Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault can cost a woman over a million dollars in her lifetime! In this week's I dive into to the different factors that can contribute to this and my guest Tess Kram, an entreprenuer and financial expert will help us get a money mindset straight with some great tips on how to take control of your financial future!

Here are some links and resources to some of the topics we discussed in this episode: ( None of these link are affiliate links)

If you want to connect with my guest today, Tess Kram you can find her on Instagram and Facebook @TessKram

If you would like to connect with her for some "Financial Therapy" here is the link to her professional contacts.

https://agents.worldfinancialgroup.com/tess-kram

Also in this episode:

Ed Mylett Podcast: https://www.edmylett.com/podcasts/

The Latte Factor- You can get it on Amazon- (this in NOT an affiliate link)

https://www.amazon.com/Latte-Factor-Dont-Have-Rich/dp/1982120231

You can follow me- your host on Instagram @survivors.success.coach @rebeccacia.co

Can watching scary movies help you face your fears and could it lessen the effects of Post Traumatic Stress?

If you're a survivor living with unconscious fear all the time, being easily triggered, and feeling the unwanted and debilitating physical symptoms without warning, and on top of that you are constantly worried that you are going to have a panic attack, of course the idea of being scared on purpose just sounds stupid right?

Well that's what I wanted to find out. I wanted to know if we can experience fear without feeling afraid? So I did some research and a little (failed) experiment to find out.

If you are wondering about Lttle Baby Albert- Here's some info on that.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Little_Albert_experiment

Here is some more info on the Dr Ossama Khalafs experiment:

https://www.science.org/doi/full/10.1126/science.aas9875

Here is some more info on scary movies and antiety:

https://www.psycom.net/scary-movies-anxiety

If you want to know which of the 6 human needs you favor here's a little test you can take:

http://6-human-needs.sfwalker.com/results/?id=40770

Do any of these sound familiar:

"I'm damaged goods, I hate myself, I don't even know who I am anymore, I just wish I could feel normal, No one gets me, I don't belong here, All men are assholes, The world is going shit, I will never get better, I can't have nice things, Fuck my life."

Trauma fuels our fears and insecurities. After trauma we are on high alert. We question everything and become hyper-vigilant in an attempt to regain control and feel safe, and we often get stuck in survival mode. In this week's episode is about the three lies that trauma is telling you and how you can call BS so you stop surviving and start thriving.

Welcome Back Survivors! To TUCK YOUR BOOBS IN: THE PODCAST that prepares survivors for the battle of overcoming trauma and helps you get your shit together after Crisis.

When we reach our capacity to handle stress, it can very quickly spiral into depression. However, we can prevent this with a few simple tactics to not only reduce the impacts of stress, but by also building resilience in the brain. In this weeks episode I share with you exactly how I did it when I was completely overwhelmed, stressed out and on the verge of depression.

Welcome Back Survivors! To TUCK YOUR BOOBS IN: THE PODCAST that prepares survivors for the battle of overcoming trauma and helps you get your shit together after Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault.

Do you know someone who always makes it about them? No matter what the subject is. Or someone who always asks questions they already know the answers to, just to tell you “I told you so!” Or someone so obsessed with status, power, money, or control?

I'm your host Rebecca Cia and On this week's episode we are going to talk about the personality disorder that often disguises itself as Narcissism, and how to recognize it and deal with this particular brand of toxicity. So go ahead and tuck your boobs in and let's get started!

Find out if you're a Machiavelian- Take the Quiz!

https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/MACH-IV/

Welcome Survivors! To TUCK YOUR BOOBS IN: THE PODCAST that prepares survivors for the battle of overcoming trauma and helps you get your shit together after Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault.

I'm your host Rebecca Cia and On this week's episode we are going to talk about why we feel like we are going crazy and losing our minds after a traumatic experience, and I am going to share with you 3 simple things you can do to regain control of your mind and body quickly and easily.

So Tuck Your Boobs In and let's get started!

Welcome survivors to Tuck Your Boobs In, the podcast that prepares survivors for the battle of overcoming trauma and helps you get your shit together after crisis.

I'm your host, Rebecca Cia and on this week's episode, we are going to talk about 10 things you should never say to a survivor of sexual abuse or sexual assault and what to say instead. And if you are a survivor, what can you do or say if anyone ever says any of these things to you.

Now personally, I have experienced every single one of these, some of them more than once. And I'm sure there are even more common things that survivors here that may come from well-meaning, but under informed individuals.

So this episode is about reducing ignorance and about educating the support system to survivors. So even if you're a survivor, please share this with your support system to help them better help you. So let's dive in.

On this week's episode, we're going to talk about undiagnosed PTSD and what that really means. I'm going to reveal some of the often overlooked symptoms of trauma and how trauma may be sabotaging your life. And finally, I'm going to share with you some of my own resources for undoing the damage that trauma has done and how you can take your life back.

So go ahead, take a deep breath, Tuck your boobs in and let's get started.

In this short episode, I introduce myself and give you a heads up as to what this podcast is all about.

You'll learn what it means to "Tuck Your Boob In" and why I take a NO BS approach to getting your S#!T Together after crisis.

Join me!