Inside the Children's Hospital

Trust, Grief, and Loving Your Child Through Big Identity Changes


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What happens when your child shares something that shifts the future you thought you understood?

In this episode of Inside the Children's Hospital, Katie sits down with Kelly Kemp — certified child life specialist of more than 30 years and mom of three — to talk about navigating trust, grief, advocacy, and love after her child was diagnosed with gender dysphoria and came out as transgender.

Kelly shares:

  • The phone call that changed everything

  • Navigating substance use and mental health concerns

  • Grieving privately while choosing love publicly

  • Rebuilding trust with her child

  • Supporting siblings during a major transition

  • Setting boundaries with extended family

  • Finding affirming medical and mental health care

  • Holding faith and parenting together during uncertainty

This conversation is not about politics. It is about parenting inside a medical diagnosis. It is about trust. It is about grief that doesn't mean rejection. And it is about the steady, protective love that children need — especially when the world feels loud.

Whether your child is navigating a medical diagnosis, identity development, or a season you didn't anticipate, this episode will remind you:

Grief and love can coexist.

Trust is foundational.

And your child still needs you.

Resources & Crisis Support:

  • The Trevor Project: Providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people.

    • Call: 1-866-488-7386

    • Text: START to 678-678

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: For mental health crises in the US.

  • Free Mom Hugs

  • WPath (World Professional Association for Transgender Health)

  • The Trans Family Alliance

  • Please note: Some organizations have private social media groups. For more information on those, you are welcome to private message Kelly Kemp.

Connect & Support from Child Life On Call:

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  • Visit insidethechildrenshospital.com to search stories and episodes easily

  • Follow us on Instagram for updates and opportunities to connect with other parents

  • Download SupportSpot: receive Child Life tools at your fingertips.

  • Leave a Review: It helps other families find us and access our resources!

Medical information provided is not a substitute for professional advice—please consult your care team.

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Inside the Children's HospitalBy Katie Taylor, Certified Child Life Specialist

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