Trigger Proof Transmissions

Ever wondered what is causing relationship frustration

that pushes you further away from secure attachment?

The main root cause of anxious attachment?

The main root cause of your avoidant tendencies?

I cover it, as well as what needs to be done about it on this transmission.

Type in the comments what resonates most with you, 

and if you can identify yourself in any of these examples.
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

“We have been together for 10 years and we are stuck having the same argument over and over. We love each other, we are just building resentments over time and it seems like I’m getting the validation I need from the Therapist, but nothing is changing. 

Is there any hope?

Can this be solved?

——

I get questions like this all the time. 

Luckily there’s a place you can look where most therapists won’t be able to cover in a session. 

If you want to learn how to know if this relationship is right for you, watch this training.
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

I just got off a call with a woman who was stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere.

She wanted help.

The truth? 

She wanted MY help to change HIM.

Respectfully, that’s not how it works.

Everyone wants change,
but what I’ve discovered helping people overcome trauma bonds,
push/pull dynamics and attracting relationships that feel like the same type of person
avoidant partners who can’t commit, or narcissistic children who need a parent….

Most people are too ashamed to look in a mirror— at their own peril.

As a result, they go decades frustrated in the world of relationships
wondering if they are going to die alone, not claimed (as a woman)
not ever respected and followed (as a man),
knowing that life itself isn’t experienced with full magic unless and until
the mystery of relationships gets solved.

I felt the exact same way.
I realized that SOMETHING had to change.

My relationship to myself.
My reactivity.

MY SENSE OF SELF WORTH.

It all needed an upgrade.
When I did,

my relationships transformed, I became Trigger-Proof,
(not trigger-LESS!)

and I met my person.
And did what I was never able to do before:

Become a dad.
Have a family.
And get out of the exhaustive cycle of trauma bonds
and insecure attachments, wanting love, but too afraid to commit
because of unresolved pain.

This is your birthright.

This video goes over the PROCESS that change requires,
so you might see where you're at on the spectrum of change.

Tell me what this video brings up for you.

Your wingman on this adventure,

Nima

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WHEN YOU’RE READY, HERE’S WHAT WE GOT:

P.S. If you’re ready to find out what the process of Being Trigger-Proof ACTUALLY looks like,
I open up 10 spaces every month at our Overview Experience virtual Deep-Dive.
I teach my Cyclebreakers Community the practice and somatic process
I came up with that helps you master the art of REPAIR:
Turning Triggers into deeper self love,
and Conflict into deeper intimacy.

When you get this right, your anxious and avoidant tendencies shift to secure,
Trauma Bonds melt into compassion and understanding,
And you raise your status of who you attract and are attracted TO.

If you want begin the inner work and start to become more magnetic,
grab a spot on our next upcoming event.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw/?sl=transistor

After working with hundreds of women,

hearing their stories,

and working with men who’s wives have had enough…

I felt inspired to share this message as a public service announcement

of the 4 Trauma Responses we are responsible for learning how to regulate if we are to create safety and security in the home.

Not getting this right causes cycles of Intergenerational Trauma to pass down to the next generation, and everyone is impacted.

Last week, during the kickoff of my signature Overview Experience,
I found myself candidly sharing a deeply personal experience.
It's not often that I delve into such vulnerable topic— which are my sxxual shadows, but I felt compelled to discuss my past -
a past marred by unresolved shadows that sent my relationship spiraling into a challenging trauma bond.

The allure of secret thrills, the overwhelming intensity,
and the confusion of what I felt - it's all in this 14-minute video clip from the event.
It touches on subjects many shy away from but are essential to unpack.

For those who resonate with my story and want to learn more, I have exciting news.
 I’m launching a new course.
While there will be a fee associated with it eventually,
I’m offering it for free to those willing to attend live sessions and share their feedback.
These Masterclasses will be held over Zoom, starting this Wednesday, Aug 16th, and continuing weekly until Sept 6th.

 Missed a class? No worries, replays are available for 48 hours.

        • Masterclass #1: Is It Love or a Trauma Bond? Grasp the Push/Pull Dynamic.
        • Masterclass #2: Unpacking & Preventing Infidelity: Can the Relationship be Saved? Dive into the Impact of Polarity and our Sxxual Shadows.
        • Masterclass #3: Trauma Bonds & Money: Rediscover Your Self-Worth.
        • Masterclass #4: Becoming Trigger-Proof: Transform Insecure Patterns into Deeper Intimacy and Purpose.

(Times are all 3pm-4pm PDT- that’s 6-7 EDT— and 8am for our Friends in NSW on Thursday Morning).

If you're a dedicated professional,
eager to maturely engage in these conversations without prejudice,
I invite you to join our curated Facebook group.
I had to shift our discussions to Zoom due to some restrictions on Facebook around these topics,
ensuring I’m reaching those genuinely interested.

Do you dream of understanding and fostering a relationship built on healthy intimacy, potent polarity, and security?
Trust me, it's achievable.
The journey begins with understanding one's self-worth, and I’m here to guide you through it.

To participate, ensure you align with our group’s principles, answer a few entry questions, and register for the Zoom event found in the group.

Here's to embarking on this transformative journey together.

Your wingman on the adventure,

Nima
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

When you're ready, here's what we got:

Want to find out the root of all your sex and money issues?

Hint: it’s ALL trauma related. Follow the link to grab your spot to learn how to heal it
https://drnima.com/programs/rewire/?el=podcast

Join my Free Pop-Up Group to learn more about it. Make sure your answer all the questions:
https://drnima.com/lp/rewire-group/?el=podcast

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LET'S CONNECT:

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Email: nima@drnima.com, support@drnima.com

DEAR PEOPLE PLEASER IN RECOVERY, 

it’s not your fault that you are wearing a mask.
Growing up, if you’ve ever been punished or scolded for your authentic self expression, 
it makes perfect sense why you might want to hide certain aspects of yourself.

The problem is, this is a double edged sword, 
as it will without a doubt cause destruction to your intimate relationships.

The people who reach out for guidance on their relationship dynamics,
wondering if they should stay or go, 
hungry for relationships that feel secure, 
all have a humbling moment at our Overview Experience 
when I take them through the mastery of the most important skill they never learned:

How to take an emotional trigger that comes up in their relationship, 
and, instead of abandoning themselves,  turn it into deeper self love,
and turning the conflict itself into something that can create deeper intimacy.

As they are learning how to shift their relationship dynamics and become magnetic to 
secure love by expanding their self worth, they all realize the same thing:

Even though they feel unseen, unheard, and disconnected in their relationships,
it was THEMSELVES they abandoned long before their partner ever did.

This humbling realization, while it isn’t their FAULT, becomes an inspiring responsibility to heal.

Without healing the root cause of this self abandonment, 
we become “unconsciously empathetic” to others— fawning, people pleasing, and rescuing, 
at the cost of their own emotional, mental, and physical well-being.

I say it’s not your fault, because if you look closely, you’ll notice that this pattern began when you were little,
where you were validated and celebrated when you sacrificed your own well being to please others.

It almost forms an identity where you become a magnet for those who will take advantage of it.

Then you end up resenting THEM, hoping that by over-giving, the tables will one day turn,
and you’ll have a chance to receive.

And that day never comes.

If you can relate to this, and you’re wanting to learn how to expand your empathetic container 
to FIRST INCLUDE YOURSELF, this is exactly what learning how to become a CycleBreaker is all about.

Every month, I have a 6 hour intensive virtual retreat where as a community, we break these cycles
that began in childhood so that our children don’t grow up in the same pattern, 
and learn how to love themselves by the EXAMPLE we lead, not just lip-service.

This event is for our community members ONLY, but every month, 
I open up the space for 10 souls ready to break that cycle 
and learn how to be:
Emotionally resilient, 
Trigger-Proof
Self-Regulating
and Unapologetically living their values, but with empathy…

so that they can master the art of secure relationships and navigate conflict and repair artfully. 

To grab one of our last 3 spots, for our upcoming date on July 29th from noon-6pm PST (3-9 EST)
or Sunday morning from 5-11am in Oz, jump in and fill out the form describing exactly what your back story is,
and what you want to accomplish. 

For those last 3 spots— what’s included is a 1-1 Integration session with me afterwards where I help answer 
any remaining question so that you make sure you get your intentions met.

If you’re ready to break the cycle of people pleasing and showing up as insecure in your relationships, waiting to be chosen, 
constantly wanting love but feeling like you’re sabotaging it when it comes…

Tell me what you want to accomplish and I’ll show you the roadmap to get there.

We can’t do it alone, and no one can do it for us.

See you on the other side.

Nima
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

If you’re ever been stuck in a loop, repeating the same pattern in your relationship dynamic, 
pay close attention:

Freud called it the “Repetition Compulsion,” where even though you KNOW it’s not wise, 
or fulfilling, or even healthy, but unconscious forces are pulling us into what’s familiar to us.

All for the purpose of healing.

The problem is— our knee-jerk reaction is to play the victim and blame the other person,
completely unaware that it’s not anyone’s fault.

And suddenly, you wake up and notice these familiar patterns:

Not being able to express your needs, 
fawning and people pleasing,
attracting partners who treat us with disrespect,
not being able to stop with fantasizing 
inability to keep the sexual energy contained within the relationship (infidelity)
Anxious attachment/ Avoidant behaviour
Constantly losing yourself when in a relationship “I can’t have me AND you at the same time”.
Not feeling worthy enough unless you are NEEDED by a wounded bird to fix/rescue

We’ve seen it all.

And all the books and videos bringing our attention to this doesn’t change it, 
because the pattern lives deep within our body, 
in our shadows.

To shift these unconscious dynamics, we MUST go deeper— into the body, 
where all of the trauma and wounding is stored, 
and we must learn to adopt a new IDENTITY that isn’t based on SELF-ABANDONMENT.

This is exactly why I created the Overview Experience. 
This 5 minute clip is from a recent Overview Experience event, 
where I take my community through a process I had to invent 
to help me break free from my Trauma Bonded toxic relationship.

Before this work, a healthy secure relationship was impossible for me, 
as I was drawn to “fixing wounded birds”— as a reflection of the unhealed wounds within myself.

I take my community through the process of turning Triggers into Deeper Self Love and 
Conflict into Deeper Intimacy— because those were the skills I had to learn to create secure love,
and make sure that my son wasn’t growing up in a toxic environment 
and repeating what was unresolved within me.

This event, which is exclusively for our CycleBreaker community, is open to 10 guests
who resonate with what I’m sharing and are ready to delve deep into something unconventional that WORKS
to get to the root cause of why we attract the partners we attract and can’t keep from repeating the same loop,
even though you might be intelligent and can give great advice to friends with the same problems.

This work is for those who want to learn what embodied self love looks like, 
because they know that investing 6 hours on a Saturday (Sunday in Oz/NZ) for the sake of their kids, their health,
and their well-being is not only important, but ESSENTIAL and are willing to move through their fear and unworthiness
to get to the other side.

We have 5 spots remaining, and for those 5 who jump in this week, includes a 1-1 integration call with me afterwards
to help answer questions and ensure you get 100% of what you intended out of the event.

If you’re ready to take your relationships to the next level by choosing yourself, 
It will be an honour to guide you.

Your wingman on this adventure,
Dr. Nima
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

What if your partner doesn’t want to “do the work”?

I get this question all the time.
This video is an excerpt from our recent "Breathwork and Badassery” Experience.

I get this question almost every single time.

It’s almost as though we aren’t going to take part in our healing 
unless we have permission first.

This is the hallmark of Co-Dependency.

The very reason why you must— will be the very reason why you say you can’t.

Many folks resist the work because deep down they think 

“If I heal— I know I will outgrow my partner.”

This is the toughest part of Trauma Bonds.
We know that the quality of our lives depend on us healing and breaking free from them.

BUT: 

We don’t want to let them go.  
We’re addicted to them.

Even worse:  They form a part of our identity.

You were born into it.
Your learned it from your parents.

And guess what?

You’re teaching it to your children (without even knowing).

This is where courage comes in.

It takes courage to become a #Cyclebreaker.

It takes courage to say “this isn’t to save us.  This is to save me.  I can’t keep sinking with this ship anymore.”

When people apply to work with us, we often say:

“What if they say no?”
“What if they don’t help you pay for it?”
“What if you didn’t have their support and permission?”

👆🏽The question is— WOULD YOU STILL BE COMMITTED TO DOING IT?

If the answer is no— 
then no judgment here. I get it.

The fear of the unknown is often worse than the known— even if the “known” is miserable.

If you’re finally ready to figure out what self love looks like…
so that 1) they either feel inspired by who you’ve become and are too scared to lose you and will step up to meet you…

or 2)  You gather the emotional and material resources to FINALY say yes to yourself and OWN what you deserve….
and step away with love — with an open heart….Free from the Trauma Bonds that tie you together…

The invitation is there…

lean in, and jump into our upcoming event, or apply to receive guidance from a specialist in Breaking free from Trauma Bonds.

I’ve lived it.
I know how hard it is to be “the bad guy”.

The fear and guilt of being the villain in someone’s story is enough to keep you stuck there for decades— 
destroying your mental health and rotting your insides and aging you into Chronic illness.

It’s all tied together in the mind/body connection.

It’s certainly not your fault.

It didn’t start with you,
but it can end with you.

See you at the next perfect time, and let me know if this clip from our recent event resonates with you.

Nima
(Your guide on the side).
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming "Breathwork and Badassery" Live Event (Every month)
Regulate Your stress, deepen your connection to your inner child, process your stuck emotions and improve your capacity
https://go.drnima.com/bbvw?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR

If you’ve ever experienced one of the following:

Infidelity.
Domestic Abuse.
Toxic Relationship breakdown.
Divorce.
Addiction.
Mental health crisis.
Co-dependency.

Then you’re in good company these days.
It’s literally impossible to hit your 40’s without suffering through one of those wake-up calls.

That’s what they are designed to do:

To WAKE US UP.

If we don’t, we get to repeat the lesson.

If you’re noticing patterns
and cycles with yourself, and you’re ready to break that cycle,
you’l want to watch this video.

It’s an excerpt from my recent “Overview Experience” event where I break down the path and teach the tools in healing from it — so we can move to relationships that feel secure, and attachments that feel safe, and a sense of love towards ourselves we never really learned.

Think about it.

Where did you learn how to do relationships?

Deeply embedded in your nervous system through generations that came before you, you’ve been conditioned how to think and feel towards yourself, and what you feel you deserve in life, in relationships, and even in abundance and prosperity.

If you’ve ever felt yourself stuck in a loop like groundhog day, it’s for good reason.

Enmeshment is a developmental trauma where you have zero clue that you’re not in control of your emotions:

You’re run by the need to please others, abandon and betray yourself and perform for love.

What helped you cope in childhood and kept us safe is exactly what causes that list of wake-up-calls I shared above.

If you’re ready to change that pattern and heal,

watch the video…

and comment below.
Let me know what you think.
Can you relate?

Your guide on the side,
Nima
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming "Breathwork and Badassery" Live Event (Every month)
Regulate Your stress, deepen your connection to your inner child, process your stuck emotions and improve your capacity
https://go.drnima.com/bbvw?sl=transistor-podcast

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof

Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR