we dont know yet

s1 e47: this week, our friend sophia!! joins us to dissect what makes a guy (or girl!) marriage-ready, and how what we look for in a partner has evolved from our early twenties to late twenties (?!). dating in our modern day is an art and science.

s1 e46: what are we optimizing for each day, how does that culminate into a "life well-lived"... and who told us that was right?

in carol's #funemployment, we're rabbit-holing down uncharted territory in existential (but also possibly world-shifting, brain-expanding) thought. this week we ask: what does a 'successful' life look like to us?

watch this week's member-exclusive: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/ueovfck3A7b

what to watch next:

- how to let go of your future plans in your 20s

- learning (and re-learning) our limits

s1 e45: is it a red flag if he has a girl bestie? what about 5, and no guyfriends?! what's the line between yellow and red flag, and what's a definite green flag -- we bring back Roommate #3 (TM) lillian to break it down.

this week's member-exclusive: https://youtu.be/IaFZ_v9zd_Q

what to watch next:

• lillian’s previous episode: to all the boys we've loved before
• ep: sean lin on brotherhood
• justin baldoni’s ted talk
• ep: making guyfriends after college
• creds to: this @famousbachelors reel on IG

s1 e44: SHE'S FUNEMPLOYEDDDDDDD join as she spills the decision making process and FRESH reacts to her last day... intertwined with reflections on how to find motivation at work, coworker friendships, and why people around the world aren't getting married.

join the cinder & carol club for member-exclusive cuts (everything too personal or exposing to include in the episode): https://youtu.be/alCqxeCWAiA

what to listen to next:

• s1 e43: how to let go of your future plans in your 20s
• shoutout to ⁠Honey Jam Podcast⁠!

s1 e43: this one's for all you overachievers, performers, and planners (J on the myers briggs, anyone?) if you're like us, keenly aware that the 20s-30s is a limited time with endless potential, how do you decide what the best use of each day is?

we welcome special guest DYOONNNN to the pod to share a piece of his story - making plans, watching them fail, and picking back up in a completely unexpected way...

what to watch next:

- (mentioned at ~5:00) how to be cracked at your hobbies

s1 e42: this episode is more than just getting the girl. it's more than the pursuit. it's about what a girl (arguably anyone, but we humbly admit our biased perspective) wants when interest is made known -- how to do it, what to say, and what to definitely not say.

do you relate???

other episodes mentioned in this one:

• 04:06 how to let a guy down easy
• 06:30 the reality of dating after graduation
• 14:11 can guys and girls be 'just friends'?

s1 e41: featuring our NEW ROOMMATE lillian :DD. it's a tell-all. our dignities were tucked neatly away for this one. filters off. helmets on. seatbelts fastened because you're in for a ride.

members-only exclusive (our numbers and full, uncut reactions): watch on youtube here.

#dating #nyc #twenties

s1 e40: this week we go unfiltered on what happened in our lives (and lives of close friends) recently, including attempted hinge dates, the duality of man, and AYCE hotpot. it's summer in nyc, and that means there's tea to spill...

what to watch next:

• are you a red flag? & other dating truths in our 20s
• are we being nice or are we flirting?
• making, growing, & sustaining friendships in our 20s

shoutout to macbook guy!! find him @ I Love MacBook Repairs NYC

s1 e39: we welcome back our friend sean! sean is arguably one of the most professional hobbyists we know, so we asked him for advice on challenging oneself in new areas, staying motivated, and getting really good at (even finding fulfillment in) doing new things.

what new hobbies are you trying next?

listen to sean's previous episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6c1GdftXspksQ7PrfEwi42?si=39RQQYzaSoqnuAYUOfa7yg

creds to Nathan Porlucas for the 5 types of hobbies framework: https://www.instagram.com/reels/Da07uGbS1j0/

s1 e38: moving to manhattan might've done some damage... join us as we debrief our recent move for the first time together -- new differences uncovered, ways of handling stress, and a peek into the pros and cons of manhattan. if this isn't self-imposed therapy we don't know what is.

episodes to watch next:

• what you get for $4k in NYC apt hunt
• the "clock" of our 20s
• how to sustain healthy long-term relationships