We are stuck in a pattern. Urgent headlines such as George Floyd's murder or the chaos of the Afghanistan withdrawal pulls our attention, demand our support but we consistently fail to achieve meaningful systematic change. All too often once the limelight fades on the "en vogue" issues of the moment, the issue is relegated to the special interest groups whose purpose was set up to keep on fighting for justice and reform. In the storytelling, those who are in-need is always positioned as the "other," the listener, the supporters are outsiders, the "fairy godmothers" who has the power to change the outcome. What if we told a different story? A story that showed us how we are all connected as outsiders, as the other, that alienations are actually our shared bond and our belonging? In another word, despite of our race, ethnicity, socio-economic class, we all have felt that sense of aloneness once upon a time. How would that affect the systems we design, the policies we write, and who is advocating for whom and for how long?