By Robert Royal

It's never easy to bring unwelcome truths into the public realm. And it's become increasingly difficult, for obvious reasons, since the advent of the Internet - to say nothing of the deep divisions we face at the start of this crazed election years. Or equally deep divisions in the Church. So, what light and steadiness can we possibly find at a moment like this in our untimely, ancient Catholic Faith?

To start, I'd suggest resisting something truly toxic that's been little noticed: letting public and private polarization - even over matters as transitory as mere policy differences - turn into "hate." We just observed Martin Luther King Day and there are many things about that pivotal American worth recalling in our time, perhaps nothing more urgent, however, than his warning: "Don't let them get you to hate them."

Crucial spiritual advice. A lot of people, whom you might expect would admire Dr. King, claim to find "hate" everywhere: "hate speech," "preaching hate," "hating women," "hating blacks," "hating LGBT." These are clever rhetorical tropes intended to hide their own thinly disguised "hatred" towards: Christianity, pro-lifers, opponents of LGBT ideology, or of "anti-racist" racism, and much more.

Still, we have to be constantly alert to the temptation to embrace "hatred" ourselves, even as we seek to counteract evil and promote goodness and truth. The term hatred, as it's commonly used these days, banishes the other into the outer darkness as damnably evil. King knew that even when you're facing monstrous evils, such hatreds might themselves become mortal sins. That it's possible to turn yourself into the very kind of people you "hate" unless you stand careful watch over your own soul.

There is - or at least ought to be - a clear distinction, among Christians and other people of goodwill, between hatred and anger. St. Thomas Aquinas, who knew a few truths about the human soul, wrote: "evil may be found in anger, when, to wit, one is angry, more or less than right reason demands. But if one is angry in accordance with right reason, one's anger is deserving of praise." (ST IIa IIae q.158 a.1)

In other words, there is "righteous anger," an anger proportionate to the evils that we must try to correct, not hide from or ignore. But there are good and bad ways to do so. A proper, righteous anger is, in its way, a form of love.

By contrast, there is no "righteous hatred" - if by hatred we mean essentially that we wish someone dead - and "damned to Hell."

In our post-Christian society, there's, unfortunately, a lot of that around, even in the Church. And it's the result of our failures to recognize our own sins and imperfections, need for forgiveness, and the unavoidable task of bearing one another's burdens. In other words, the pursuit of an earthly Utopia that never was and never will be. A Christian heresy.

Cardinal George Pell, who passed away just a year ago, wrote - after months of unjust imprisonment - in his Prison Journals:

When feelings run deep, it is especially useful to strive to remain calm and wise and to resist the temptations of uncharity, to hate. St. Thomas More's prayer to resist temptation is helpful. "Almighty God, assist me with your gracious help so that to the subtle suggestions of the serpent I never so incline the ears of my heart but that my reason may resist them and master my sensuality and keep me from them." [Italic added.]

A lot of people who have not had a very deep Christian formation haven't learned such subtle crucial distinctions between anger and hate. Those who know the difference in theory find how difficult it is to practice. But it can be done. When I was writing my book on the modern martyrs, one of the things that always struck me is how they often died - like Jesus - not cursing but praying for their executioners. That kind of charity cannot be faked.

Outside of Christianity, however, the desire for calm and wisdom - and avoidance of hate - can mean something else t...