las Vegas and we hope lots of you will join her there.

Michelle has been speaking all around the world and published a book called "BUT I LOVE HIM".

She says that right after the assault there is always the apology stage and that is the circle of domestic violence. She wants every victim to know that "NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE DONE, IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT."

It takes a domestic violence victim 7 to 9 times before they actually really leave for good.

Please follow Michelle on her social media platforms and reach out to her with any questions

https://www.instagram.com/michellejewsbury/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/unsilencedvoices/?hl=en

https://www.amazon.com/But-Love-Him-domestic-violence/dp/179054243X

"How Are You So Happy?" Rudy Vasquez gets asked all the time when people see him in his wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down. Rudy taught us so much in our hour together,
he changed our lives forever with his positive attitude and the most powerful lessons.

Rudy was a soccer star since early on, then a soccer star on the SMU College Team and ultimately on the USA Soccer Olympic Team. An athlete through and through, always running, always on the go.
Until that fateful night of October 19, 2017 when he and his best friend Bruce Harris, brother of former Dallas Mavericks Star Devin Harris, were involved in a horrific car accident. Their car stalled on the highway and
they desperately tried to make it to the shoulder but were hit full speed from behind.

Rudy describes in detail what happened, how he found out that his best friend Bruce didn't make it and that he himself was paralyzed. The story is gripping, devastating yet so uplifting.

He shares something with us from the accident scene that he has never told anyone.

Rudy believes that he will walk one day and we have no doubt that he will make that happen and we cannot wait for that day.

Rudy tells us that the hardest to deal with was that he felt he failed his beautiful son Aston, but instead his son has now learned compassion, thoughtfulness and he is his helping hand 100% of the time.
He says he would rather see his son be the best human being he can be instead of being the best athlete in the world.

Meditation gets him through every day and challenging his belief system as well as eliminating your ego. He teaches us to practice self awareness and stay present and to get off your phones to not check out of real life.

Ben, one of Rudy's best friends taught him to quit judging the experience before you have it, have the experience first and try to enjoy that and learn from it. That's what true life is.
This has been the reason that Rudy has started traveling again because he has discovered that for every challenge there is going to be a solution.
He talks about the trips he has taken so far to Miami, Columbia and Tulum.

Rudy says that his injury has made him see the better part of people.

Rudy credits his parents, his brother and his son for being 100 % supportive and helpful to him. Rudy has full custody of his son.
He owns his own real estate firm Texas Trust Reality and an investment firm House Hercules.

HIs son Aston is the proud owner of his own YouTube Channel Zenchi81-YT. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChSz_wsWWhju6SSiXMiSkGw

https://www.instagram.com/gadugadyy/
https://www.instagram.com/texastrustrealty/
https://www.instagram.com/househercules/

Question Of The Day:
Is under a year of dating too soon to move in?

Party With Miss Polly:
So many people are just going through the motions during sex

Gossip Segment - Too Posh Spills The Tea:
Gabrielle comes to you with some extra juicy neighbor gossip ...............

We welcome former Dallas Mavericks Dancer/ Captain and Choreographer to the show. After learning what her road to auditions and making the team was like we find out how she and the rest of the team
found out that the Mavericks Dancers would have to change their iconic uniforms.
We recorded an episode when this happened and Marcella had some really strong opinions on it back then - re listen to episode 54 and hear all about it.

Even more devastating was the news that the organization would get rid of the dancers altogether. The captain Mallory Mills and the entire team had to find out through the press - they were completely blindsided.
To date there are many people that cannot believe they got rid of one of the best dance teams in the NBA ever.

Ashley was super sad but she keeps dancing and auditioning and eventually wants to open her own dance studio in the DFW Area.

We talk passionately about how sad it is that people are so judgmental about woman's bodies.

Then we have some fun with Ashley during our segments. Don't miss them.

Question Of The Day:
Is seeing your ex on purpose, once you are in a new relationship ok?

Party With Miss Polly:
The Netflix Series Sex life brings the Coital Alignment Technique to the forefront and this brings ALL KINDS of hilarious surprises and discussions with the panel.

Too Posh Shares Some Juicy Gossip:
OMGOSH Ashley shocks and surprises us with some HUGE Gossip - DO NOT MISS IT - We are giving names and everything

Have you ever wanted to go off the grid? Leave everything behind and travel the world? This episode is for you.

We welcome JoJo Hess who went from an all consuming Corporate Job at BMF Body Machine Fitness in Plano, Texas to becoming a nomad.
He lasted for 5 years creating the brand, taking care of it as if it was his baby, working so very hard. But when he realized that in the end he wasn't an owner or a partner he decided to step away.

The demanding job, turning 30 and having a wonderful girlfriend that was ready to settle down and have a family made this free spirit run.
He is an untamable Gemini that cannot be tied down.

After his first stint in Panama where he learned that you don't necessarily want to live where you vacation he turned all the plans upside down.

Bumble made JoJo also known as a Gringo go to Colombia because Latin women absolutely love Gringos.
He tells us about falling madly in love with an amazing beautiful woman and even though being drunk in love he got caught red handed with another girl, which he still regrets.

We learn about JoJo getting scammed by a Telemedicine company. He was planning on going back to Florida, but he didn't stay there very long and has continued his travels to
The Netherlands, Italy, Malta and Portugal. Follow his adventures on https://www.instagram.com/joemadic/?hl=en

JoJo also was on the TV Show Friendzone.

QUESTION OF THE DAY:
You find out that your SO is in a group chat with friends comparing pictures of hot girls and guys and judging. Are you ok with this or are you mad.

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY:
What is Outercourse?

TOO POSH SPILLS THE TEA GOSSIP
A former sexy Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader who is a trainer at BMF and who was engaged broke off her wedding one week before the big day.

Taylor Cooley the incredible laser tech joins us with the injection queen Jen Pilotte and together they are some of the stars on the Lemmon Avenue Plastic Surgery Center Dream Team.

Taylor tells us how he changed his career from Fashion Design to Laser Technician and how extremely rewarding this has been for him. We learn all about the amazing treatments that he offers.
This show is so extremely informative and you should make sure you book your appointments soon as they are extremely booked.

Hand, Neck and Chest Restoration
We learn that they even treat the back of the neck and head now.

Ultra Glow Laser
Vascular treatment

Laser Hair Removal
Forever Clear Acne Laser
We talk about how hard it is to get acne under control and how lasers can really help and that if there are super stubborn cases they have an entire team of dermatologists they can refer.

We learn about how the new technologies have made it safe to use certain lasers on olive skins etc.

No Peel Peel

Fem Touch Vaginal Rejuvenation
Kegel Exercises
Hydro Facials
M Sculpt
Hyperpigmentation
Halo Laser
Collagen
Lemmon Avenue Skin Care
Piqo4 Laser
Profound Laser - Radiofrequency Microneedling
Sylfirm Microneedling Laser

Question of the Day Segment:
Do you think someone who made a drunken mistake and cheated once should be forgiven?
Ha this question gets us all really talking :)

Party with Miss Polly:
Sex Fantasies: "Becoming a Plate"

We welcome the incredible and amazing nurse practitioner, cosmetic injector Jen Pilotte and the awesome laser tech Taylor Cooley, who both are part of the one of a kind team at Lemmon Avenue Plastic Surgery Center.

We talk ALL THINGS beauty and anti aging. Gabrielle and Taylor discuss how weird it was getting threads and they wish it was permanent.
Jen says that this industry is in its infancy stages and we cannot wait to find out everything new that is up and coming. Jen is as huge believer in continuing education and participates in all possible
ways to further her craft and to bring only the best of the best to her clients.

The team at Lemmon Avenue, led by Dr Deuber and his wife Cary offers all that you could ever need.

We talk about liquid facelift, lips, migration, dissolver, Babytox, Microtox, Lipflip, chin contouring, Kybella, Microneedling, lasers, PRF, hairloss, Qwo, Sculptra and so much more

We also discuss Cruz's fear of needles and Gabrielle's inability to use the nitrous oxide correctly.

Jen loves to make a difference and she likes to create a balanced face to make everyone feel better about themselves.

QUESTION OF THE DAY SEGMENT:
If you lose attraction for your partner, do you think it can come back?

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY SEGMENT:
Exploring a hot and sexy fantasy idea - Boss/Employee/Co Worker

GOSSIP SEGMENT:
you never know what tea we spill on this episode