In this episode of Unholier Than Thou, I’m joined by my husband Ryan -aka Smitty - as we take a deep dive into the history and timeline behind one of the most talked-about and controversial cases in recent true crime.

Mica Miller’s death in April 2024 shocked the country and sparked countless questions, investigations, online theories, and intense public scrutiny. But to understand why this case has captured so much attention, you have to go back and examine the complicated history that came before it.

From Mica's relationship and marriage to pastor John-Paul “JP” Miller, to allegations of abuse and stalking, the religious and church dynamics surrounding the case, and the death of Chris Skinner, we’re unpacking the timeline and discussing the disturbing questions that continue to surround this story.

We also take a closer look at the role that religious authority, coercive control, church culture, and spiritual abuse can play when power and relationships collide.

Throughout this episode, we discuss the difference between documented facts, allegations, official findings, and speculation. This is an ongoing story, and we believe it's important to question the narrative while also being responsible about the information we share.

So join us as we go down the rabbit hole into the history of the Mica Miller case.

What happens when the person you're taught to trust and obey is the person you're trying to escape?

 Listener discretion advised: This episode discusses death, alleged abuse, stalking, coercive control, and sensitive topics.

If you enjoy this episode, please help support Unholier Than Thou by liking, sharing, subscribing, and leaving a review. Your support helps us continue having uncomfortable conversations, challenging inherited beliefs, and asking the questions others might be afraid to ask.

Until next time, stay curious, keep asking questions, think for yourself, and never stop searching for the truth. The answers may not always be comfortable, but the pursuit of truth is always worth it. Thank you for listening.

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What happens when you grow up believing you have the truth, but start asking questions anyway?

In this episode of Unholier Than Thou, I’m joined by Reba, who was raised in an Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church as a pastor’s daughter. From a young age, she questioned whether she was truly being taught the truth. As she entered adulthood, she began researching the beliefs she had inherited...and discovered they weren’t the whole story.

Eventually, Reba made the difficult decision to walk away from her faith. Leaving meant more than changing what she believed; it also meant losing her community and relationships with some family members. But on the other side of that loss, she found freedom from the fear, guilt, and shame that had shaped her life.

Today, Reba embraces curiosity, asks the questions she was once afraid to ask, and gives herself permission to experience all that life has to offer.

In this conversation, we talk about growing up IFB, questioning inherited beliefs, researching your way out of certainty, religious deconstruction, losing community, navigating family relationships, and discovering who you are when you stop living according to someone else’s rules.

If you’ve ever questioned the beliefs you were raised with, felt afraid to ask certain questions, or wondered what life could look like outside the faith you inherited, this conversation is for you.

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Leaving a religious system can change far more than what you believe. It can force you to question your identity, your values, your relationships, your role as a parent, and even your understanding of who you are.

In this episode of Unholier Than Thou, I’m joined by Audra Phelps, who works with former Mormon mothers navigating life beyond the structures and expectations of the LDS Church.

We talk about one of the most overlooked parts of religious deconstruction: rebuilding your identity after you've spent years being told who you're supposed to be.

Who are you when your religion no longer defines you?

How do you figure out which parts of yourself are genuinely yours?

What happens when the roles, rules, and expectations you've built your life around suddenly don't fit anymore?

And how do you begin creating a life based on your own values, choices, and sense of self?

Audra shares her perspective on identity, motherhood, religious conditioning, self-discovery, and the process of becoming the person you were never given permission to be.

If you've ever questioned your faith, walked away from a religious system, or found yourself wondering "Who am I now?" after deconstruction, this conversation is for you.

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What happens when we die? It's one of the oldest questions humanity has ever asked, and in this episode of Unholier Than Thou, Melissa Farley and I explore it through the lens of faith, deconstruction, and curiosity.

Melissa, co-host of The Morning Show, shares her journey of growing up in a high-control religious environment, untangling inherited beliefs, and rebuilding a life rooted in authenticity. We discuss the grief, identity shifts, and healing that often accompany leaving rigid belief systems, and why asking difficult questions isn't something to fear—it's part of being human.

Our conversation naturally turns toward death after discussing a guest Melissa interviewed on The Morning Show who shared a remarkable near-death experience. That discussion opens the door to Melissa's upcoming book, which explores death, consciousness, and one of the greatest mysteries we'll all eventually face. While the title of the book hasn't been released yet, Melissa offers a glimpse into the questions driving her research and why this subject has become such a meaningful part of her work.

We also talk about the power of storytelling, what Melissa has learned from interviewing people from all walks of life, and why staying curious may be one of the most important things we can do.

If you've ever questioned your beliefs, wondered what lies beyond this life, or found yourself searching for truth outside the boundaries of certainty, this conversation is for you.

Melissa is also the founder of Stronger Today, a social media branding and marketing company that helps small businesses and personal brands grow their online presence with confidence and authenticity. You can also catch her as the co-host of The Morning Show. You'll find links to connect with Melissa, The Morning Show, and Stronger Today in the show notes.

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She was only 9 years old when she says her pastor's son and piano teacher, Travis Huse, sexually abused her. When she finally told the pastor's wife years later, she says the church failed to act.

In this powerful episode, Alicia Hall shares how she survived childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, religious betrayal, depression, and addiction - and how she ultimately helped bring her abuser to justice.

Travis Huse was later convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison. His father, former pastor Scott Huse, was also convicted and sentenced in a separate child sexual assault case.

This conversation is about far more than trauma. It's about courage, resilience, accountability, and rebuilding a life after unimaginable betrayal.

Topics discussed:

Childhood sexual abuse
Religious trauma
Church abuse
Domestic violence
Justice for survivors
Trauma recovery
Healing
Setting boundaries
Addiction recovery
Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, trauma, and addiction.

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How do cults gain control over people's minds...and what does it take to break free?

In this powerful episode of Unholier Than Thou, I sit down with Isabella Young, author of Putting on the Armour of God and New Human of New Earth, to discuss her extraordinary journey out of a Messianic cult led by her former husband.

Bella shares her firsthand experience with coercive control, religious manipulation, fear-based programming, narcissistic abuse, and the devastating tragedy that forever changed her life. We explore how high-control groups use fear, gaslighting, and cognitive dissonance to keep people trapped, why leaving is so difficult, and what healing can look like after escaping.

We also discuss the inspiration behind her books, the importance of nervous system regulation, trauma recovery, reclaiming personal sovereignty, and learning to trust yourself again after years of manipulation.

Whether you've experienced religious trauma, are deconstructing your faith, have left a controlling relationship, or simply want to better understand how cults operate, this conversation offers insight, compassion, and hope.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How cults use fear and mind control
• Religious trauma and coercive control
• Brainwashing, gaslighting, and cognitive dissonance
• Narcissistic abuse and manipulation
• Healing after trauma
• Nervous system regulation
• Rebuilding self-trust
• The inspiration behind Putting on the Armour of God and New Human of New Earth

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What happens when the church that taught you about God also becomes the source of your deepest wounds?

In this episode of Unholier Than Thou, I sit down with Nikki, a former worship leader whose journey began in a Pentecostal church at 17 years old. After entering an abusive relationship with the pastor’s son, she found herself in a church culture that protected leadership instead of victims, leaving her to wrestle with questions that would follow her for years.

After escaping that relationship, Nikki rebuilt her life, found a healthy marriage, and returned to church, eventually serving in worship ministry alongside her husband. But new experiences inside church leadership forced her to confront difficult questions about faith, authority, abuse, and authenticity...ultimately leading her to deconstruct Christianity.

In this conversation, we discuss:
• Domestic abuse and spiritual abuse
• Church culture and purity teachings
• Victim blaming in religious communities
• Worship ministry behind the scenes
• Deconstruction and leaving Christianity
• Healing after religious trauma
• Finding freedom after faith

Whether you’re deconstructing, questioning your beliefs, healing from church hurt, or simply interested in hearing another perspective, Nikki’s story is one of resilience, courage, and reclaiming your voice.

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In this episode of Unholier Than Thou, I sit down with Dr. Amanda Udis-Kessler- a progressive Christian pastor, sociologist, ethicist, author, and sacred music composer-for a thoughtful conversation about one of the most debated movements in Christianity today.

Together, we explore:

• What progressive Christianity actually is
• Why so many people are leaving evangelicalism
• The role politics has played in modern Christianity
• Whether Jesus and Paul emphasized the same message
• How progressive Christians approach the Bible
• Why faith and science don't have to be enemies
• What deconstruction really means - and where it can lead

Whether you're a conservative Christian, a progressive Christian, deconstructing your faith, reconstructing it, or simply curious about the conversations reshaping the Church, this episode invites you to think critically and engage with a perspective you may not have considered.

This isn't a debate. It's an honest conversation about faith, doubt, politics, Scripture, and what it means to follow Jesus in today's world.

If you enjoy conversations that challenge assumptions and encourage deeper thinking, subscribe to Unholier Than Thou, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who's asking big questions about faith.

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When the Helpers Hurt: Grief, Suicide & Finding Hope | With Dr. Alyssa

The deconstruction and survivor communities are grieving the heartbreaking loss of Ryan Stollar—a respected advocate, writer, and tireless voice for abuse survivors, child protection, and those harmed within evangelical and homeschooling communities.

Rather than speculate about Ryan's personal struggles, this episode is an opportunity to have an honest and compassionate conversation about grief, suicide, trauma, and hope.

Joining me is Dr. Alyssa, who not only shares her professional expertise but also bravely opens up about her own experience with suicidal thoughts. Together, we explore how grief affects us, why suicide leaves behind such complex emotions, how religious trauma and deconstruction can impact mental health, and how we can better support one another through life's darkest moments.

Whether you're grieving the loss of someone you love, processing your own pain, supporting a friend, or simply trying to understand mental health more deeply, this conversation is for you.

In this episode we discuss:
• The unique grief that follows suicide
• Religious trauma and its impact on mental health
• Why people who help others can still struggle silently
• Warning signs that someone may be in crisis
• How to support someone who is grieving
• Finding hope when life feels overwhelming

This episode contains discussions of suicide, depression, and grief. Please listen with care and take breaks if needed.

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Please contact your local emergency services or your country's suicide prevention crisis service.

You are not alone. Help is available, and your life matters.

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In Part 2 of my conversation with Tim Kelly, we go even deeper into the theories, philosophies, and historical narratives surrounding power, consciousness, centralized control, and humanity's future.

This episode explores topics ranging from ancient civilizations and secret societies to central banking, free energy, spirituality, independent living, consciousness, media narratives, and the importance of thinking for yourself.

Whether you agree, disagree, or fall somewhere in between, the goal of this conversation isn't to tell you what to believe—it's to encourage curiosity, critical thinking, and meaningful dialogue.

In this episode we discuss:

Who may really be influencing world governments
Central banking and global power structures
Ancient civilizations, Atlantis, and historical theories
Consciousness, vibration, and personal sovereignty
Why dependency creates control
Free energy and suppressed technologies
The role of media and political division
Healing, self-sufficiency, and reclaiming personal freedom
Why questioning everything matters
What are your thoughts? Do you think humanity is waking up, or are we becoming more divided than ever?

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