In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I welcome Dr. Jordan Grumet, hospice physician, financial expert, and author of The Purpose Code. We dive into the fundamental difference between meaning and purpose, how childhood narratives shape our life choices, and why many people struggle to feel “enough.” Jordan shares powerful insights on why purpose isn’t something you find—it’s something you build—and how small daily actions can create a fulfilling, purpose-driven life.

Quotes:

“Purpose is about action. It’s not something you find, it’s something you create.” – Jordan Grumet“You don’t become a runner by buying shoes. You become a runner by running.” – Jordan Grumet

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:00] Jordan’s journey from doctor to purpose-driven work

⏳ [3:40] How childhood experiences shape our understanding of meaning

⏳ [7:10] The difference between meaning (past stories) and purpose (present action)

⏳ [12:00] The trap of living out someone else’s version of success

⏳ [17:00] Why big, goal-based purpose often leads to anxiety

⏳ [22:30] How to shift from external validation to intrinsic fulfillment

⏳ [29:00] The power of “little P” purpose and daily joy

⏳ [35:10] Four techniques to discover your personal purpose anchors

⏳ [40:00] Why purpose should be built around actions, not just people

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with Jordan Grumet:

• Website: JordanGrumet.com
• Podcast: Earn & Invest
• Books: Taking Stock and The Purpose Code
• Substack: The Purpose Code

📖 Recommended Books & Resources:

• The Purpose Code by Jordan Grumet
• Taking Stock by Jordan Grumet
• The Power of Meaning by Emily Esfahani Smith
• Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and reflects my experiences as a financial therapist and Certified Financial Planner™. It is not a substitute for professional financial, legal, or mental health advice. Every individual’s situation is unique, and I encourage seeking personalized guidance from a qualified professional.

Thank you for listening—remember, healthy love and money go hand in hand!