Is real happiness in Marriage possible? Is it achievable? Is it even desirable?If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] and Jonah explore the complexities of marriage, focusing on personal experiences, the importance of intimacy, and the challenges faced by couples. They reflect on their own relationships, discuss the significance of communication, and share insights on how to navigate the ups and downs of married life. The conversation highlights the need for physical intimacy as a vital component of a thriving marriage, while also acknowledging the struggles that come with parenting and maintaining a deep connection over time.Takeaways:- Marriage requires ongoing effort and communication to thrive.- Intimacy is not just physical; emotional connection is equally important.- Anniversaries are a time for reflection and celebration of love.- Challenges in marriage often stem from parenting and life demands.- Deep communication can lead to breakthroughs in intimacy.- Physical intimacy can enhance emotional bonds in marriage.- Navigating marital challenges requires understanding and patience.- Misery in marriage can be alleviated through connection and intimacy.- Every marriage is unique, and couples must find their own path.Timestamps:05:37 Marriage Reflections and Anniversary Celebrations11:30 Intimacy and Connection in Marriage21:21 Navigating Challenges in Marriage31:33 The Role of Communication in Marriage41:15 The Importance of Physical Intimacy#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Did Aquinas make errors, does "Mutual Submission" mean anything, and is the Story of Onan real?Historical Figures and Neurodivergence (8:01-12:02): The conversation shifts to historical Catholic figures and saints, with Midnight Philosopher bringing up a Twitter discussion about potential neurodivergent tendencies or disturbing ideas some saints held regarding sex and suffering. They suggest that the Church tends to emphasize less controversial stories of saints.Evolution of Church Teachings (12:05-15:56): Craig and Midnight Philosopher discuss how the Church's teachings evolve, particularly concerning historical figures like Thomas Aquinas who made errors (e.g., denying the Immaculate Conception of Mary). They note that the Church often quietly moves on from past errors rather than issuing explicit repudiations, which can create a perception of infallibility for certain figures and ideas.Mortal Sin and Sexual Sins (17:30-21:12): The discussion delves into the concept of mortal sin, particularly focusing on the two main categories often highlighted: missing Sunday Mass/holy days and sexual sins. They analyze the differing perceived "difficulty levels" of various sexual sins like adultery, contraception, and masturbation, and how these are all considered grave matters despite their varied impact and frequency in people's lives.Marital Debt and Mutual Submission (22:49-33:00): They critically examine the traditional concept of "marital debt," finding it objectifying and "loveless," especially when used to threaten mortal sin or place blame. They contrast it with the concept of "mutual submission" from the Theology of the Body, which they see as a softer, more communicative approach, though Craig also finds it somewhat "nonsensical" if it implies sex is purely optional. They argue that while sex is an integral need in marriage, the approach to discussing it should be communicative and loving, not cold or legalistic.The Story of Onan (33:53-43:30): The conversation concludes with a discussion about the story of Onan, questioning whether it's a historical event or a metaphor and its integral role in the Church's teachings on contraception and masturbation. They highlight how the changing justifications for certain moral teachings (from biblical stories to philosophical arguments) can unravel the foundational logic if the initial premises are no longer held true. They also touch on the similar debate regarding the literal interpretation of Adam and Eve and creationism versus evolution.

Is Sex a Need? And if it is, does that mean you can't be expected to go without? If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] this conversation, Craig and Jonah explore the complexities of intimacy and communication in marriage, particularly focusing on the need for sex and its implications for relationships. They discuss various perspectives on whether sex is a need or a luxury, the transactional nature of intimacy, and the importance of open communication in maintaining a healthy marriage. The conversation also touches on personal anecdotes and societal views on marriage and intimacy.Takeaways:- The importance of intimacy in a marriage is paramount.- Men and women often have different needs and perspectives regarding sex.- Communication is key to understanding each other's needs in a relationship.- Sex can be seen as a need for both partners in a marriage.- Healthy marriages often have regular intimacy, contributing to overall happiness.- Marital Debt: Is it a good thing?- Intimacy should not be viewed as a bargaining tool.- Understanding each other's needs can lead to a more fulfilling marriage.#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] this conversation, Craig and Jonah explore the complexities of marriage, focusing on themes of intimacy, communication, and the challenges posed by abstinence. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences, including health issues, conflicts, and reflections on their anniversaries. The discussion highlights the importance of open dialogue in relationships and the emotional dynamics that can arise from stress and misunderstandings. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for trust and communication in navigating the ups and downs of married life.Takeaways:- Discussing intimacy is often avoided by men.- Abstinence can create strain in marriage.- Communication is key to resolving conflicts.- Marriage can be a source of pain and joy.- Health issues can impact relationship dynamics.- Trust is crucial in a marriage.- Pre-Cana counseling should address real issues.- Is suffering just part of the marital journey?- Finding balance in marriage is essential.Timestamps:04:54 Navigating Conversations About Intimacy12:00 Health Challenges and Lifestyle Changes19:12 The Impact of Extended Abstinence on Marriage23:33 Communication Conflicts in Marriage30:03 Navigating Family Dynamics and Communication38:06 Understanding Emotional Responses in Relationships45:37 The Paradox of Marriage: Love and Pain50:47 The Challenges of Pre-Marital Counseling58:18 Reflections on Marriage and Family Life#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] this conversation, Craig and Jonah discuss various aspects of health, intimacy, and parenting, focusing on the importance of sleep, the challenges of parenthood, and the complexities of Catholic teachings on family planning. They share personal experiences related to sleep apnea, heart health, and the pressures of parenting, while also reflecting on the moral implications of decisions regarding vasectomies and confession.Takeaways:- Sleep is crucial for overall health and wellness.- Intimacy in marriage can be both verbal and physical.- Sleep apnea can significantly impact health and relationships.- Parenting brings unique challenges, especially during summer.- There can be double standards in parenting roles between mothers and fathers.- Catholic teachings on family planning can create feelings of guilt.- It's important to prioritize existing children's health over potential future children.- Confession can be a source of comfort and reflection for personal growth.- Health procedures can lead to lifestyle changes and better self-care.- Open discussions about intimacy and health can strengthen relationships.Timestamps:01:10 The Importance of Sleep and Intimacy10:54 Health and Wellness: Heart Procedures and Sleep Apnea20:39 Navigating Parenthood: Challenges and Double Standards30:57 Catholic Teachings on Marriage and Family PlanningKeywords:sleepintimacyhealthwellnessheart proceduresleep apneaparenthoodCatholic teachingsfamily planningconfession#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

What's a bigger need: Food or Sex? We poll men and women and the results are completely different. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]:- Unexpected events can lead to important changes, like installing curtains.- Open communication can strengthen marital bonds and intimacy.- Discussing thoughts about infidelity can be uncomfortable but necessary.- NFP presents challenges that many couples find difficult to navigate.- The dynamics of communication and intimacy are interlinked in marriage.- Polls can reveal surprising preferences about marital intimacy.- Abstinence periods in NFP can create tension in relationships.- Understanding each other's needs is crucial for a healthy marriage.- The role of sexual morality in relationships is complex and often debated.- Couples should strive for open discussions about intimacy and desires.Timestamps:00:00 Unexpected Intrusions: The Drone Incident03:39 Communication in Marriage: Building Trust and Intimacy06:48 Navigating Fantasies: Thoughts on Solo Activities09:34 The Dynamics of NFP: Perspectives and Challenges12:58 Exploring Church Teachings: Leviticus and Modern Morality15:32 Poll Results: Insights on Relationships and Intimacy28:11 Exploring Intermittent Fasting and Its Challenges31:27 The Poll: Men vs. Women on Marital Choices36:49 Men's Preferences: The Impact of Time Windows40:55 NFP: Perspectives from Men and Women45:36 The Complexities of NFP and Marital Intimacy50:37 The Broader Implications of NFP on Relationships54:42 Upcoming Poll: Lights On or Off?The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

A great sex life can transform the marriage and family. So why does it seem everything, including the Church sometimes, is doing everything possible to decrease it? If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] this conversation, Craig and Jonah explore the complexities of marriage, focusing on intimacy, communication, and the challenges posed by Catholic teachings. They discuss the importance of love languages, the impact of parenthood on relationships, and the need for open conversations about intimacy. The dialogue emphasizes that while struggles are common, understanding and commitment can lead to stronger marriages.Takeaways:Open communication is essential for a fulfilling marriage.Understanding love languages can significantly improve marital satisfaction.Parenthood can change the dynamics of intimacy in a relationship.Many couples face struggles with Catholic teachings on intimacy.Intimacy is a natural and important part of marriage.Struggles in marriage often stem from miscommunication and unmet needs.Great sex can enhance emotional connection and overall marital health.It's important to address marital issues openly and honestly.Couples should seek to understand each other's perspectives and needs.Commitment and effort can lead to positive changes in a marriage.Timestamps:03:39 The Importance of Communication in Marriage06:41 The Role of Intimacy in Relationships09:27 Understanding Love Languages12:51 The Impact of Parenthood on Marriage15:27 Struggles with Church Teachings18:36 Finding Balance in Catholic Marriages21:31 The Ripple Effects of Intimacy24:54 The Need for Open Conversations27:38 The Journey of Marriage30:24 Hope and Healing in Relationships33:43 The Role of Priests in Marriage Guidance36:41 Improving Marriages for a Better Society#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

In this conversation, Craig and Jonah explore the complexities of marriage, focusing on themes of love, communication, intimacy, and the challenges couples face. They discuss the importance of maintaining intimacy and open communication to prevent resentment and foster a loving environment for their children. The conversation also touches on traditional Catholic views on intimacy and the need for couples to navigate these teachings while prioritizing their relationship. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of understanding and supporting one another through the ups and downs of marriage.If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]:- Rediscovering love can happen even after years of marriage.- Communication is essential for a healthy relationship.- Intimacy plays a crucial role in maintaining connection.- Resentment can build when intimacy fades.- Traditional views on intimacy can create challenges for couples.- Detachment from life can harm relationships.- Intimacy impacts the overall family dynamic.- Difficult conversations can lead to healing in marriage.- Trusting one's conscience is important in navigating marital issues.- Support and understanding are key to overcoming challenges in marriage.Chapters00:00 Rediscovering Love in Marriage03:29 The Importance of Communication06:32 Intimacy and Its Role in Marriage09:29 The Impact of Resentment on Family12:48 Navigating Catholic Teachings on Intimacy15:45 The Struggles of Contraception and NFP18:34 The Consequences of Detachment21:36 Finding Balance in Marriage24:43 The Role of Conscience in Decision Making27:37 Addressing Difficult Conversations30:38 The Importance of Intimacy and Connection33:33 Navigating Painful Experiences in Intimacy36:47 The Dilemma of Following Church Teachings39:30 The Need for Compassion in Marriage42:40 Final Thoughts on Marriage and Intimacy#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Having sustained and quality intimacy in Catholic marriage is not easy, especially when kids are young. But it can be done. Craig and Jonah discuss how to do it, and the importance of it in marriage.If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]:- Communication is key in a marriage.- Understanding your spouse's perspective is crucial.- Intimacy can be challenging with kids at home.- Making time for each other is essential.- Prayer can strengthen a marriage.- Childhood experiences impact adult relationships.- Mutual submission is important in relationships.- Leadership in marriage helps create security.- Date nights are vital for maintaining connection.- Marriages can be fixed with effort and communication.Timestamps:00:00 Summer Struggles and Family Dynamics02:45 The Importance of Communication in Marriage05:51 Navigating Intimacy with Kids at Home08:43 Reflections on Marriage and Mutual Submission11:40 Understanding Each Other's Perspectives14:43 The Role of Prayer in Strengthening Marriage17:37 Overcoming Challenges in Marriage20:30 The Impact of Parenthood on Relationships23:55 The Importance of Date Nights26:46 Finding Bliss in Marriage29:51 The Journey of Communication and Growth32:40 Final Thoughts on Marriage and Communicationmarriage, communication, intimacy, family dynamics, relationships, mutual submission, leadership, date nights, prayer#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation