We welcome Cruz III as a co host to this show.
Vivian tells us all about her experience when she tried out to become a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader and was featured on the Hit CMT Reality TV Show "Making the Team." 2 years in a row.
It all started with her being an Apache Belle at Tyler Junior College and how she fell in love with dance.
After losing 30 pounds she tried out the first time for DCC and instantly became the first fan favorite on the show Making the Team.
She was in awe of all the support she received from family and friends. She went through training camp but that year the directors let her go right before the team was chosen because her thighs were too big.
She was devastated but also hopeful and determined to come back the next year.
Her focus became losing weight and it consumed her so much that it became an obsession. She counted every calorie she put in her body and spent every possible moment in the gym.
She takes us through the second auditions and how once again she made it to training camp. This year though the producers made her into a character and manipulated scenes so that she would appear self absorbed and better than others.
This is the total opposite of who she is in real life. Right before the final team was being picked Vivian could feel that Kelly Finglass was about to call her in the office and in a last ditch effort she wrote them a poem.
The poem meant nothing and they cut right to the chase and told her that they didn't want to take a risk with her and let her go a second time.
Vivian says that the producers set her up and she was devastated how they destroyed her character on an International level and that it prevented her from making other teams and people would gossip about her.
This experience has been the most tragic in her entire life because they defamed her character. She lost so much and she got so much hate mail with really nasty messages.
Vivian developed bulimia and never felt good enough, not pretty enough.
Marcella gets very passionate about how reality TV producers have no qualms about anything and will do whatever it takes for ratings and views.
Vivian gives a very inspiring speech to everyone especially the younger generation on how to love yourself even at your worst.
Marcella talks about how trying to be perfect can become an obsession in this industry.
Vivian had to unlearn the brainwashing and she says she just recently healed from it after 5 years.
She talks about her spiritual journey and that she has created a YouTube Channel and is writing a book to inspire others.
She has gone through healing hypnosis and her and Cruz start talking about spirituality and connection with the universe that leaves us speechless because we can't relate but we will do another show to learn all about it.
Penis and Pussy Talk with Miss Polly: Why is being dominated a sexual fantasy?
This whole segment is one of the funniest to date. The banter and talk between the cast is hilarious
Question of the Day: What if an ex from 5 months ago responds to an Insta Story ? - do they miss you or just want to be friends?

When people get married 2 families have to unite and there can be lots of issues and problems that one does not foresee. Here are the most important questions to discuss
and then some miscellaneous ones too.

1. How often would you want to visit your family?
2. What if one of your family members dislikes you?
3. If one of our parents becomes ill, how would we handle that? Do we take them in?
4. What kind of grandparents would we be? How involved would we be?

5. Which would you choose? Dishes or Laundry?
6. Do you like pets?
Bernie has a super passionate moment about his love for animals - even talking about wanting and kissing goats and pigs.
8. Social Media?
This is a huge topic because some people do not like it at all.
Marcella says she is going to expose all the married guys that contact her.
9. What is and isn't considered verbal abuse language?
We talk about the major trickle down effect of bad language and the damage.
10. Where do you want to live and would you move if we had to for jobs?

QUESTION OF THE DAY:
Do you believe in the right person but wrong time?

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY:
What about just the tip?
Bernie tells us that all his exes are Rockstar's in bed.

We are calling again for all Bernie's exes to come on the show.

This was our very first live show on YouTube and Twitch and we were quite nervous about it. This was actually a show that Miss Polly prepared and asked to do because of the importance
of sexual health knowledge for everyone. Miss Polly is our licensed sexual health therapy expert and she dfedicated this show to our Co Host Bernie.

She teaches us that male and female libidos are 2 very different things. Lubrication can make all the difference when it comes to good sex.
There are some fun, fiery conversations between Miss Polly and Bernie. They are so funny.

All Bernie's Ex girlfriends are being called upon to set the record straight about Bernie being the sex Adonis he claims to be. We need to know.

Miss Polly explains in detail all the problems that can arise when there is poor lubrication.

Bernie believes that healthy, great sex comes down to an ENTIRE EXPERIENCE and he gives us details about all that.
He is most definitely the expert when it comes to sex and that he is not against Lube but doesn't need it.

We read about all the different foods we can eat to help with libido and arousal.

We discuss how certain medications can affect your sex drive and discuss Blue Balls and Blue Vagina.

Miss Polly tells us that sex after cancer is not the same as before and how people struggle with lubrication after chemo and radiation.

Bernie asks a very important question if you are in a relationship with someone that does not have any sex drive at all. Miss Polly advises for people to seek medical attention if there are
severe issues with your sex drive, because there can be easy fixes and that spouses and partners need to be supportive and work together and not go out and cheat. We talk about rejection and cheating.

We all agree to take the love language test.

Question of the day:
Would you be upset if your ex that you are still in communication with would go on a Reality TV Show?

Party With Miss Polly:
BDSM World- How to properly choke your partner without crushing their wind pipe
Have a blessed day,

This episode covers some broader topics - but they are also some of the most important to discuss with your future spouse.

1. What would you do if we fell out of love?
We talk about eye rolling - there are reports that if you roll your eyes at your spouse that is an indication that you might get divorce.
2. What are your career aspirations?
3. What is your biggest fear of marriage?
4. What is the best thing to do to keep the love alive in your marriage?
we talk about love languages.
5. How do you think life will change if we get married?
6. What is the best thing about marriage?
7. What is the worst thing about marriage?
8. What is your idea of your best weekend?
9. How important are wedding anniversaries for you?
10. What type of house would you like to live in?
11. What do wedding rings mean to you ?
12. Are you afraid to talk to me about anything?
This subject makes us talk about when one or the other spouse initiates sex and the other is not in the mood and how to handle that situation.
Bernie of course never has had that problem before ever ;)
We are encouraging all Bernie's ex girlfriends to come on our show please. :)

QUESTION OF THE DAY: FOR YOUTUBE this is at 40:11
Your significant other doesn't hype you up - Red Flag or Deal breaker?

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY: FOR YOUTUBE this is at 42:12
What changes for sex as men get older?

We are super excited that we get to have our Miss Polly, our modern day Dr. Ruth with us the entire show. We talk about how crazy addicting Tik Tok is and Spyder informs us that
his guilty pleasure has been watching prison Tik Toks.

Then we continue the Pre Marriage Checklist discussion and this time we talk about how important it is to discuss each others medical information.

1. DOES ANYONE IN YOUR FAMILY SUFFER FROM ALCOHOLISM?
Gabrielle says that both her Dad and Grandfather were severe alcoholics. Bernie asks her how she has handled that and has she been affected herself in any way?
She tells him that because of the trauma of the experiences she is hyper sensitive towards it.
Then Bernie and Marcella talk about their Dallas Party Life style and how far away from that they are today.
Gabrielle talks about the struggles of having an alcoholic Dad and how she would never leave her children with him, because he could not be trusted.
This is a super important discussion to have before getting married.
Miss Polly tells us about her alcoholic Step Dad and the struggles that brings to their family.

2. WHAT IS YOUR MEDICAL FAMILY HISTORY?
Bernie tells us about one of his girlfriends that was adamant that he get a cancer insurance policy just in case for the "WHAT IF" scenario.

3. WOULD YOU BE OPPOSED TO MENTAL HEALTH TREATMENT?
We talk about how important it is to ask your future spouse how they feel about if their children are ADD, ADHD and not straight A students and what their approach would be.
Even though we all agree that there are some situations where medicating your children might be necessary we all agree that there are many other ways to handle this.
Bernie in particular is a huge believer in nutrition and that is of huge importance to control some of those issues and make sure that medication is not needed.
Gabrielle talks about that she preferred her hyper children with a personality and not have them medicated with a quick fix pill.

4. IF ONE OF YOU HAD TO CHANGE THEIR DIET FOR HEALTH REASONS WOULD YOU CHANGE YOURS TOO?
Bernie is very, very passionate about this one and he wants to create a Too Posh Health Eating Plan that not only makes your everyday life better but also will improve your sex life.
Stay tuned.

5. ARE YOU WILLING TO EXCERCISE WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER TO IMPROVE THEIR HEALTH?
Marcella and Bernie are very passionate about this subject. We congratulate Miss Polly on losing 70 pounds so far.

6. ANGER MANAGEMENT
We talk about people you would never think of going to therapy when they are about to lose their marriage because of their anger issues.

QUESTION OF THE DAY:
Is baby talk between SO's normal or weird?
We have some strong, funny opinions on this subject. Marcella goes on a mini rant, and Bernie doesn't understand why she feels that way.
Gabrielle then talks about how much she despises it when couples share their sex life - nobody needs to know or cares about when you had sex and how it was and how often.

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY
How does a person learn to deep throat?
Miss Polly gives, step by step detailed lessons.
Since Bernie gets worried about numbing sprays minimizing his experience, Miss Polly is getting very upset with him as usual.
It is so entertaining.

Today's episode highlights our 2 segments that are part of all our shows. They are always at the end and we want to make sure our listeners do not miss those because not only are they
super informative, but they are also usually the most fun parts of the show with the co hosts bantering back and forth.

We start the show with the "PARTY WITH MISS POLLY" segment

Miss Polly asks the question "What is the most important things when having sex that make you feel comfortable?"
Miss Polly has been a sexual poet of late and she is a big believer in lubrication and she educates everyone but in particular she educates Bernie.
She says "A WOMAN'S AROUSAL WILL WAX AND WANE, BUT THE LUBE WILL STAY THE SAME" Stuck out tongue winking eye
As usual Bernie and Miss Polly get into a bit of an argument but it is all in good fun.
Miss Polly tells us what the best brands of lubricants are and why.

"QUESTION OF THE DAY" segment

Do you prefer if your partner loves you more or if you love them more?
There is a heated back and forth between the co hosts - super entertaining as usual.

We start the show with some fun banter and are recapping some of Episode 217 with the amazing Dr Curtis Crane and we are thanking our listeners and followers and
are so grateful for each and every person that listens to our show.

Then we start the part 5 of our Pre Marriage Check List Show all about entertainment, and you wouldn't think that this is important to discuss before marriage but
it is super important.

1. Do you enjoy traveling?
Some people love to travel and explore and participate in non stop excursions, while others like to do nothing at all.
We talk about our trip to Barcelo Palace, Riviera Maya Mexico.
This topic also brings up the fear of flying.

2. How often would you like to travel?

3. How important is it to spend alone time for you?

4. How do you feel about going on trips with the girls/guys for a few weeks?
We have very strong opinions on this one

5. How important is spending time with friends for you?

6. What would be the perfect weekday evening for you?

7. What would we do if we both have a break from work but have different ideas how to spend that time?

PARTY WITH MISS POLLY SEGMENT:
Miss Polly shares her ordeal with Covid 19 and how she was sick for weeks and lost several school class mates during that time.

Then we learn so much during this sexual health education segment and we especially find out
that you are not supposed to "STICK YOUR P IN THE V WITHOUT STIMULATING THE C"
This discussion also prompts Bernie to tell the ladies to clean their vaginas.
Miss Polly suggests Lume deodorant for all the places on the female body as well as the male body.

QUESTION OF THE DAY SEGMENT:
Would you mind if your significant other is a gamer?

Carrie Minter tells all about how she grew up, how she became a model, moved to Los Angeles, became a Playmate, moved into the Playboy Mansion, married, divorced and became an entrepreneur running
her own empire called Carrie's Pilates Plus.

Carrie grew up in Mesquite, Dallas with a severely autistic brother who is non verbal, which was very hard on the family. Her parents divorced when she was 15 years old. Carrie started modeling at age 15, entered a
local modeling competition and won it. She signed with Elite Agency in New York, NOW Agency and Kim Dawson agency.
She got to Los Angeles at age 18 and with a very conservative Mom who she didn't get along with in her teen years, she immediately felt at home in LA because she didn't feel judged. Her dream was always to become an
actress, but after she started auditioning she realized she was a terrible actress and concentrated solely on modeling.

We then learn how Carrie ended up living in the Playboy mansion and being one of Hugh Hefner's girls. We find out all the steps from topless Polaroid day to move in day.
She moved into the mansion when Holly Madison was Hef's main girlfriend and she tells us all the details when she first arrived at the mansion. She tells us about her first dinner with Hef.
Carrie lived there right before the reality show "The Girls Next Door" premiered on E.

At any given moment there could be 12 girls living in the mansion, then he cut it down to 7 and eventually to 3 girls.
As expected we find out that there was always a lot of drama, and everyone was always trying to get Hef.
We find out who actually gets paychecks and how the other girls lived.
After a while Carrie couldn't take it anymore because she wasn't liked and her sensitive heart and soul could no longer take it. It just got too much with all of the girls.
She just wasn't prepared for this kind of world.

After moving out she did always love going back to the mansion for weekends or holidays because Hef always wanted to make sure the girls had a place to come to.
She tells us that it was so sad when Hef's Alzheimer's progressed and he couldn't remember her or some of the other girls.
She told us that Crystal, his last wife stopped the dinner and movie night weekends.

Carrie was 23 years old when she left the mansion and moved into an apartment in Hollywood. She started modeling again and we find out how she met her husband.
After their very first date they hit it off and got married 6 weeks later in Las Vegas. When she married him he had 1 Pilates studio in West Hollywood - today he has over 600 locations worldwide maybe more.

They were married for about 6 years, and even though she doesn't have many nice things to say about her ex husband, she does give him credit for being her mentor and teaching her work ethic and taught her a lot.
She tells us that the divorce was very hard on her, even though her marriage was very toxic, but passionate at the same time. It was very unstable.
She felt like she no longer had her own identity and felt very lost.
Even though recently divorced they were still going to couples counseling trying to work on their relationship when she found out that he had married a porn star in Las Vegas.
He ended up giving her the flagship location of the Pilates studio, but she found out later that it was losing money. She felt lost and depressed with no motivation.

One day she got it together and the studio became her safe place and saved her life. Today it is Carries Pilates Plus and a thriving studio with many celebrities and a very impressive client base.
She praises her incredible team, especially her right hand Alyssa and her family.
During Covid 19 they have rented a parking lot and created an outside workout experience second to none. They created a successful virtual program so Carrie's clients can work out from home during these trying times.
She has even created her own Pilates machine called "THE MINTER METHOD" and that is available for purchase for your home or if you want to open your own studio. She also holds recurring teacher trainings.
Her brand is unique, one of a kind, exquisite with high powered music and lots of energy.
Her Merch line is classy, beautiful and one of a kind.

Carrie is a big believer and supporter of the women empowerment movement.

We talk about how Carrie and Marcella met and how they have become best friends and are like twins. Marcella has recently gotten certified with the Carries Pilates Plus method and teaches on the virtual program.

Carrie has an unsurmountable love for dogs and has 5 dogs right now.

Carrie just recently got engaged to her fiancé Toni who surprised her with an incredible 10.5 carat engagement ring, and they are planning a wedding in 2021 in Dallas.

We talk about the new pop up workout that Carrie and Marcella are going to bring to Dallas in 2021, to expand Carrie's brand to the DFW area. They are very excited about that.

Follow and contact Carrie on her social media platforms
https://www.instagram.com/carrieminter/
https://www.instagram.com/carriespilatesplus/
https://www.instagram.com/mintermethod/

We finish the show with our 2 fun segments
PARTY WITH MISS POLLY:
What do squash, zucchini, cucumbers and bottles have in common?
QUESTION OF THE DAY :
If a person that you are thinking about dating is reckless, racing down the highway in their car and motorcycle - is that a red flag?

Debbie Moses Day - the precious Mom of our sweet friend Keith joins us on this tribute show to talk about all things Keith, his life and his legacy.
When a mother loses a child her biggest fear is for this child to be forgotten. We wanted to make sure that Keith will never be forgotten and wanted to
dedicate an entire show to him, with all of our favorite memories. Even though Keith was an adult, he was Debbie's only child and the loss has been devastating to her.
Keith was only 35 years old. Debbie wants this podcast to be a 2 fold thing - Honoring Keith's memory but also giving tips and spreading awareness to other parents
of adult children that may be struggling.

We learn all about Keith the young child, and early school years and how he got the name Scooter.
Keith was never shy and made lots of friends always. He was a daredevil from the young age of 5. He never felt any fear. He was into BMX and won lots of trophies.
Debbie shares lots of fun and cute stories and how he became a ladies man. She tells of some teenage shenanigans.
Keith always treated her special and loving, but especially on Mother's Day he always spoiled and surprised her.

After High School Keith went to the Marines, but broke his foot towards the very end of boot camp and that is when things started to change for him and he started getting
into drugs at age 19.
At age 21 he got into more trouble and was arrested - that is when Debbie pieced together that he was more in trouble that she thought. She says it was hard, because he was now
an adult and she no longer had any control. He started hanging out with the wrong crowd which made things worse. She buried her head in the sand because she didn't want to know.

We talk about Keith's love for bowling and how competitive he was.
Keith was always entrepreneurial minded and was into many things but then decided to concentrate only on his real estate, but Debbie thinks he got lonely when he moved back
to downtown Dallas, when things really started going bad again.

In November of 2016, Chris Allen, one of Keith's best friends suddenly passed away from an accidental drug overdose, followed by Davin Watson in April of 2017. Twins that Keith went to school with
committed suicide. Those losses really overwhelmed Keith, but he kept his feelings to himself and wouldn't ask anyone for help. He started pushing everyone away.
Keith didn't want to let anyone down and didn't want anyone to see him when he would get off track.
When you look at Keith that is not the face you would think was in trouble.

Marcella talks about one of the last Sunday Fundays she had with Keith where she saw him take prescription pills and told him that she worried about his heart. He assured her he was fine.

Debbie wants to tell everyone that parents need to have open conversations with their grown children, even if they reject them. If anyone feels that their grown child is pulling away, not calling
as often, not visiting as much, those are red flags and you need to deal with them and not bury your head in the sand. There is a fine line between parents and their grown children but
you should never stop trying to help them.

Debbie recalls texting with Keith to make birthday plans with him 2 days before he was found dead. He requested Pina Colada cake (his favorite) and told her he loved her.

Then Debbie tells us about the moment she received the detectives call, that told her that Keith overdosed and what happened next. She was in severe shock and cannot remember many things
from that moment on. She is very thankful to all the family and people that helped during that time and still today. She just wishes everyone would bring up Keith's name all the time.
Debbie then addresses the fact that Keith's casket was open at his funeral against her wishes but why she agreed to do it. She doesn't remember anybody at the funeral except when Davin's Mom hugged her
and handed her a card with her phone number. Debbie knew she knew her pain.

She is so happy that she has heard from so many people that loved Keith. She loved reading all the messages from all the people.

Debbie knows that Keith is in heaven, she found a bible she gave him a long time ago on his nightstand. Debbie knows he is with God and that God is taking care of him.
She had a dream of Keith coming back and telling her that he is sorry for hurting her.

We talk about more favorite, fun memories with Keith. Memories that we have forever. Memories of suicide shots, easter eggs eaten with the shell on, Keith wearing a girls mermaid tail, late night races, Sunday
Fundays, breakfasts at Denny's, sleepovers on our couch and bagel breakfasts, his kindness when helping homeless people and his sense of style and of course his foot fetish. He never talked bad about anyone and hated gossip.

Debbie wants Keith to be remembered as the person that brought people together, a person you could count on, that was fun, happy and all the good things.
He made such a big impact on people's lives. We believe that he pulled away from everyone before his death because he wants for everyone to remember him happy.
Debbie remembers standing in Keith's apartment where he died looking out the window to Methodist Hospital where he was born.
Rest in Peace Keith, We love you

The autopsy report said Keith passed away from an overdose of Methamphetamine.

After 216 episodes THIS episode is probably the most fun we have ever had. There are so many unbelievable moments.
The show starts with us learning all about the many different vaginas with a photo to help us visually. You have to tune into our
Youtube Channel to see what we are talking about.

Dr Curtis Crane, who is the Owner and Medical Director of Transcend Med Spa is open to the trans community as well as everyone.
Dr, Curtis alongside Natalie Yingling provide Botox, Filler, PRP, Microneedling, Hair Restoration, Labiaplasty, Clitorial Hood Reduction, Vaginal Rejuvenation and just recently started offering the "O" Shot!
Dr. Crane is a board certified plastic surgeon and urologist, with fellowships in reconstructive urology and transgender surgery. He has quite the resume, but is down to earth and
one of the most fun people we have ever met.

One of the funniest moments in this show happens when he tells us about recently giving his friend Tasha the "O" Shot. She has no sexual dysfunction but wanted to see what
enhanced orgasms feel like. Within minutes the show takes a turn and we are setting Bernie up with Tasha. We even call Tasha spontaneously and they are going on a date in 3 weeks and will come on
the show no holds barred and tell us all about the experience from both sides. No wonder, after Curtis called Bernie the Puerto Rican "Schwarzenegger" among other names.
Bernie is confident in his ability to sexually please.
STAY TUNED!!!!!!

Then Dr. Curtis tells us exactly how the "O" Shot is performed. It is supposed to last for 1 year.

Now we get into our special Too Posh Segments and WOW - each segment is more funny than the next

Party with Miss Polly Segment: "What sex move went viral lately that includes COCONUT?"
Marcella spells coconut with her hips - is going to attempt the spelling bee - everyone needs to watch this on YOUTube when it comes out.
Bernie talks about blowjobs, especially bad blowjobs.

Then we introduce our newest segment:
"READING EROTICA WITH FRIENDS"
In this short story Spyder, our DJ is the narrator while Marcella and Dr. Curtis are reading the male and female parts of the story.
Since this is the very first time we introduce this segment - it turns into a funny trainwreck, but it is so worth the listen. It is hilarious.
We have high hopes for this segment to be a fan favorite.

Question of the Day:
"Can you be a fuckboy to one person and not another?"
This segment leads into a huge discussion between Gabrielle and Bernie about having sex on a first date.
A must listen.

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