Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids

How do toddlers really feel when you force them to say sorry?

In this episode, I talk about what happens when we force toddlers to say sorry. I emphasize the importance of helping kids identify and own their emotions. I also stress that it is our job as parents and caregivers to hold space for our kids.

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March 18, 2025

Episode 229

How Toddlers Think and Feel When You Force Them to Say Sorry

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Children's author Sasha Saidman joins me in this episode to share her personal story of adoption and her views on embracing change, pursuing happiness and filling life with joy.

Check out Sasha's books and more of her work here: https://www.sashasaidman.com/

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March 13, 2025

Episode 228

How One Toddler Mom's Open Adoption Journey Inspired a Children's Book Series with Sasha Saidman

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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How intentional are you with the language you are using with your child?

In this episode, I talk about how conscious parenting is about being aware of the energy you bring to an interaction, the words you bring to the conversation and the meaning behind them- both how you intend and how they are received. I emphasize that there are words that build up identity and words that break down identity.

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March 11, 2025

Episode 227

The Power of Personal Pronouns (and How They Shape Your Child's Identity)

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Want to embrace emotional intelligence on your conscious parenting journey?

Micaela Passeri joins me today to talk about how emotions lead us to everything we do, the top 3 emotions that trip us up in life and emotional ninja hacks to manage these emotions.Micaela is a 6-time Award Winning Emotional Intelligence Business Strategist, Coach, International Speaker, Best Selling Author and Community Leader with over 20 years of experience building 6 and 7 figure businesses. Learn more about Micaela and her work here: https://loveyourevolution.com/.

Want to learn more about emotional intelligence with Micaela? Book a complimentary discovery call here.

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March 6, 2025

Episode 226

How to Banish Shame and Embrace Emotional Intelligence as a Conscious Parent with Micaela Passeri

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Ever heard yourself say that your child was "just born that way"?

In this episode, I'm discussing the differences between traits and characteristics. I explain that characteristics are skills that can be learned and how this relates to our children and encouraging them to grow and learn.

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March 4, 2025

Episode 225

Do Your Kids Fight All the Time? How to Raise Siblings Who Become Friends

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Jill Lerman is back to continue the conversation about what independent play is and why it matters!

Jill discusses how independent play builds resilience, confidence, creativity and helps dodge perfectionism. She also shares actionable tips and strategies to support and start to see more engaged independent play at home.

Jill is a teacher, play expert, consultant and mom trained in the RIE and Reggio-Emilia philosophies. Check out her free guide: ⁠Independent Play Tips for Any Age⁠ and her ⁠Playful Parenting Membership⁠

Teachers and ECE Professionals- what type of professional development would you benefit most from?

I do⁠⁠early childhood education trainings, pre-service, in-service⁠⁠ and everything in between and would love to connect with you on a 1:1 call to see how I can be of service to you and the littles you work with.

February 27, 2025

Episode 224

What Independent Play IS and Why it Matters with Jill Lerman (Part 2)

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Why is everyone always saying to take a deep breath?

In this episode I share why we are told to take a deep breath when we are triggered and need to regulate. I also share my personal breathing technique that I often use.

Looking for intentional language scripts you can use with your toddler?

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February 25, 2025

Episode 223

Why they REALLY Tell You To Take a Deep Breath to Self-Regulate

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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How important is independent play, really?

Jill Lerman joins me to discuss what independent play actually is and why it matters for your child and you and how independent play builds resilience, confidence, creativity and helps dodge perfectionism.

Jill is a teacher, play expert, consultant and mom trained in the RIE and Reggio-Emilia philosophies. Check out her free guide: Independent Play Tips for Any Age and her Playful Parenting Membership.

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February 20, 2025

Episode 220

The Power of Independent Play with Jill Lerman (Part 1)

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Is your child always saying "Watch this!", "Look what I did!"?

In this episode, I share whatwe can say to our kids when we can't always stop what we're doing to engage in what they want us to do or see.The words we use in these situations will help your child learn to trust your words. Remember, you have the ability to design the relationship with your children.

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February 18, 2025

Episode 221

My Toddler Wants My Attention All the Time! What Should I Say?

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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Worried about your kids learning to read and write?

Stacy Benge, author, early childhood speaker and mother of two, joins me to discuss howorganic conversations and child-led play sets children up for success for literacy. We also give you permission tostop worrying about your toddler knowing their ABC's and 123's.

Be sure to check out Stacy's new book The Whole Child Alphabet and learn more about her work here:https://www.stacybenge.com including her free trainingDoes Crawling Matter?

Teachers and ECE Professionals- what type of professional development would you benefit most from?

I do⁠ early childhood education trainings, pre-service, in-service⁠ and everything in between and would love to connect with you on a 1:1 call to see how I can be of service to you and the littles you work with.

Book your complimentary connection call⁠here.⁠

February 13, 2025

Episode 220

Early Literacy - How kids Actually Learn to Read and Write with Stacy Benge

About Your Host:

Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.

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