People who have suffered from some sort of long term vulnerability - e.g., chronic pain - can become angry and build a "grievance story" to justify holding on to their anger.

In this episode, spine surgeon Dr. David Hanscom talks with Fred Luskin, best-selling author of Forgive for Good, about this process of victimhood, and its power to shape and distort our lives. For more information, visit: http://www.backincontrol.com/the-4-stages/stage-2-forgiveness-play/understand-the-impact-of-anger-on-your-life-2 and https://learningtoforgive.com.