Let’s have a hard conversation! Let’s have a conversation about how when it comes to intentions no one is honest about anything that they mean! We need to be able to be self-aware enough to know that we are lying to ourselves to other people, and if we cannot live a life with pure intentions Taking the religious nature out of that statement and understanding that if your intentions are what you intend to do, why are you speaking them out loud?! We live in such a deceitful society, how are we supposed to discern real from fake? You can’t face your intentions, so why are you even trying?

Also, this is the 40th episode!!!!! In this episode, we are going to talk about what it is like for the peaks and valleys of getting what we wish for! It does not matter what you worship what you work for what you pray for what you have asked the universe for; what matters is that? It is not going to come to you in traditional fashion, and be handed to you on a silver platter, even though it’s what you wished for hoped for prayed for and asked for. I want everyone to understand that getting what you want is not going to look the way that it is supposed to or the way that you have cooked it up in your mind so you need to be prepared for that and here’s how we prepared for it…

Thank you guys for being so patient! I want to talk to you guys today about what happens when you stay in environments that are not conducive to your growth! We’re going to go over mansplaning and how it is not limited to just MEN. We’ve talked a lot about growth on this podcast and being on our healing journeys and everything that we have gone through and dealt with and I want to talk to you guys about how we navigate being in a growth mindset in an environment that will not allow us to grow, and where we have overstayed our welcome!

How do you determine yourself worth? Do you think that other people determine your value? Or are you self-aware enough to know that your value comes from within? I want to talk to you guys a little bit about what it’s like to set the price and know that you do not need to beg to be understood or beg to be seen or beg to be valued. We’ve been at this for 38 weeks. It’s time that we start acting like we’ve been at it for 38 weeks growing changing evolving, and valuing ourselves!

Let’s discuss how keeping the peace saves. There is no reason why you need to spare the reputation of anyone to protect what’s happening behind closed doors. Let’s dive into all the things that we’ve allowed and all of the things that we’ve kept secrets on. We need to be able to be open and honest about how we’re worthy of telling our own stories. Our story deserves to be heard so does theirs but that’s why there’s three parts to every story, yours mine and the truth!!!

In this episode, we talk about how people who have been in your life that you’ve been vulnerable with, and they’ve decided to weapon past pain. We talk about their insecurities and how them weapon past pain has made it, so they feel like they are on some sort of mighty claim that they can make you feel bad about yourself. The difference is they cannot take ownership over your pain nor can they take ownership over inflicting the pain, so where does that leave them? If they have nothing to gain from insulting you who you are today, they have to go off of past pain that you’ve experience at the end of someone else. It’s giving desperate it’s giving insecure and it’s giving we don’t have time for people like that. Let’s dive into my own personal experiences with this, but also talk about how insecure those people must be and how stupid they must sound.

This weird week we are going to talk a rational fears! We are talking everything is on the table, and nothing is off-limits. We are going to go off script off the menu and fully dive into the fact that we all know that these fears are irrational, but we’re coming together, because we are not the only ones who experience these!everyone has been talking about the last few weeks. I’ve been kind of heavy and I’ve been kind of hard so let’s open it up with some laughs some jokes and just some real life shit that we know is weird and wild, but we embrace it.

Valentine’s Day!!! The dreaded bad word! The thing that shall remain nameless! Why is it only for couples? Or has society just shamed you into thinking that!? You are worthy of love partner or not! You should love on YOU all damn day! You need to give love and receive love in all its forms! Change the narrative that vday is just for couples! ITS FOR LOVE NO MATTER WHAT OR WHERE IT COMES FROM❤️

This week I want to talk to you about the concept of a 24 hour pity party. Do not invite anyone to this party because absolutely nobody wants to be there. You can process your emotions however, you need to process within that 24 hours and then after that 24 hours is up, you need to be able to move through it. You cannot walk through life, complaining and being miserable because you are in charge of your own happiness. You are in the driver seat of your life, and you are the one that has the power to change the narrative, rewrite the story or quite literally rip out the pages and start fresh. Stop complaining about things that are in your control and start taking a hold of your life and stop feeling. Sorry for yourself.

In this episode, I wanna talk to you about the people who have either been in your life or are currently in your life that choose to try to damage your reputation. How do you navigate the people who always doubt you? How do you go about focusing on a growth mindset when there are people so hell-bent on tearing you down, the easiest answer is that you simply stop caring. We’re gonna talk about considering the source of the information and understanding that if the information came from somebody who look like they came out of a sewer then it’s probably not important to us and everything that goes along with that.