Mike has found a helpful metaphor to guide us when children's goals and caregivers' goals might seem at odds--we're on the same team. Ross points out that sometimes this means we need to ease up on our momentary goals, avoid becoming an opponent, and think about how we build relationships. Joey has found that children often find comfort in belonging to a "team." Tom reminds us that there are many roles to play on the team, "somebody needs to sing."