Unfiltered Sessions

What if the secret to a successful career transition lies in the art of communication and personal growth? Join us as we navigate an enlightening conversation with Philip, a guest on Irvin Retiz's Breakthrough Society Podcast. Listen to his captivating journey, which began in bustling Houston and led him to the tranquil mountains of South Carolina, where he started two coaching ventures - one aimed at engineers and another focusing on group coaching.

Philip reveals how engineers can bridge communication gaps with HR and business owners. He emphasizes leading by example, focusing on the big picture, and how effective communication boosts leadership. We also discuss dressing appropriately, regular updates, and mastering human interaction for professional success.

This episode isn't just about career growth. Philip shares a life-changing moment at Growth Con in 2017, stressing the importance of a supportive network for personal development. If you're seeking career inspiration, better communication, or personal growth, this episode is a goldmine. Join us for Philip's transformative insights.

NOTABLE QUOTES
"I’m not sure which I enjoyed more, the event or meeting the people I feel like I’ve known for years." – Philip
"Why wait to be able to get that seat at the table [when you can] create your own table and bring people to that table as well?" – Philip
"The things we have to go through right now actually prepare us for what’s to come." – Philip
"That’s what’s great about mentorship. We got to learn and apply what they teach us without having to go through all of that hardship." – Philip
"I’m helping [engineers] see the bigger picture and to be able to lead themselves and eventually employees into the workforce." – Philip
"When you come in and look presentable, it just makes your customer service that much better." – Philip
“A big thing with communication is giving small updates." – Philip
"So many people know how to talk over text message but nobody wants to get on the phone and talk anymore." – Philip
"Communication is a lost art. When you learn how to communicate you’re probably better than 90% of people out there." – Philip
"The highest-paid profession right now is public speaking." – Philip
"We’ve been having trouble when we’re online. Now we’re hybrid and it’s still kind of weird. Being in person is a lot better. You actually get that engagement from the audience, you see direct feedback versus trying to look at them on a screen." – Philip

RESOURCES
Irvin
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3v3gzlEsAQ53OG5Z0sYY7w 
Instagram: https://instagram.com/irvinretiz 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/irvinretiz 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/irvinretiz 

Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Ever been paralyzed by the thought of standing in front of a crowd, heart pounding, as you struggle to find your words? I have. Join me, Philip Sessions, as I bare all about my personal battle with the fear of public speaking, and how I transformed from a shy, introverted individual to a confident speaker. This episode is all about sharing my journey, unpacking the techniques I used to overcome my fears, and shining a light on the profound impact it’s had on my life, not just personally but as a leader in my community. 

What if the key to unlocking your potential as a leader is mastering the art of public speaking? As someone who's been through exactly that journey, I’m here to tell you, it is. In this candid chat, I delve into practical tips that helped me conquer my fears, like understanding the power of storytelling and the importance of regular practice. But more than that, it’s about becoming a person who isn’t swayed by the thoughts or opinions of others. If you're ready to step into your power, command any room you walk into, and inspire as a leader, this episode holds the key to your transformation.

RESOURCES
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Ever wondered how a simple coffee shop can turn into a bustling community hub? Join us as we spill the beans with Jen Fizer, a visionary who's redefined the potential of local coffee shops. Jen has transformed the humble Brick House Coffee Bar and Eatery located in the heart of Harrisville, Missouri into a vibrant gathering spot. In this episode, she shares her intriguing journey of turning an 1880s building into a modern-day haven while navigating the digital age successfully.

If you're interested in effective leadership, this episode will quench your thirst. Jen, a master of communication, sheds light on her innovative approach to managing and mentoring an experienced team. She discusses the delicate balancing act of leadership and mentorship, emphasizing the importance of open communication in executing change. This conversation is a goldmine of insights on how to engage and encourage employees who are eager to make a difference.

But it doesn't stop there! Jen takes us through her proactive efforts in community engagement. From joining local boards and initiating monthly events to creating a scholarship in honor of her late husband, she’s truly put her coffee shop on the map as the heartbeat of Harrisville. As she passionately shares her expedition into public speaking and the transformative power of change, you'll be left inspired by the immense satisfaction of making a difference in a community. Brew yourself a cup of your favorite blend and tune in for an enriching conversation with Jen Fizer.

NOTABLE QUOTES
"Brick-and-mortar is, in a lot of ways, the most expensive route that you can go. But it also gives me so much more opportunity to connect with the community, to create this atmosphere of ‘this is where people want to be.’" – Jen
"When we did have younger kids, I really enjoyed being able to be their first job, teach them life skills." – Jen
"You do need to connect with people, but when they’re that much younger, they seem to be just hungry to learn. So teaching is really almost the way that you’re connecting with them." – Philip
"If we have an employee—I don’t care how good they are at their job—who are toxic to the rest of the staff and are creating an environment where the rest of the staff is starting to turn, I want them gone." – Jen
"Make sure that you have the staff that you want and you can train the right attitude, but the wrong attitude will never change." – Jen
“You can teach hard skills but people skills are one that you just learn over time." – Philip
"I like communication probably more than anything." – Jen
"I’ve become so comfortable just speaking in front of groups that it’s like I can do it on the fly. It makes you comfortable in any situation, no matter who you have to talk to." – Jen
"Personally, I feel like I’ve made better connection with people—I can relate to people better—being able to communicate well with them." – Jen
“I felt like I was always overlooked. Then, because I started speaking, more people have started to admire the fact that I get up and speak." – Philip
"If you just sit back and don’t take that initiative to start talking to people, you will just fade away and people won’t notice you." – Jen
"Whatever your current situation is can change." – Jen

RESOURCES
Jen
Website: https://www.brickhouse.coffee/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brickhouse_coffeebar/ 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-fizer-73354631/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.fizer.5  

Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Ready to revolutionize your podcast experience? Brace yourself as we delve into the craft of creating engaging, conversational podcast episodes that are truly immersive. As hosts, we're aware that the essence of a great podcast is not just about posing questions; it's about opening up an intriguing dialogue. This episode guides you through the art of asking thought-provoking questions and the power of elaboration to dive into the depths of your guest's expertise. We promise that mastering these strategies will elevate your podcasting skills, making your episode less of a Q&A session and more of a captivating conversation.

But there's more! We also shift our focus to the role of the guest and their potential to drive the conversation forward. We reveal why it's crucial for guests to expand on their answers and even flip the script by questioning the host. We also provide potent tips on managing situations when the conversation leans towards an interrogation rather than a discussion. By becoming an active participant instead of a passive responder, a guest can evolve into a co-host, making the episode more participatory and conversational for the listeners. This episode is laden with nuggets of wisdom for both seasoned podcast hosts and first-time guests, designed to elevate your podcast conversations to unparalleled heights.

RESOURCES
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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In today’s episode, we traverse the inspiring narrative of Dr. Alex Ellis, a remarkable author and speaker who has transformed his passion into a tool for empowering thousands of young men. His journey from an engineer to a beacon of guidance and his impeccable sense of style unfurl a panorama of insights that will surely leave you awe-inspired. With Dr. Ellis's globally recognized Tied to Greatness nonprofit, we explore the power of mentorship and its life-altering impact, unraveling the essence of social responsibility, one conversation at a time.

Dive into the world of communication with Dr. Ellis. Discover how refining your skills can boost your career and leadership. Dr. Ellis guides us on audience targeting and compelling positioning, stressing the power of listening. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on transformative expression. 

As we delve deeper into the conversation, Dr. Ellis initiates an intriguing exploration of public speaking. Through his Speak Up program, we debunk common myths, address fears, and share practical tips for delivering compelling speeches. From readiness to outlining, we explore the essentials for mastering speaking. Embrace your unique voice, prepare, and chase your purpose for ultimate growth. Elevate yourself with insights to soar higher!

NOTABLE QUOTES
"Purpose leaves clues. Now that I have fully embraced this call to speak, I see breadcrumbs throughout my life like a trail leading me to ultimately what I do professionally and I love it." – Dr. Alex
"If you want to improve your life, improve your ability to communicate." – Dr. Alex
"There is a niche for whatever you’re passionate about." – Dr. Alex
"If you’re topic or subject matter doesn’t move you, it won’t move your audience. So find something that matters to you, the message that you believe the world needs to hear and that you’re assigned to deliver." – Dr. Alex
"The more I’ve communicated, the better I’ve got at listening." – Philip
“Working your network. Is there anyone that I know that is in some way connected to a potential opportunity." – Dr. Alex
"Every free gig doesn’t mean you walk away with no benefits from it. You might not get paid, but you can get photos, you can get quality video footage." – Dr. Alex
"I believe that you do the world a disservice when you silence your voice, and it’s time for you to speak up." – Dr. Alex
"You prepare your speech. You time it to make sure you’re within the time parameters that have been established. And you practice, practice, practice." – Dr. Alex
"[Speaking] is like a GPS, if you don’t put an end destination or where you’re trying to go, you’re just going and you never know if you’re going to get there." – Philip
"It’s important for the goal to simply be to add value." – Dr. Alex
"There is a tribe of people that are anxiously awaiting for you. Find those people that rock with you. Find those people and serve them—and serve them well. Your tribe might be small, but they are still worthy of your best." – Dr. Alex
"When you’re faithful in small opportunities, I believe God opens up the floodgates and can trust you with bigger opportunities." – Dr. Alex
"It’s all about levels, and you had to start showing that you can do this and you eventually build up to those big stages." – Philip
"Find and pursue your purpose." – Dr. Alex

RESOURCES
Dr. Alex
Website: https://www.dralexellis.com/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralexellis/ 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dralexellis/ 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alex.o.ellis 

Philip
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Uncover audience understanding's potency with Phillip Sessions, the coach for public speaking and presentations. Learn the vital first speech prep step: knowing your listeners. Phillip cautions against unpreparedness, stressing tailored content as the key to an unforgettable presentation. Listen in as he dissects addressing diverse audiences, from kindergarteners to corporate crowds.

Phillip also drops a bonus tip on selecting an audience that resonates with your goals, whether they're business-related or cause-driven. He highlights the transformational role that the audience plays in the speech preparation process. If you're stepping onto the stage for the first time, this episode is packed with invaluable insights and guidance to set you up for success. Phillip also extends a helping hand to listeners who need further assistance in speech prep, underlining his commitment to helping others master the art of public speaking. So, tune in and learn how to make your message soar!

RESOURCES
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Curious about transitioning from a stable job to entrepreneurship? Tune in to our latest episode with Joseph Hughes, founder of Contractor Dynamics. Join us as we explore Joseph's journey from a sixth-generation construction legacy to carving his niche. Discover his unique challenges, including building a house while his wife started a job!

Launching a business is step one, but crafting local connections is a different challenge. In the second part of our series with Joseph, we delve into his strategy for nurturing relationships within a five-mile radius. Coffee chats, community engagement, and earning trust - Joseph's journey exemplifies the impact of 'going local'. If you've questioned offline networking in a digital era, this discussion will reshape your outlook.

Joseph delivers priceless advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, spanning public speaking to content crafting. He doesn't merely discuss authority; he guides you in constructing your platform. His content creation approach and counsel on seeking guidance resonate deeply. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. Tune in and let Joseph's story ignite your entrepreneurial path.

NOTABLE QUOTES
"[It] was really cool growing up in a family business that’s over 100 years old and got to learn a lot of different things about life, about every aspect of small business, and just really fell in love with it." – Joseph
"Business plans are worth nothing until you actually go out there and into the market and test out your ideas." – Joseph
"Public speaking is getting up in front of people and sharing something and usually it’s outside your comfort zone and you’re getting more vulnerable in some cases." – Joseph
"Just transferring a message from yourself to somebody else and communicating essentially to me is public speaking." – Philip
"Don’t try to be a jack-of-all-trades. It’s really hard to differentiate, it’s hard to market, it’s hard to build out good processes." – Joseph
"My goal every day is to wake up and get more people to know about us today than did so yesterday." – Joseph
“If you go in there [meet ups and networking] and always try to give value, it’s going to change things dramatically." – Philip
"Everybody wants that true, authentic relationship, and doing that in-person, you build it up so much quicker." – Philip
"I really love to help people make better decisions around their business, around marketing, whatever that might be." – Joseph
"Build your own stage and you’re just going to establish yourself as an authority right then and there." – Joseph
"The more that you communicate, the better you’re going to get." – Philip
"Take things from wherever and put your own spin on it, your personality, your perspective on it, apply it to your industry, and now it’s something new." – Joseph
"Be consistent. Whatever it is that you want in your life or business is not going to come from just showing up one day. It’s going to come from showing up day after day and putting in the work." – Joseph

RESOURCES
Joseph
Website: https://www.contractordynamics.com/ 
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nailed-it-the-business-of-construction/id1518138271 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyjosephhughes 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephwhughes/  
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heyjosephhughes/ 
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Ever pondered about stepping into the world of public speaking but can't quite figure out a good enough topic to share? Fret not, as we bring you an episode that's guaranteed to help you overcome this dilemma. Join us as we chat with the phenomenal public speaking and presentation coach, Philip Sessions. He's here to share his insights on three pivotal areas you can focus on - your personal story, your journey to where you are today, and your area of expertise.

Philip shares the importance of telling your story - not as a self-promotion but as a relatable narrative that can inspire and motivate others. He also dives into the power of sharing your journey, including the obstacles you overcame to reach your present status. The conversation further explores the significance of featuring your expertise. Philip uses the example of a successful real estate entrepreneur turned motivational speaker, illustrating how one can elegantly intertwine different subjects within a prime area of expertise. So, if you're stuck on your public speaking topic, this episode is a treasure trove of useful advice. Remember, if you need further assistance, Philip is always ready to guide you. Witness your public speaking horizons expanding with this episode!

RESOURCES
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Imagine if the power to totally transform your communication skills, was right there in your voice! That's what we explore with our guest Sammi Siren, a classically trained singer, voice coach, and public speaker. Sammi takes us on a journey of vocal discovery, sharing her expert insights and practical voice exercises. She emphasizes the art of speaking with purpose and intention, and how this can leave a lasting impression on your audience. Plus, get ready to hear some fascinating stories from her time as a cruise director and professional singer.

Communication is an art, and as Sammi explains, the key to effective communication lies in understanding your voice. She delves into her experiences from the cruise industry, where she learnt the power of storytelling and connection. Listen to the stories she spun, and the songs she sang to bring joy to people’s lives, while overcoming the challenges of maintaining high energy performances night after night. You'll hear about her unique approach to voice care and the techniques she uses to maintain vocal stamina - insights that anyone can benefit from.

Lastly, Sammi touches on the transformative impact of singing and shares how it can influence various situations. She takes us through the importance of voice exercises and how they can help deal with vocal fatigue and enhance your speech and singing. Plus, don’t miss out on her poignant thoughts on the role of gratitude in communication and how it can inspire others. Get ready to unleash the power of your own voice with Sammy Siren! Your voice is your superpower, so let's tune it to its maximum potential.

Sammi
Website: https://www.superpoweryourvoice.com/pages/freepower
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sammithestorysiren/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sammisadicario

Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Want to become the public speaker that keeps audiences hanging on your every word? We're going to share an unconventional approach to mastering the craft of public speaking. Instead of creating a new speech for every stage you get on, we'll show you how to deliver a single speech that improves every time, much like a business perfecting an initial product line. You'll get behind-the-scenes insights from seasoned pros who keep their speeches fresh and captivating by adjusting their pauses, tones, emphasis, and volume. 

But there's more to being a memorable speaker than just perfecting your delivery. It's about treating public speaking like a business. We'll show you how to craft compelling messages and impactful stories that engage your audience and make your talk unforgettable. You'll learn why consistency and feedback are key to improving your performance, much like regular workouts enhance your physical fitness. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or just starting out, we'll equip you with the tools to elevate your public speaking game. So tune in, and prepare to captivate your audience like never before.

RESOURCES 
Philip
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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