I’m opening up about a major shift in my world: After two years, my boyfriend and I have decided to go our separate ways. It wasn't for a lack of love—it was the 'future' talk. It’s a strange, heartbreaking thing to realize you love someone but don't want the same life.

So instead of a romantic night out with the BF, I'm taking a trip with my girls - women I've known since we were in school.

If you're thinking about saying 'no' to a future that isn't yours, dealing with a broken heart for Valentine's, or reuniting with friends who've seen you through it all, then this one's for you.

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