Two Besties with a Mic

Two Besties with a Mic

By Devan Robinson and Kelsey DarouBusinessEntrepreneurship
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  • 031 Is It Normal to Pee When You Sneeze? (And Other Pelvic Health Questions Answered) with Dr. Rebecca from Terra Physical Therapy Wellness

    Welcome back to Two Besties with a Mic! In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s rarely talked about but affects so many people—pelvic health. If you’ve ever wondered whether leaking when you laugh, sneeze, or work out is normal, this episode is for you.


    We’re joined by Dr. Rebecca, a pelvic floor physical therapist and yoga teacher, who breaks down everything you need to know about pelvic health, incontinence, painful sex, postpartum recovery, and more. She shares expert insights on how the pelvic floor muscles function, common misconceptions about Kegels, and the connection between mental health and pelvic wellness.


    ✔️ What exactly is the pelvic floor, and why does it matter?
    ✔️ The biggest myths about Kegels—are they really the answer?
    ✔️ How trauma, stress, and emotions impact pelvic health
    ✔️ What’s actually normal when it comes to bladder control, periods, and sex
    ✔️ The connection between pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and pelvic floor issues
    ✔️ What you can do NOW to improve your pelvic health


    Whether you’ve had kids, plan to, or just want to understand your body better, this episode is packed with must-know information. No topic is off-limits, and no question is TMI!


    🌿 Website: Terra Physical Therapy
    📲 Instagram: @dr.rebecca.dpt.ryt


    Dr. Rebecca is offering virtual consultations and launching a virtual prenatal yoga series starting February 13th! Plus, if you're in the Syracuse area, keep an eye out for her upcoming pelvic floor yoga teacher training and a workshop at Elevate Summit 2025!


    ✨ Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it!
    ⭐️ Leave a review and let us know your biggest takeaway!
    📩 Got a question or a topic you want us to cover? Slide into our DMs! @twobestieswithamic


    Thanks for tuning in—your pelvic floor will thank you! 💪💖

    59 min
  • 030 Unlocking the 18 Laws of the Universe: A Manifestation and Self-Growth Journey | Two Besties with a Mic

    Welcome to Episode 30 of Two Besties with a Mic! In this transformative episode, Kelsey and Devan take a deep dive into the 18 Laws of the Universe, exploring how they shape manifestation, personal growth, and our connection to the world around us. Whether you're new to the concept of manifestation or a seasoned pro, this episode will help you uncover actionable insights to align with your purpose, balance your energy, and unlock your potential.


    Highlights include:

    • What is manifestation, really? (Hint: It’s not about crystal balls or voodoo dolls.)
    • The Law of Divine Oneness: How we’re all interconnected.
    • The Law of Vibration and the importance of high-frequency energy.
    • Breaking down the Law of Attraction and why "like attracts like."
    • The Law of Mirrors: What your reality says about your inner world.
    • Real-life examples and lessons from personal experiences.

    • Books and Influential Figures Mentioned:

      • The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
      • Kathrin Zenkina, creator of Manifestation Babe Academy
      • Human Design for discovering your life’s purpose

      • Additional Resources Covered:

        • The Butterfly Effect and its relevance to manifestation
        • Quantum entanglement and the science behind interconnectedness
        • Cord-cutting meditations for emotional healing
        • Aligning with your biological and creative rhythms

        • Favorite Quotes from the Episode:

          • “Everything in reality is a reflection of what is going on inside of us.”
          • “You teach others how to treat you through your boundaries.”
          • “The universe doesn’t listen to begging; it listens to alignment and belief.”

          • Loved this episode? Subscribe and leave us a review! Share this with a friend who’s ready to manifest their dream life. Tag us on social media with your biggest takeaway from the 18 Laws of the Universe, and don’t forget to follow us for more empowering content.

            1 hr 30 min
          • 029 Goal Alignment, Core Values, and Empowering Personal Growth

            In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, Kelsey and Devan explore how to ditch rigid New Year’s resolutions and focus on setting goals that truly align with your values. They kick off by tackling a listener’s dilemma about balancing personal needs and family responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and teamwork.


            Devan introduces her approach to goal alignment, which prioritizes flexibility and authenticity. Instead of traditional resolutions, she suggests aligning your ambitions with your core values, such as family, freedom, or creativity, and breaking them into actionable steps. Reflecting on past successes and challenges is key to this process, helping you set goals that are both meaningful and achievable.


            The besties also dive into strategies like the Wheel of Life tool and visualization exercises to make your goals feel tangible. Most importantly, they remind listeners to give themselves grace—life changes, and your goals can, too.


            Have questions or want to share your goals? Email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠ or follow us on ⁠Instagram @twobestieswithamic⁠.


            Join the Conversation: What are your 2025 goals? Share your core values and alignment journey with us on social media using #TwoBestiesWithAMic.

            43 min
          • 028 From Yo-Yo Dieting to True Nourishment with Emily Gozy

            Welcome to another inspiring episode of Two Besties with a Mic! In this special episode, Devan and Kelsey sit down with their first-ever guest, registered dietitian Emily Gozy (formerly known as Emily Tills). Emily shares her personal journey, from overcoming an eating disorder to building her impactful business, Nourished with Emily.


            Emily's mission is clear: to help clients break free from restrictive dieting, rebuild their relationships with food, and live healthier, balanced lives. Together, we explore:

            • The origins of food-related trauma and how it shapes our eating habits.
            • Busting myths about nutrition and diet trends.
            • Practical tips for busy people to nourish themselves (without stress).
            • How to enjoy holiday meals without guilt or extremes.

            • This episode is packed with eye-opening insights and actionable advice for anyone ready to let go of food guilt and embrace a sustainable, nourishing approach to health.


              Connect with Emily:
              Discover more about Emily's approach to nutrition and her transformative programs:

              • Free Guide: Download Emily's Nutrition for Stress and Inflammation Guide for actionable steps to reduce stress and feel better. Grab it here!

              • Group Coaching: Join Emily's 8-week small group coaching program starting January 20th. Learn to build a strong nutrition foundation with personalized support. This program is FSA/HSA eligible! Details found here.

              • Nourished Membership: Get access to recipes, resources, and monthly masterclasses for just $29/month.
              • Details found here.⁠


                Follow Emily on social media for daily tips, recipes, and inspiration:

                • Instagram & TikTok: @nourishedwithemily
                  • LinkedIn: Emily Gozy

                  • Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Two Besties with a Mic! And let us know: What’s one thing you’ll try from today’s conversation?

                    1 hr 3 min
                  • 027 Understanding Attachment Theory, From Secure to Fearful Styles Explained

                    In this week’s episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Kelsey and Devan dive into the intricacies of attachment theory. Have you ever wondered why some people effortlessly form secure connections while others face challenges rooted in anxiety or avoidance? This conversation unpacks the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful—to shed light on how these patterns develop in childhood and evolve into adulthood.

                    Listeners will get a blend of psychology, personal growth insights, and the duo’s signature humor. From Kelsey’s thoughtful analysis to Devan’s hilarious detour about why grabbing fast food before a massage is a no-go, this episode balances education with entertainment. Whether you’re curious about your own attachment style or looking to deepen your understanding of relationships, this episode is a must-listen!

                    What’s Inside This Episode:

                    • 00:00 – Introduction and Recap: Kelsey and Devan reflect on last week’s episode and set the stage for today’s discussion.

                    • 00:31 – Diving into Attachment Theory: An overview of what attachment theory is and why it matters.

                    • 01:17 – Types of Attachment Styles: Breaking down the four primary attachment styles.

                    • 03:50 – Attachment Styles in Children: How attachment begins in early relationships with caregivers.

                    • 09:33 – Attachment Styles in Adults: The lasting effects of childhood attachment and how they play out in romantic, platonic, and professional relationships.

                    • 14:36 – Personal Reflections on Attachment: Kelsey and Devan share their own experiences with attachment styles and how they’ve evolved over time.

                    • 19:32 – Improving Attachment Styles: Practical tips and strategies to develop healthier attachments.

                    • 25:27 – Conclusion and Next Episode Teaser: Wrapping up with key takeaways and a sneak peek at what’s coming next week.

                    • Tune in for an insightful mix of psychology, personal anecdotes, and a lot of laughs. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with your friends! Follow Two Besties with a Mic on @twobestieswithamic on IG for more updates and behind-the-scenes content.

                      29 min
                    • 026 Election Results 2024: GOP Policies, Civil Rights, and Preparing for Change | Two Besties with a Mic

                      In this hard-hitting episode of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey get real about the recent presidential election and its aftermath. With Kamala Harris losing to the Republican candidate, emotions are running high, and the duo takes time to process their own feelings while unpacking the nation’s collective reaction.


                      What’s Inside This Episode:

                      Election Fallout: How the results are shaking up the political landscape and impacting diverse communities.

                      The GOP’s 20 Promises: A deep dive into the new administration’s key policies, including tariffs, education reform, and border enforcement.

                      Civil Rights at Risk: Exploring the wider societal and economic implications of these changes, from transgender rights to mass deportation efforts.

                      Practical Advice: Tips on staying informed, resilient, and proactive as policies begin to roll out.

                      Heartfelt Reflections: Personal takes on the importance of community, advocacy, and mental health during political shifts.


                      🎧 Tune in for unfiltered, thought-provoking discussions that blend political analysis with personal insight—because when the world feels uncertain, we’re here to talk through it, bestie-to-bestie.

                      Send any questions or comments to [email protected].

                      1 hr 7 min
                    • 025 Embracing Mindfulness and Letting Go of Past & Future Stress

                      In Episode 25 of Two Besties with a Mic, Kelsey and Devan tackle the ever-buzzing topic of mindfulness, exploring what it truly means to be “present” in today’s chaotic world. Drawing from personal stories, including recent life changes and losses, they discuss how to embrace the present moment without being weighed down by past anxieties or future worries. Whether it’s managing the mental load, understanding the role of ego, or finding peace in everyday routines, this episode sheds light on practical tools and insights to help you cultivate mindfulness in a way that fits your life. Join the conversation for a real, relatable discussion about the challenges and rewards of living in the here and now.

                      Keywords: mindfulness, being present, managing anxiety, letting go of stress, staying present, managing mental load, self-help podcast, podcast for women, mental health, embracing mindfulness, personal growth podcast

                      Show Notes:

                      • [00:01:00] - Introduction & Catching Up: Kelsey and Devan are back! They introduce Episode 25 with some lighthearted banter and updates.

                      • [00:03:00] - What is Mindfulness?: Defining mindfulness, being present, and the challenges of truly living in the moment.

                      • [00:05:00] - Mindfulness for Kids: Devan and Kelsey share how they approach mindfulness with their children, who often worry about the future.

                      • [00:07:00] - The Mental Load and Mindfulness: Kelsey explains how the mental load and constant to-do lists pull us out of the present, causing stress and overwhelm.

                      • [00:09:00] - Refocusing After Loss: Kelsey shares a story about recent family loss and how it brought her back to being present with her loved ones.

                      • [00:13:00] - Rediscovering Joy in Old Passions: Devan opens up about rejoining her Muay Thai class, confronting anxiety, and rediscovering her “happy place.”

                      • [00:17:00] - Befriending the Ego: They discuss how the ego, while protective, can prevent us from being present, and how to gently “befriend” it.

                      • [00:19:00] - Breaking Down Tasks for Mindfulness: Devan shares how focusing on small, achievable tasks helps her stay grounded and reduces stress.

                      • [00:23:00] - Gratitude Over Apologies: Kelsey talks about reframing language to say “thank you” instead of “sorry,” helping her show gratitude and self-compassion.

                      • [00:24:00] - Intentional Words, Thoughts, and Actions: Wrapping up with the importance of being intentional in everyday actions, Devan and Kelsey leave listeners with a powerful quote on the significance of the present moment.

                      • Connect with Us:

                        • Follow us on Instagram @TwoBestiesWithAMic for more updates.

                        • Subscribe for weekly episodes that help you navigate life’s ups and downs with humor and heart.

                        • 27 min
                        • 024 Navigating Friendship Breakups, People-Pleasing, and Setting Boundaries

                          In Episode 24 of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey dive deep into the complex dynamics of friendship breakups, the pitfalls of people-pleasing, and the importance of setting boundaries. This heartfelt and raw conversation unpacks the impact of unresolved expectations in friendships and the personal toll it takes. Devan shares a vulnerable story about being blindsided by a friend’s sudden exit, reminding us all of the power of clear communication and self-respect. Together, they explore how people-pleasing often leads to resentment, and why self-advocacy is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.

                          Whether you're dealing with a challenging friendship, learning to say “no,” or trying to break free from the cycle of seeking validation, this episode offers practical advice and relatable stories to help you build a stronger, more authentic self.

                          Keywords: friendship breakups, people-pleasing, setting boundaries, self-advocacy, mental health, podcast for women, self-improvement, overcoming self-doubt, communication in friendships, podcast for moms

                          Show Notes:

                          • [00:01:00] - The Accidental Hiatus: Devan and Kelsey discuss the busy summer and why their recent hiatus was necessary.

                          • [00:05:00] - Deployment Struggles: Devan opens up about life challenges during her husband’s deployment, from household repairs to managing the kids.

                          • [00:09:00] - Navigating a Painful Friendship Breakup: Devan shares the story of a close friend suddenly ending their relationship, the emotional toll it took, and the self-reflection that followed.

                          • [00:20:00] - Understanding People-Pleasing: Kelsey explains why people-pleasing can be a manipulative behavior, often stemming from a need for validation. They discuss how to recognize and break free from this pattern.

                          • [00:27:00] - The Power of Saying No: The hosts highlight the importance of honest communication and why saying “no” is vital to setting healthy boundaries.

                          • [00:33:00] - Advocating for Yourself: Devan emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy in personal and professional relationships, reminding listeners that nobody else will stand up for their needs.

                          • [00:39:00] - Self-Reflection and Growth: Kelsey and Devan reflect on how self-awareness helps avoid future toxic relationships and keeps them aligned with their values.

                          • Connect with Us:

                            • Follow us on Instagram @TwoBestiesWithAMic for more updates.

                            • Subscribe for weekly episodes that help you navigate life’s ups and downs with humor and heart.

                            • 49 min
                            • 023 Mastering the Mental Load: Strategies for Women, Moms, and Entrepreneurs

                              In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Devan and Kelsey dive deep into the concept of the mental load, a silent burden often carried by women, moms, and entrepreneurs. They discuss personal experiences, provide practical strategies, and emphasize the power of self-compassion in managing the daily mental to-do list. Listeners will gain valuable insights into improving communication, aligning tasks with core values, setting achievable goals, and avoiding overcommitment. The episode also offers tips for delegating, breaking tasks into smaller steps, and using time-saving services like grocery delivery to lighten the load. Featuring a TikTok perspective from Zach, the recovering man-child, the episode wraps up with a fun chat about Love Island.

                              Topics include:

                              • Understanding cognitive load
                              • Sharing mental load in relationships
                              • Coping strategies and self-care
                              • Aligning core values with responsibilities
                              • Real-world tips for managing tasks
                              • Perfect for moms, business owners, and anyone looking to reduce stress in modern life, this episode is a must-listen for practical solutions and relatable conversation!

                                30 min
                              • 022 Exploring Love Languages: Deepening Relationships Through Acts of Love and Communication

                                In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Devan and Kelsey dive into the world of love languages, offering a thorough exploration of Gary Chapman's five love languages. They provide a beginner-friendly overview while sharing personal stories about how love languages have shaped their own relationships. The discussion touches on acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, gift-giving, and physical touch, highlighting their significance in fostering deeper connections. The episode also explores relationship challenges, including the impact of travel logistics, emotional dynamics, and parenthood, while underscoring the importance of understanding personal boundaries for better communication and appreciation within partnerships.

                                Listeners can expect insightful tips on:

                                • The five love languages and their importance
                                • The emotional weight of gift-giving and receiving
                                • The power of quality time and physical touch
                                • Acts of service as a form of love in action
                                • How to navigate relationship dynamics with empathy and respect
                                • Whether you're in a long-term partnership or curious about strengthening your connections, this episode provides valuable insights into enhancing your relationships through love languages and better communication.

                                  54 min

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