Ep. #41 Unmasking the Seventh-day Adventist Church: Melissa's Deconstruction

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In this episode Cultimatum, we dive deep into the complex and often hidden world of the Seventh-day Adventist Church with Melissa Dugie Spiers, a fourth-generation ex-member. Melissa is currently writing a revealing book about her life in the church and the historical roots that shaped its practices. From the strict observance of the Saturday Sabbath to following biblical laws, Melissa grew up in a controlled environment that isolated her from the outside world.

The episode explores the influence of Ellen G. White, the church’s prophetic founder, who shaped the sect’s strict beliefs. Melissa delves into the lesser-known history of White, including her possible mercury poisoning from her father’s hat-making business and a traumatic brain injury as a child, leading to speculation about her mental and physical health. Melissa sheds light on how White may have suffered from Gastaut-Geschwind Syndrome, a neurological disorder that shaped her behaviors and prophecies, which laid the foundation for the church's controversial doctrines—such as anti-masturbation, anti-LGBTQ beliefs, and rigid lifestyle restrictions.

Melissa's personal journey of escape began at 17 when she left the church’s controlled bubble and moved to New York. For years, she buried her past, until a revelation involving a known child predator being protected by the SDA leadership reopened old wounds. This discovery propelled Melissa into her deconstruction process and inspired her to start speaking out, particularly through her growing TikTok platform, where she exposes disturbing truths about the church with factual references.

In this episode, Melissa advises those still in the SDA or any cult-like group to critically assess their personal boundaries, use critical thinking, and do thorough research. Whether you are considering joining or questioning your involvement, this is a must-listen episode packed with insight into the Seventh-day Adventist Church’s darker side and the journey of healing after leaving.

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